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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:58:12 AM   
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Ok the reason thing "A" has had to go on these trips etc, is it was court ordered. To join the kids of the community, they clean and get rewarded with trips. GREAT. The reason being she missed 45 days of school.... two weeks of having flu b and strep at the same time and a month from her tonsilectomy/adnoid... however it was only approved for two weeks... so she got 90 hours community service.

i know guys what your thinking and id say the same damn thing, and i greatly appreciate everyones advice, it does help strengthen me, ALOT. Now ive pissed off the house and Master too. Now I get to get rid of the cats, for my punishment. The cats didnt do anything i did! And i meant to do it. I was at my wits end, trying to figure out what to do, i had to turn somewhere, and being in a forum of people that mostly i havent met was the best way i could think of to handle it. What can i do, my hands are fucking tied! The house has to be perfect, i have to get this degree so i can work and not live off of 850 a month IF i lose everything. I have to be in a quiet dark room when the migraines hit , hence the bedroom. And nobody gives a flying fuck in this house! I am very mad and extremely sad that those i loved the most and would have done anything in the world for, think of me the way they do, treat me the way they do. I wanna scream its not right, but than again the world isnt fucking fair!

Tell you what.  If I was your Master, I'd probably be damn pissed, too.  There isn't a thing on this thread that I couldn't have handled as the authority figure in My house.  Twenty flipping pages because nobody in the house can wash a dish?  If I couldn't handle that, I'm not in any position to have a submissive in the first place. 

The group trip thing is bullshit.  What if your car wouldn't start that morning or had a flat?  It wasn't going to be the end of the world.  All you had to do is call and say very simply that you were unable to drive Thing A in that day.  If there are consequences from that, let them fall to Thing A, since it is her fault.  It teaches her that her mouthing off is a cause and effect proposition.  Believe Me, it works. 

Sitting here whining on this thread doesn't do jack.  You have to actually *do* something.  Do you expect the kids to raise themselves or have respect for you just because you ask for it?  Got news for you.  It doesn't work that way.  Right now, YOUR KIDS (not Art's) are learning how you should be treated.  You'd better think about that, because when your kids are sixteen and eighteen, you're not going to have any chance to go back and teach them how to respect you when they are already out of hand.


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:00:07 AM   
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and on that note one family member said this morning as i am getting up early to wake them up for a group trip, that the only thing i do in this house is clean our bedroom! THE ONLY THING?! Not getting any sleep and getting up just to drive you 30 minutes for your field trip,


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Ok the reason thing "A" has had to go on these trips etc, is it was court ordered.


Do you see why you get the complaints that you're not making any sense? Fields trips are a privilege, court ordered events are mandatory. When you don't frame something properly, you don't get back useful info. Garbage In, Garbage Out.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:00:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

Ok the reason thing "A" has had to go on these trips etc, is it was court ordered. To join the kids of the community, they clean and get rewarded with trips. GREAT. The reason being she missed 45 days of school.... two weeks of having flu b and strep at the same time and a month from her tonsilectomy/adnoid... however it was only approved for two weeks... so she got 90 hours community service.

i know guys what your thinking and id say the same damn thing, and i greatly appreciate everyones advice, it does help strengthen me, ALOT. Now ive pissed off the house and Master too. Now I get to get rid of the cats, for my punishment. The cats didnt do anything i did! And i meant to do it. I was at my wits end, trying to figure out what to do, i had to turn somewhere, and being in a forum of people that mostly i havent met was the best way i could think of to handle it. What can i do, my hands are fucking tied! The house has to be perfect, i have to get this degree so i can work and not live off of 850 a month IF i lose everything. I have to be in a quiet dark room when the migraines hit , hence the bedroom. And nobody gives a flying fuck in this house! I am very mad and extremely sad that those i loved the most and would have done anything in the world for, think of me the way they do, treat me the way they do. I wanna scream its not right, but than again the world isnt fucking fair!




