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RE: Uniforms - 7/19/2011 10:42:16 AM   
BadmanBanana


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Status: offline 		I have a particular fetish for women in super heroine uniforms/costumes. Specifically a slutty costume version of Supergirl. It expresses power and beauty with a lil red skirt and a S sheild on her chest. I am a Dom so I like the power exchange in the role play you can have with that as well. Making her weak and eventually turning her into my own lil super slut sex slave...

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RE: Uniforms - 7/19/2011 10:19:01 PM   
RaspberryLemon


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Status: offline 		Certain uniforms have connotations that allude to dominance/submission. For instance a maid uniform obviously indicates service or submission. Something like police or military on the other hand indicates power, i.e. dominance.

For me, I love military uniforms for the above reasons, but also because my Master is a former Marine, so that is an element in my enjoyment of it as well.

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RE: Uniforms - 7/19/2011 11:49:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Cleaning the house as a french maid is much more enjoyable for him to watch than cleaning as an elf.


Curses. And you had seemed so promising.

I guess I'll have to get my head of elf household kink action from somewhere elfse.




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RE: Uniforms - 7/19/2011 11:56:47 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Decent question SAMHAIN09..

Personally I wouldn't place "uniforms" particularly high on my kink list, but I do like incorporating uniforms for a variety of reasons.

And I would say that "control" is definitely one of my thangs... So even if it's not a "uniform" I do like to dress my playmates.

So the reasons I can think of are :

1) Dressing a certain way (whether it's a uniform or not) implies a couple of things to me - first, it requires a little effort, second it's an act of submission.

2) Some people enjoy the power dynamic associated with a specific uniform

3) Roleplay is a way of exploring kinks and interests within a certain set of boundaries

I've only had one relationship that was very centred around uniforms - A pretty senior manager in a pharmaceutical company had a huge thing for school uniforms. They were always 100% authentic, and she went totally into role (I taught her french over the course of our relationship... assignments, tests etc). For her it was about the distinction between her vanilla life and her kinky life - Putting on the uniform represented that transition. Out of uniform, she was one of the least "sublike" people you'd ever meet - but once she'd put it on, she was a delicious kinky cp loving thing.

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RE: Uniforms - 7/25/2011 8:01:59 PM   
jennylandis


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Status: offline 		i think uniforms are a turn on, if they are done well. those Halloween store uniforms do not do it for me at all. i think some uniforms are easier to make than others - it's not too hard to dress up as a cowboy/cowgirl, or flight attendant, but harder to dress someone up as a fireman or a cop realistically.

And yes, i agree with someone who said business clothes are a uniform. They are sexy as hell (in my opinion) and of course, easy to assemble. in short, well made uniforms rock!

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RE: Uniforms - 7/25/2011 8:30:26 PM   
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As i am not really attracted to uniforms i can only answer so far. Tom of Finland draw (i think starting in the fifties) some very sexy men in clothing resemblening the uniform of the us american navy soldiers, for me the drawings are quite sexy.
Uniforms per se are often associated with power and i believe that is the attraction.

I personally drew the line here in Berlin, as at an open to the public SM gathering in a club, 2 people in SS uniforms attentended, with all the insignia, which is not only banned in Germany by law, but what i am not able to take, due to my family. It became - some years back - a very hot topic in the german scene and the pro and contra groups are in their trenches since then.

Would be interesting to have the discussion anew.
They take that ban pretty seriously too, or did in the 80s.  I had a friend stationed there during the cold war, sent off to another country for WWII models to build...tanks, planes etc.  I forget where, I think he ordered them from England.  Along the way, someone opened the boxes and took all the decals out for the German models. 

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RE: Uniforms - 7/31/2011 5:06:18 AM   
kinkyslutdoll


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Status: offline 		I like uniforms too, but it sounds like the opposite of a lot of people on here. I'm generally attracted to the kind of men who'd never wear a uniform (professors, computer nerds, bikers, rednecks, old men), but am in turn turned on by the idea of them forcing me to be in a uniform. Forced to be in a skimpy, submissive, sexy uniform is of course super-hot, but I'm also into wearing professional women's uniforms too (nurse, businesswoman, maid, officer) and then roleplaying being seduced and perverted in them by the unkempt un-uniformed man ;-).

