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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 10:02:04 AM

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You know, a good way would be to go out and just talk to women

Frigging hell. Nothing in life comes easy, does it?

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 10:06:15 AM

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nice abs are a plus ;)

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 10:24:46 AM

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nice abs are a plus ;)

Thank you, Greedy. :-)

But I would gently suggest that the reverse applies, too: that women don't always have a 'common sense' view of men. Or certain men: the ones who write well, for instance. I've seen that on websites like this time and time again.

I'd love to be Peon, but I'm not. I'm only Simon. ;-)

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 10:26:25 AM

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Oh thank goodness, Darling, I thought you were going to say that women needed abs!

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 10:41:01 AM

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I don't really know what women need. I'd hate to be one, that's the only thing of which I'm certain.

I've concluded that, unfortunately for you femdoms, all the ludicrous standards of what is required to be 'feminine' for vanilla woman are magnified tenfold for femdoms. You have a perfect arse and nice big blubbery lips, you qualify as a Goddess with a huge capital 'G'. You don't . . . well . . . .

I find all this stuff so dismal, sometimes.

Bollocks. My mouse has stopped working. I appear to have drenched it in wine.

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 10:46:06 AM

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Would you give a vanilla date money? Let common sense be your guide.

I've really developed a major downer on that idea of 'common sense', Lady Hib. I mean, it's commonly the sense of a certain type of submale that every pic of a half-witted, wallet-snatching 20-year-old woman with unfeasibly big grooblies, wearing too much make-up and demanding "tribute", must be bona fide, isn't it?

I'd say to any malesub: do not, do NOT, let your knowledge of real women get eclipsed by your fantasy-woman. It doesn't matter that you think about your fantasy-woman thousands of times a day - that doesn't constitute knowledge of any real woman.

Heads up: women are, first and foremost, ordinary. They are like your mum and your sisters. Your mum and your sisters are *not* exceptions amongst females.

Great comment. The thing is to find someone, male or female who is extraordinary to YOU. And most people do not understand that because they live in a fantasy, porn fueled world.

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 11:10:20 AM

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Darling, you have WINE? Sigh. Though the last day or so have definitely been single-malt level.

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 11:31:28 AM

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Darling, you have WINE? Sigh. Though the last day or so have definitely been single-malt level.

Gawd, you're lucky. I could so sink a half-bottle of scotch tonight.

Funny. I've also got an urge to spend hours blowing raspberries on some good woman's stomach. Heh. Well, that's one of the crucial reasons for women's existence, eh?

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 12:29:40 PM

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You truly are my dream date, Simon

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 7:10:20 PM

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What is wrong with the women in England? and Rochester for that matter. And California. And where the hell do Panda and Parappa live? there too.

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 7:12:50 PM

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Our real problem is the lack of star trek beaming technology.

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 7:24:33 PM

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amen and A men

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 6/25/2011 8:30:02 PM

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Now there is a thought. The ability to beam your dream man to your door steps in a heartbeat. LOL....is that the next invention in internet dating?

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 7/2/2011 8:52:33 AM

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Basically what do you look for in a sub?

A diploma in hard knocks,
A degree in life,
A PhD in being handsome and wonderful,

Not to forget someone who is:

A witty and original raconteur,
in possession of impeccable dress sense,
self-possessed,
very funny,
good looking,

Someone exactly like ME!

(Did I forget to mention modesty?)

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 7/2/2011 9:44:31 AM

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Women look for compatibility, I think you will find. What they want varies.

But here's some random advice about seeking the company of women, at least based on what I recall from being around your age, and from listening and observing the gripes of my teenage niece and her friends around your age.

* Women like men who are comfortable in their own skin. Like who you are.
* Women like men who listen to them and ask questions about them, and are clearly interested in them as a person. Not a sexual conquest or kink provider.
* Women don't like men who brag or talk to much about themselves or seem like they are trying too hard (my niece describes this as guys who are cute but "really awkward.")
* Women like men who are good at something (capability is sexy).

Since you are young, you have plenty of time and options to work on things that will make you feel good about yourself - exercise, hobbies, outdoors. Try to get into social situations that are small groups with both women and men. If you don't have a good guy friend as a wing man, get one - one that will offset your more introverted qualities.

Instead of waiting for Ms. Kinky Right (and do yourself the disservice of something like 1 date a year, based on sheer numbers), work on having fun with the opposite sex - first dates, first kisses, hit and misses. The comfort you develop in dating will benefit you and you can do this easily while you are young.

These are just my opinions. What I look for in a sub (bottom) is a whole 'nother can of worms.

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 7/3/2011 10:37:51 AM

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What I look for in a man is : understanding that I am not a generic mock up of women in general, which makes this question null and void. Why? Because, what I look for is not what the woman in the next profile over will be looking for, necessarily.
I think most of us want to be seen as persons with real personalities, and, for the men to be the same, though - and, for the man to listen, act respectfully, and, to be truthful.

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 7/9/2011 1:55:55 PM

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You truly are my dream date, Simon

Hmmm ... I thought as much!

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 7/9/2011 2:07:21 PM

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Ooh, ooh! Transporter beams AND replicators! Dommes and Peons for all!

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Our real problem is the lack of star trek beaming technology.

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 7/9/2011 2:09:28 PM

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Ooh, ooh! Transporter beams AND replicators! Dommes and Peons for all!

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Our real problem is the lack of star trek beaming technology.

ROFL !

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RE: What do you look for in a guy(sub) overall - 7/9/2011 2:19:51 PM

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