Tammy,
Think very carefully on this:
Art says the only conflict he has with you is dishes left in the sink overnight.
That is the only thing and that you are the one who is being perfectionistic.

I suspect that is a less than true statement.

Why are you bieng punished by having to remove the cats if he is happy with your housekeeping?

He has talked about how wonderful you are in this thread, and I suspect that you are hearing something very different.
In which case *red flag* that is abusive behaviour: to hide who one is from the real world; put up a false front and then try to punish you for making him look bad.

You did not make him look bad. He doesn't need any help in that department.

It was not a secret that you were struggling at home, was it?

So, why are you being punished?

If he was not helping you to find a solution then he is part of the problem.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:00:54 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:01:42 AM   
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Now ive pissed off the house and Master too. Now I get to get rid of the cats, for my punishment. The cats didnt do anything i did!




Right behind ya on that one.

K.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:06:17 AM   
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Now ive pissed off the house and Master too. Now I get to get rid of the cats, for my punishment. The cats didnt do anything i did!


I'm sure you're leaving a lot out, but as written this sounds
abusive

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:09:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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Now ive pissed off the house and Master too. Now I get to get rid of the cats, for my punishment. The cats didnt do anything i did!


I'm sure you're leaving a lot out, but as written this sounds
abusive



Yes. The whole scenario is fucked beyond belief.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:10:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		see i dont see it as abusive, i see it as these are my rules and you will follow them, however there seems to be about half the house trying to tear down what im trying so desperately to build up. And on top of all that i have going on i have to deal with that. How do you do that?

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:11:10 AM   
barelynangel


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Status: offline 		Well, if the cats aren't being taken care due to everything and are extra responsibility, then i can see why getting rid of them may help the situation even if it will be hard to get rid of them and it may seem like a punishment,

Why is getting rid of cats abusive? 


The fact she is writing of it on here like this i have a feeling there is more behind it  but i am sure she was hoping people would see it as being abusive.  she sounds like her kids, trying to manipulate the situation so sympathy is turned back to her instead of everyone trying to smack some sense into her so to speak.


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:12:01 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		There are RULES? Only for you, though, right?

You really have dug yourself a pit here, haven't you. What's next, you will be on food rations?

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:13:07 AM   
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It is arty's.

Why the fuck can't YOU see THAT?!?!?


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:14:31 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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As a slave, it is not your responsibility, to do the building.

It is arty's.

Why the fuck can't YOU see THAT?!?!?



Why should she, her "master" doesn't.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:16:13 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:20:37 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:20:54 AM   
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How do you do that?


You don't want answers.  There is no magic wand, no pill, nothing that anyone here can help you with.   The one person who can help, either isn't interested in helping you and has washed his hands of your drama, or, doesn't know how.  

It's a one woman show, and the curtain is coming down.  Every single bit of advise that has been given to you that would require an effort on your part, has been ignored.   You want an easy fix, "boo hoo, look at me, please won't someone save me from this situation, that I created".    Someone needs to give you a kick to the ass, and not in a fun way.  I think it's too late for your kids, but maybe if they removed the cats, at least something from that house could have a peaceful life.


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:23:20 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:23:33 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Except the cats will prolly be euthanized if they are not rehomed. Sad, they are hardly guilty parties.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:28:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		It is sad, the entire situation is beyond words.   Threatening to remove two innocent animals as punishment, shows me he really has no clue as to the whole mastery thing.   Whats next once the cats are gone?  But then...we don't really know that this was said, since things in this thread have a habit of changing midstream to suit a need.    

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:29:09 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 11:31:52 AM   
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There are RULES? Only for you, though, right?

You really have dug yourself a pit here, haven't you. What's next, you will be on food rations?


MUCH like she did here, Hib....
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2833779/mpage_1/tm.htm

I think the above thread is a bigger hoot than the "Tap, tap" thread!

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