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RE: Uniforms - 7/31/2011 5:17:03 AM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: crazyml


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Cleaning the house as a french maid is much more enjoyable for him to watch than cleaning as an elf.


Curses. And you had seemed so promising.

I guess I'll have to get my head of elf household kink action from somewhere elfse.





Trust me...the french maid look is much more visually appealing than the elf uniform of jeans and a t shirt.
Although it's much harder to scrub the tub, wash the carpet and clean the truck in heels.


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RE: Uniforms - 7/31/2011 12:26:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Cleaning the house as a french maid is much more enjoyable for him to watch than cleaning as an elf.


Curses. And you had seemed so promising.

I guess I'll have to get my head of elf household kink action from somewhere elfse.





Trust me...the french maid look is much more visually appealing than the elf uniform of jeans and a t shirt.
Although it's much harder to scrub the tub, wash the carpet and clean the truck in heels.



I don't know, some elves are pretty visually appealing....



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RE: Uniforms - 8/8/2011 3:24:54 PM   
LeesaLove


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Status: offline 		A man in military uniform, especially a Marine drives me crazy. They command obediance in those uniforms. ah, so hot.

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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 1:16:18 PM   
stoni23


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Status: offline 		I think a lot of submissives like to see their Dominants in uniforms because it's hawt : ). However, in my own personal experience, very few Dominants/Tops/Masters/Mistresses will play dress up in real life scenes.

My last Ma'am told me all the time, "You're the one doing the dressing up, not me. I prefer to remain comfortable."

There is always the exceptions of course, and professional Dominants are almost always playing in something shiny. But that sort of cold connection is NOT what I'm looking for, so I'm good without the visual appeal of my Dominant beating me in pvc : ).

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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 2:00:59 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Yeah but did you spot the gag... I said "somewhere elfse" insead of "somewhere else" - "elfse" .... geddit???? <chortles quietly to himself>

Oh my, I haz comedy

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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 2:15:42 PM   
LanceHughes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarthVaderOfLove

quote:

ORIGINAL: SabreToothFemme

As i am not really attracted to uniforms i can only answer so far. Tom of Finland draw (i think starting in the fifties) some very sexy men in clothing resemblening the uniform of the us american navy soldiers, for me the drawings are quite sexy.
Uniforms per se are often associated with power and i believe that is the attraction.

I personally drew the line here in Berlin, as at an open to the public SM gathering in a club, 2 people in SS uniforms attentended, with all the insignia, which is not only banned in Germany by law, but what i am not able to take, due to my family. It became - some years back - a very hot topic in the german scene and the pro and contra groups are in their trenches since then.

Would be interesting to have the discussion anew.
They take that ban pretty seriously too, or did in the 80s.  I had a friend stationed there during the cold war, sent off to another country for WWII models to build...tanks, planes etc.  I forget where, I think he ordered them from England.  Along the way, someone opened the boxes and took all the decals out for the German models. 


And the "dust-up" when Prince Harry wore some Nazi insignia to a fancy-dress party.
Here's a picture and the apology. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/4170083.stm

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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 2:43:43 PM   
LanceHughes


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Tom of Finland  :::SIGH:::

Many uniforms, but as was pointed out, ALL his men have the same uniform of muscles, hair, and faces.  I found this exception.  Ladies, you could be the young'un without too much trouble.

http://www.eroticartcollection.com/Tom_of_Finland/Tom_of_Finland_16.html

ETA: Part of the myth of the Old Gurad is that retuning World War II men started the motorcycle clubs and that led directly to uniforms such as you see to your immediate left. LOL!

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For almost every gay man, almost every uniform is HAWT.  I've had jump suits so long, I've worn them out.  The Army / Navy surplus store is a favorite hang-out of many of us here in Denver.  You KNOW you've been there alot when they greet you by your first name.

