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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:07:51 AM   
AlwaysLisa


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ok now im sounding pathetic ill shut up now. i think ill buy a punching bag this evening.


Why bother.  Your doing quite well as the resident punching bag.  Who needs a man to beat you, your self administering.

First, I'm starting to think this is all bs.  Your stories change like the wind, I can't be certain that Art is even there, let alone sitting quietly by and watching you implode.  Unless this is your form of entertainment, did the cable go out on the television?  

You refuse to listen or take note of the multitude of suggestions, which leads me to believe you and Art are racking up "replies", for giggles.   People that want help, find it.   People that want to wallow, dig deep holes.   Yours is almost to China by now.

Enjoy.


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:10:54 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:12:16 AM   
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am i wrong but dont you have to be dead to be a martyr? maybe im thinking of something else. and i really am not trying to get the poor pity me act, that is bullshit, i can stand on my own two feet..... just wishing i had somebody who thinks omg let me help you, freaking occassionally!


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:12:50 AM   
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exactly it shouldnt be so freaking complicated but some freaking how it is! and its my fault. that and about a billion other things....


You are basking in the glow of all this attention. I seriously felt bad for ya 22 pages ago. Now, all I can say is, you made your bed, now lie in it....or don't lie in it, continue to sit and type and whine and enjoy the attention.

You have had so much good advice on this thread, but your whining is worse now than it was 23 pages ago.

Other than to come by this thread and laugh my ass off at you, you will get no more attention from me.

I swear I really wonder if you and Art are the same person and since the Gorean boards got tired of playing, you came here.



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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:14:07 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:14:57 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:16:09 AM   
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Nothing in the world is better than a tongueless lesbian.


What about a 3' tall blonde with no teeth and a flat spot on top of her head for your beer?

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:16:38 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:16:44 AM   
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Does anyone else think this is getting as good as the "Tap Tap Tap" thread?


Great, another thread to read! lol


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:17:30 AM   
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Nothing in the world is better than a tongueless lesbian.


What about a 3' tall blonde with no teeth and a flat spot on top of her head for your beer?


Wouldnt she need a cupholder, or the beer would get all shaky/spilly?

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:17:34 AM   
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Yours is almost to China by now.


Do NOT send them this way, you nasty buggers.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:18:18 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:20:16 AM   
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and on that note one family member said this morning as i am getting up early to wake them up for a group trip, that the only thing i do in this house is clean our bedroom! THE ONLY THING?! Not getting any sleep and getting up just to drive you 30 minutes for your field trip, meanwhile making everyone coffee...not enough for 2 hours of sleep. Not to mention the kitchen has been cleaned by me ever since that person joined the group which is the members job! Had another family member clean that family members room because it wasnt getting done, so they lost their room, laptop and cell phone (the electronics they had gotten back for a whole day!) And the ones that were awake to here this nonsense agreed! I say its a bunch of spoiled rotten brats following whomever wants to blame me! Fucking fustrating! and yes i am pissed! Ready to pack up the kids to their aunts and go live in a cave somewhere!

ok sorry to rant.......


Tammy,

Your authority dynamic with your kids is an issue: you have none.
Remember my suggestion that you seek therapy with them?
You need a family therapist to work with you and help you re-establish that you are the adult in charge (especially since Art has made it clear that he isn't).

So, if the kids aren't doing their chores then why are they going places?
All of their electronics should be locked away.
No visits with friends.

It is a family that they are a part of and and part of being in a family is participating in the upkeep of the home in which you live.
Part of being a family is that mom is not a maid, nor a taxi service and they have no right to demand that of you. They can ask; you can say no.

And this again isn't about blame or fault, but it is about personal responsibility. You know there is a problem. Wringing your hands and saying there is a problem isn't going to fix the problem.
Blaming yourself isn't going to fix the problem. Neither will blaming anyone else.
Hiding in bed or at school isn't going to fix the problem.

You need a therapist.
And the family unit needs family therapy as well.

I am exhausted just reading about your conflicts.
Get the professional help you need to find a solution so you aren't staying in the problem.

You know as well as I do that stress is making all of your physical issues at least 10 times worse.
So why would you be staying in a situation you know is literally making yourself ill?

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:20:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		But when you live under the Master's house and you stop doing everything that is expected of you, where does that leave you , when you have no family no money nothing.....


ok so there it is....

what do you do then.
find a shelter?


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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:23:00 AM   
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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:23:50 AM   
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Sorry. Game over, gal.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:24:01 AM   
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I hope the OP is being smart enough to put some money aside so that when the price becomes too much, she and her kids don't end up in a shelter. 



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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:24:13 AM   
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But when you live under the Master's house and you stop doing everything that is expected of you, where does that leave you , when you have no family no money nothing.....

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:25:35 AM   
AlwaysLisa


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Status: offline 		I thought you were on Disability?  Find a shelter if need be, (I think this has already been suggested).  Disability doesn't pay fantastically, but you can find a cheap apt.   You were also given ideas on how to seek help.  Instead of spending time here, search online for assistance.  Or..not.

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RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 - 7/8/2011 10:25:54 AM   
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Staying with someone because you cant afford to leave isnt any life for you or your children. Go to a shelter, claim welfare and or find a job. In the long run things tend to work out, you just have to get through the short term.

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