LafayetteLady
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Babies can be damaged before the fetus is viable, so do we prosecute only drug use after the the fetus is viable? In other words, if you use prior to finding out you are knocked up is it okay? Can you use until the baby is viable, because it isn't a person with rights until viability? This is important to your entire viability claim, because you can damage a fetus before viability. But if the fetus isn't viable it has no standing under the law, so you can't prosecute for using at a point in time where the woman can still choose abortion. Yes, they can be damaged before viability. They can also be damaged after viability. The more a woman uses, the more risk. It is the feeling of most of the medical profession that what you do before you know... well... you didnt know. Once you do, you now take responsibility for that unborn child. The option to abort is there, up until viability. Pregnant women know this, its not like its suddenly sprung upon them. The risks are well known. There was a case in Wisconsin where a woman went in to deliver, and the baby was born with a blood alcohol level of 0.3. At the time, legal intoxication for adults was 0.1. I believe the case is still before their Supreme Court. She told the hospital staff she wanted to go home and drink more so she could kill the baby. The baby went up for adoption. Long term care will be extremely expensive. All because this woman wouldnt stop drinking. Ok, there are many pages and my connection is soooo slow, I just can't bear to go back and look at your position, sorry. Do you agree or disagree that this woman should be prosecuted for her actions? In my opinion, the situation you talk about above fits the whole "depraved heart" criteria. She wantonly and purposely attempted to cause the death of her child. The fact that she probably was spreading her legs in an alcoholic blackout and didn't "intend" to get pregnant isn't a defense. The money she likely spent on alcohol would have been more than enough to pay for a early abortion. Many people have talked about how if a woman doesn't want the baby, she can "simply" put it up for adoption. On what planet do people believe adoption is "easy?" I am an adopted child and obviously, I'm glad that my biological "greenhouse" didn't have an abortion (although in 1964 it wasn't legal). I have no desire to search for this woman (notice the term "mother" is never being used), but I have frequently hoped that whatever caused her to make the choice to put me up for adoption rather than keep me was something that she never regretted. I hoped that she never looked at every child she came across and wondered if it was the child she gave birth to. What surprises me is the number of women here who are taking the "just put the baby up for adoption" position are women who have children. They know what pregnancy can do to their bodies, the possible health risks, etc. Many also couldn't imagine life without their children. How, therefore, can they think anyone else, even if not wanting or feeling able to raise a child, would not potentially suffer long term psychological effects from such a decision. Adoption does not have closure. In today's culture, even a woman who places her child up for adoption and is content with her decision, has to wonder every day whether that child is going to come searching for her later on in life, possibly disrupting the life she built for herself after giving up the baby, and having to answer questions about "why" that she would rather not get into. These are rhetorical comments, by the way. Unless you have been adopted or placed a child of yours up for adoption, all the psychology courses in the world are not going to make you compentant to know how this would feel. If a woman chooses an abortion, she may grieve, she may have guilt over her decision, but it is possible to get closure. You may wonder at passing children that if you had made a different decision what would it have been like, but you are never going to wonder if they are the child you gave up. You never need to worry that the child will show up on your doorstep one day asking questions or wanting to be in your life. I am pro-choice. I believe every woman, as an individual, has to decide for herself what is right for her. But I'll be damned if I'm going to cut a woman slack when for whatever reason, she acts irresponsibly knowing the damage that can be done during her pregnancy. I completely understand where WyldHrt is coming from but this is the 21st century, there is no saying, "I didn't know what would happen." One solution is to take out of the current legislation that medicaid won't pay for terminating a pregnancy, and to make health insurance plans cover the procedure. By not doing so, the federal government is going against Roe v. Wade in the sense that they are saying it is a woman's right, but for poor women, making it impossible for those women to exercise that right. What is happening in Kansas is deplorable. The state is violating, through regulation, federal law. They are preventing the women of that state are being denied, via making it unavailed, their right to terminate unwanted pregnancies. Hopefully, there are people in that state who have the guts to file suit against Kansas for doing that.
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