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RE: Giving up their Dom status - 5/18/2006 3:31:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I'm just curious about something and I'd like to get some different views on it.

There have been a few posts here about Dom's asking Dominant women to give up their Dominant status to become their submissives.

I'm wondering why do these men believe that is something so easily done?


Because in their mind it is just the 'natural' state (therefore easier) for a woman to be submissive and so, to be given the unparallelled opportunity to submit to one of his stature would just make the transition even easier. 

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and secondly, why do they think a woman would even entertain such an idea?


Because he, in his God-like wisdom, knows that she is "really tired of entertaining such a contrary notion that a woman could be a dominant force in any way.  Poor thing...such a heavy load for someone who is, after all, just a woman."

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Thirdly would these same men be willing to give up their Dom status to submit to a woman?


~sigh~...if only they just could.  But the world is full of poor, misguided women who need to be brought back to the side of light where the truth and reason of man's superiority reigns.



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RE: Giving up their Dom status - 5/18/2006 3:45:20 AM   
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Men think that they are the "gods", they think all Women are supposed to bow down before them, and as feastie said, some do believe all women are submissive and just waiting for the right "Dom" to come along. In most cases they find out wrong in the end. In this day and age, women have taken a come back and have become the Dominant race.

Women aren't a "race", they're a gender.

Many high class Pro Dommes will tell you, Women are always higher than a man.

If you find anyone telling you that either gender is "always higher", you've found an idiot, and a gender bigot. It's no different nor better to say "all men are this" or "all women are that" than it is to say "all blacks like fried chicken and watermelon", or "all jews are greedy".

So in the case you are a head slave to a female, and She has submissives, in most cases The Domme will tell you female subs. you may hit a male sub for getting out of place (I.e8 Spank them) But they will tell you, NEVER to hit another female sub, that the Domme will do it. And honestly i full heartedly agree. Many Men today are just in for sex anyway. There are very few true Dominant males who in the end are not in it for their sexual satisfaction. Where as females have a more open look at what true Dominantion and Submission is. This is my oponion, and i do hope it made sense to you.

What's wrong with sex? Shouldn't dominants....... *watches clouds appear, hears shrieking and crying from offstage*........dominate?? If this includes sex, what's the problem?


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RE: Giving up their Dom status - 5/18/2006 3:56:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant
Because we alllllllllll suckled at our mother's breast and since we are all trying to get back to being that baby...


Hmmm...I was bottle fed. 


See????  That's why you have a hard time embracing your 'natural' bisexuality.


LOL

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RE: Giving up their Dom status - 5/18/2006 7:13:13 AM   
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Many folks have already hit the nail on head with the sexual aspects of this attitude. Just figured I'd relate a couple of occurrences this thread brought to mind...

A few years ago at Paddles here in NYC, I had arrived earlier than my friends. While I was waiting for the group, a "dom" approached me. A real studly example of male virility with the worst comb over on this planet.  He sleazes up to me, trying to initiate a conversation. Although I had no attraction to this clueless individual, I tried to be tactful about it. As it always happens, he came around to the subject of orientation. When I declared my preference, he immediately asked me if I was interested in switching, to see how it feels from the other side. I gave him a frosty look. I informed him I was waiting for friends and not interested. Needless to say, he was persistent. I had to finally tell him to shove off. Later on that evening, I saw him trolling the club after any female that wasn't accompanied by a man. I so wanted a shower after this experience. YUCK.

I received several emails from a "dom" that gave new definition to being clueless. This "special" hunk of male pulchritude made my eyes water. He kept changing profiles after I kept blocking/deleting/reporting him. These emails were along the lines of: "u r so fuking hot, u shuld be bent over & sukking my cok 5-7X a day!!! then i wil ram my big blak dick up ur whit ashol as a reward!!" As an extra perk, he provided pics to illustrate just what I'd be getting. Oh yum.  I admit it, I broke down. I surrendered to my inner bitch and told him in very colorful terms just how appealing these offers were. BUT! I did feel immensely better after that! *snickers*

Now if I had a dime for every guy that thought every woman into this lifestyle was bisexual, especially dommes, I could've retired years ago. Heaven forbid I should be strictly dickly. I'm smashing their poor perceptions of me in pvc head to toe, face locked with some scantily clad babe. Oy...

Maybe I should let The Sisters (my single-tails) do the talking for me? *chuckling*


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...





Bella

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