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heartcream -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 12:04:07 PM)
Let us give credit to the author here: Elie Wiesel, holocaust survivor, author and winner of 1986 Nobel Prize for Peace: "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference." (Oct. 1986)

windchymes -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 12:05:42 PM)
I think wallowing in that vat of Hershey's syrup would have helped me laugh harder [:D]

whatisthewhat -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 12:16:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jaspersky Ok I have a problem, I had a dom, he was amazing and perfect to me in everyway (mind you this was awhile ago and my view on him has changed dyrastically) and he left me, just left with no warning at all. He goes and dates and stuff that really vanilla but around the same time every year he tries coming back and tries to be with me again and we get close then he just leaves again and everytime it gets worse and worse on me. I even have a new Sir now and my old dom still has power over my emotions to the point of just seeing him makes me want to cry and beg for him to come back. I dont know what to do, I want this connection I have with him to go away so I can please my Sir and be happy with him but the dom just keeps ruining everything for me and ive been looking back on it recently of what me and him did and i noticed, he really just treated me like a piece of sh*t and really didnt care about me in the least except I was a way to get his rocks off. He used to hurt me worse than any dom should hurt their sub but I still loved him no matter what he did. I want to stop feeling anything but hate for him. Can anyone help me? I know (somewhat) of what you are going through. I had a Dom, my first Dom, and I was ready to devote myself and my life to him. He was in no position to receive such devotion, and yet, I continued to go back to him, even when I had another Dom. No more, ever. The former Dom did not deserve me, and he never will. However, it took me a couple of years to realize that and separate myself from him. Look. He's unavailable. Unless you want an unavailable man, you need to leave, no matter how strong that bond once was.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 1:42:33 PM)
Prescription for a most thorough wallow: 1 bottle of your favorite liquor or wine 1 bag of your favorite chocolate 1 bag of your favorite crispy snack Your all time favorite heart break CD, example: Hank Williams Greatest Hits Large box Klenex (not optional) Mix well, but don't stir.

CastlesKT -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 3:35:55 PM)
OMG they have a chocolate spa treament at the Hershey Hotel... Sort of like a mud bath but chocolate... Now that would really be wallowing... [:D] quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Is there any ice cream or cheese cake involved in the wallow? Or what about Hershey's syrup? I wouldn't mind wallowing in Hershey's syrup.

windchymes -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 4:42:54 PM)
Road trip!!!! [:D]

sexyred1 -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 5:44:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CastlesKT OMG they have a chocolate spa treament at the Hershey Hotel... Sort of like a mud bath but chocolate... Now that would really be wallowing... [:D] quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Is there any ice cream or cheese cake involved in the wallow? Or what about Hershey's syrup? I wouldn't mind wallowing in Hershey's syrup. I went to the Hershey spa. The spa treatment is to die for. Just walking in, the smell alone makes you swoon, or wallow, whatever the case may be. Remember guys, the OP is 18, so us older and wiser gals have given her the benefit of our experience, but really, did any of us listen at age 18 to anyone? The drama was the thing, no?

LaTigresse -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 5:52:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes Road trip!!!! [:D] I'm in!!!

sexyred1 -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 5:56:38 PM)
Now THAT would be a fun road trip although not sure the Hershey Hotel which is kind of in a conservative area would be ready for the ladies of CM!

Missokyst -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 6:00:48 PM)
I had the same problem with my X. No matter what I could not get passed my feelings for him. Recently I discovered an unusual cure. When I go to sleep at night I try to focus my dreams to something which hits all the right cues for me. I dream of holding a child who needs comforting. Swear to god, every time I wake up my arms are wrapped tight around my pillow and I have a smile on my face which stays for hours. I no longer feel tempted by the X.

sexyred1 -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 6:07:42 PM)
Wow, that is a very cool idea. I wish I could focus my dreams. Recently, I have been having really weird and scary dreams....

poise -> RE: Emotionally Bound (7/1/2011 7:03:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes Yep. Find a nice pair of big girl panties and put them on. You are the only one who has power over your emotions. You say HE has power over you, you want the connection to go away, HE keeps ruining everything, HE treated you like a piece of shit, HE hurt you, you don't want to feel anything but hate, and you can't be happy and please the new guy until the old one has magically disappeared and you're suddenly emotionally mature enough to handle an adult relationship.....blah blah blah blah blah. Everything you said absolves YOU from all responsibility, no, it's ALL HIS FAULT, wah wah wah. Grow up and take responsibility for your own actions. Tell him....and mean it....that you don't want to see him anymore. He is not to call you. You will not take his calls. You will block his number or change your own if you have to. And then stick to it. No one can do it for you, it's time to grow up. And break it off with the "Sir" that you're stringing along so that he can find someone who really wants him. It's not fair to him. When you're emotionally available to be a decent partner in a relationship, that's when to start looking for a new "Sir". Yeah, this is blunt and not what you want to hear, but this is the way adults do it. This made me wish I had some big girl panties for myself to put on! Great response. [:D]

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