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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 5:00:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love uniforms, and at one point, had a very extensive collection.  (no Nazi uniforms--for many personal reasons)

The uniform depended on the scene-- different uniforms have different purposes.
School uniforms, for example, have a completely different effect than say a uniform of someone in authority, such as cop or military. I used to wear lederhosen and bundhosen; few things say "boy" like knee-high britches. 

Uniforms for me performed the same "function" that sexy lingerie performs for others--it made me feel sexy--and turned on the people I was with.

Unfortunately for me, when I started wearing uniforms for my work, it killed my uniform fetish.  When I done a uniform for work, I still feel a sense of honor (and yeah, I still feel sexy in it!) but I feel a sense of obligation to honor that uniform and what it represents, and I no longer wear those types of uniforms for kink. 

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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 5:06:02 PM   
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Something I have been wondering why do some people use uniforms in their relationships? What's the attraction for a Dominate and whats the attraction for a Submissive?
The word is Dominant!

Sorry folks, but it is really getting annoying as hell!


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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 5:50:41 PM   
LanceHughes


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ORIGINAL: crazyml
Yeah but did you spot the gag... I said "somewhere elfse" insead of "somewhere else" - "elfse" .... geddit???? <chortles quietly to himself>

Oh my, I haz comedy

Actually, I did spot the gag.
I chortled quietly to myself. 

But, I always thought that if you HAZ to explain it, maybe it wasn't so funny.
<chortles quietly to hims-elf>
Geddit????



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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 5:57:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hausboy

I love uniforms, and at one point, had a very extensive collection.  (no Nazi uniforms--for many personal reasons)

The uniform depended on the scene-- different uniforms have different purposes.
School uniforms, for example, have a completely different effect than say a uniform of someone in authority, such as cop or military. I used to wear lederhosen and bundhosen; few things say "boy" like knee-high britches. 

Uniforms for me performed the same "function" that sexy lingerie performs for others--it made me feel sexy--and turned on the people I was with.

Unfortunately for me, when I started wearing uniforms for my work, it killed my uniform fetish.  When I don a uniform for work, I still feel a sense of honor (and yeah, I still feel sexy in it!) but I feel a sense of obligation to honor that uniform and what it represents, and I no longer wear those types of uniforms for kink. 

After having visited you at the time you had to don a uniform (well, actually a couple-three different ones) I understand perfectly.

I thought you were DAMN hawt in them, but you noticed I never once made a pass at you.  I respected and honored the uniform as well as the man wearing it.

On the other hand, could I get a copy of that pic of you in uniform?  That large-ish one on the right as you enter your office?

NOPE!  Just kidding!  Honest!

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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 6:15:43 PM   
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After having visited you at the time you had to don a uniform (well, actually a couple-three different ones) I understand perfectly.

I thought you were DAMN hawt in them, but you noticed I never once made a pass at you.  I respected and honored the uniform as well as the man wearing it.

On the other hand, could I get a copy of that pic of you in uniform?  That large-ish one on the right as you enter your office?

NOPE!  Just kidding!  Honest!


thanks for the compliment...  

As for making a pass...I'm glad you didn't.  Gentleman as you may be....note that unwanted sexual advances in my house are met with a very ungentlemanly and unceremonious exit through the closest window, regardless whether or not aforementioned window is open.

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RE: Uniforms - 8/10/2011 7:16:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hausboy

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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes


After having visited you at the time you had to don a uniform (well, actually a couple-three different ones) I understand perfectly.

I thought you were DAMN hawt in them, but you noticed I never once made a pass at you.  I respected and honored the uniform as well as the man wearing it.

On the other hand, could I get a copy of that pic of you in uniform?  That large-ish one on the right as you enter your office?

NOPE!  Just kidding!  Honest!


thanks for the compliment...  

As for making a pass...I'm glad you didn't.  Gentleman as you may be....note that unwanted sexual advances in my house are met with a very ungentlemanly and unceremonious exit through the closest window, regardless whether or not aforementioned window is open.


We really should let people know that the above was worked out WAAAAaaaay before I arrived - arrived anywhere near ANY of your windows. LOL!

Thanks again for your hospitality! 

ETA: What are your cats doing ?  Oh, wait, that's a different thread altogether. LOL!

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