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toys - 7/1/2011 10:13:52 AM   
eleveninchgirth


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Status: offline 		Just wondering what your take is on this ,I have had it said to me that Masters,Doms ,Bulls are nothing but sex toys for the subs .What do you think?
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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 10:17:15 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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personally, i don't.
it may be worthwhile to look at some past "who's really in control?" threads -- they crop up from time to time.


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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 10:20:55 AM   
leadership527


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ORIGINAL: eleveninchgirth
I have had it said to me that Masters,Doms ,Bulls are nothing but sex toys for the subs .What do you think?

I think that sounds totally plausible for someone who builds sex based relationships. That is not me however. Carol is very certainly a sex toy for me, as I am for her, but we are both so, so much more than that to each other.

As an aside, my authority over her has nothing to do with sexuality so in that angle the statement is wrong, at least for us.


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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 10:26:30 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		His dominance and sadism gets me wet.

My submission and masochism gets him hard.

For some of the time we are each other's sex toy.

The rest of the time - we are in a relationship and we just simply love each other.





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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 10:33:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds about as feasible as an eleven inch girth.

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 12:51:29 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I don't give a holy damn who fits what need by the other, if it works for me and it works for her.

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 1:23:12 PM   
Canaille


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Status: offline 		I can't speak for anyone else, but most of my toys run on batteries. Should I be looking for a place to insert AAAs on the next Dom I talk to?

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 1:43:41 PM   
windchymes


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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 2:03:25 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		Sex toys are controlled and used by their owners. 
You don't serve the sex toy, it serves you (brats and delusional Daddy Doms excluded . . . LOL). 

I think your comment implies that the D-types are like Service Tops . . . sex toys under the control of the bottom, being used for the bottom's pleasure.  Nothing wrong with Service Tops . . . of either gender.  There is a plethora proDommes that are willing to service their clients' whims.  There are also plenty of D-types that get sexually objectified, worshiped and deified without also getting topped from the bottom and turned into a service toy. 

My take on this?  I think the person that told you "Masters, Doms, Bulls are nothing but sex toys for the subs" is either a Service Top or a submissive that plays with Service Tops and is a newcomer that wouldn't know the difference between a Dom, Master or a Service Top.

< Message edited by ResidentSadist -- 7/1/2011 2:06:11 PM >

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 2:15:06 PM   
kalikshama


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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 2:26:14 PM   
Canaille


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Status: offline 		Someday, I'll grow up and get a real set of big girl toys! :)

For now, though, the batteries still turn the trick nicely.

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 5:06:04 PM   
XenoMaster


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Status: offline 		Part of every healthy relationship I've seen is using and joyfully being used as a sextoy by your partner. Now if the relationship is more then just unromantic unemotional bdsm sessions then the being/owning a sextoy should only be part of the relationship. If you try to make it all you have I give you about 3 months max.

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 5:12:06 PM   
sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

Sounds about as feasible as an eleven inch girth.


I swear we were separated at birth. I was JUST going to post that!!

LMAO

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 5:14:34 PM   
sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

There are also plenty of D-types that get sexually objectified, worshiped and deified without also getting topped from the bottom and turned into a service toy. 



I agree. I deify a Dom every time he does something so intense that I have to scream out Oh my God!!

P.S. Your new avatar is cracking me up; you are the cutest.

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 5:16:47 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: eleveninchgirth

Just wondering what your take is on this ,I have had it said to me that Masters,Doms ,Bulls are nothing but sex toys for the subs .What do you think?

I think it must have been a pretty boring conversation.
What was your response? Please, tell us more!

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 5:40:43 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Since our D/s relationship is not sex based, I would have to say your statement is false.  

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 6:35:38 PM   
KiGirl


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Status: offline 		Anyone can be a fucktoy, if the partner sees them as such.

But that attitude hardly utilizes kinky coupling to its full potential.

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 6:43:14 PM   
XenoMaster


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ORIGINAL: Canaille

I can't speak for anyone else, but most of my toys run on batteries. Should I be looking for a place to insert AAAs on the next Dom I talk to?


Only if you want D batteries inserted into you immediately afterwards.

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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 8:50:07 PM   
xssve


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RE: toys - 7/1/2011 9:54:26 PM   
MasterSlaveLA


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ORIGINAL: eleveninchgirth

Just wondering what your take is on this ,I have had it said to me that Masters,Doms ,Bulls are nothing but sex toys for the subs .What do you think?


Of course there are those that'd be considered "Service Tops" (as that's what you've described here), but it's absolutely NOT true of all (and dare I say, most) Doms/Masters.



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