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PhilSlave -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 4:30:45 PM)

Only if that's the choice you decide to make.




tazzygirl -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 4:46:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MrRodgers

If there such people as sluts...we are all sluts.


Most of the men I know are sluts.... and those who arent wish they were!




LadyConstanze -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 4:59:38 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave



Ha, love the way your posts are all about me Ms. Bingo Wings.



Dear resident troll (I liked the other one better, he was funny) go on, insult my body, unfortunately no bingo wings, no cellulite, not obese.... I suggest you call me desperately ugly in another pathetic attempt to insult me (must be true, I am wearing a mask in my pic, oh dear I DO have a pic)...

I have to thank you actually, thinking about your imaginary gf and imaginary academical credentials made me think about Terry Pratchett and the Unseen University, so I know what I'm going to read in bed...




GreedyTop -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:00:52 PM)

*sigh* I love Terry's books..




PhilSlave -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:02:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave



Ha, love the way your posts are all about me Ms. Bingo Wings.



Dear resident troll (I liked the other one better, he was funny) go on, insult my body, unfortunately no bingo wings, no cellulite, not obese.... I suggest you call me desperately ugly in another pathetic attempt to insult me (must be true, I am wearing a mask in my pic, oh dear I DO have a pic)...

I have to thank you actually, thinking about your imaginary gf and imaginary academical credentials made me think about Terry Pratchett and the Unseen University, so I know what I'm going to read in bed...


Ha, you seem upset. Massive upper arms, yet stangely floppy..... Bingo!




LadyConstanze -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:05:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*sigh* I love Terry's books..


Actually he was doing a series on BBC about assisted death, it was such a frank and honest documentary about his struggles with Alzheimer's and the idea of checking out with dignity, it was amazing.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b0120dxp




HannahLynHeather -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:09:14 PM)

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I'm as down-to-earth and laid-back as anyone can be but that word totally lacks class and style and when I see it posted publically in a profile, I can't help but relate that person as equally lacking class and style. Some things really are best left in private, IMO.
in other words you're not as fucking down-to-earth and laid-back as anyone. you're hung up on a word that you have decided is an arbiter of class and style.

it is a badge of honour, when you, or me, anybody else calls me a slut, it is just an acknowledgment that i have decided that i am as free with my carnal nature as any fucking man is. why the fuck shouldn't i be proud of it? guys are. they boast about their conquests, why the fuck shouldn't we?

what's the big deal about fucking anyway? it's just another bodily function like breathing, eating, and shitting. it doesn't matter how many people i eat with, so why does it matter how many people i fuck with? saying any woman is somehow lesser because of the number of fuck buddies she chooses to have is like saying that because you go to public washrooms and stand at a line of urinals and piss with other men, that makes you crass, filthy, unclean, and of low morals.

see how fucking illogical your position is? its just a word, it only has the power you give it.




PhilSlave -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:12:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

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I'm as down-to-earth and laid-back as anyone can be but that word totally lacks class and style and when I see it posted publically in a profile, I can't help but relate that person as equally lacking class and style. Some things really are best left in private, IMO.
in other words you're not as fucking down-to-earth and laid-back as anyone. you're hung up on a word that you have decided is an arbiter of class and style.

it is a badge of honour, when you, or me, anybody else calls me a slut, it is just an acknowledgment that i have decided that i am as free with my carnal nature as any fucking man is. why the fuck shouldn't i be proud of it? guys are. they boast about their conquests, why the fuck shouldn't we?

what's the big deal about fucking anyway? it's just another bodily function like breathing, eating, and shitting. it doesn't matter how many people i eat with, so why does it matter how many people i fuck with? saying any woman is somehow lesser because of the number of fuck buddies she chooses to have is like saying that because you go to public washrooms and stand at a line of urinals and piss with other men, that makes you crass, filthy, unclean, and of low morals.

see how fucking illogical your position is? its just a word, it only has the power you give it.



A lot of guys don't and wouldn't as they personally find it distasteful in either sex.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:19:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave



Ha, love the way your posts are all about me Ms. Bingo Wings.



Dear resident troll (I liked the other one better, he was funny) go on, insult my body, unfortunately no bingo wings, no cellulite, not obese.... I suggest you call me desperately ugly in another pathetic attempt to insult me (must be true, I am wearing a mask in my pic, oh dear I DO have a pic)...

I have to thank you actually, thinking about your imaginary gf and imaginary academical credentials made me think about Terry Pratchett and the Unseen University, so I know what I'm going to read in bed...


Ha, you seem upset. Massive upper arms, yet stangely floppy..... Bingo!


Really? Not much of a biceps but good triceps, typical for people who do martial arts. And no deary, a pathetic troll can't get me upset, I guess the fact that your girlfriend only exists in your imagination really rankles, you know you should change hands when masturbating, having only one massively developed underarm isn't very attractive. As I said, go on insulting my looks, seems to be the best you've got, if I ever get insecure enough to care for your opinion, I will definitely let you know. Kiss kiss (did you turn into a Prince now?)




HannahLynHeather -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:27:43 PM)

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As I said, go on insulting my looks
you've a pointy nose!!!




LadyConstanze -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:39:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

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As I said, go on insulting my looks
you've a pointy nose!!!


LOL, and I always thought a nose job would be the first thing I'd have if I'd go for cosmetic surgery (maybe after boob reduction), I think it's a bit broad, so you made my day...




imperatrixx -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:48:44 PM)

-FR-

To me, slut is a derogatory term, no matter what.

If I were talking about a woman like this:

Slut (noun): A woman who can put pride, ego, and shame away as she pursues sexual pleasure.

I would say something like "sexually liberated" or "sexually open" or something.

I recently learned that it's bad to call women sluts because it has a long history of patriarchal something or other so I now make an effort to use the more neutral (although technically incorrect) term "whore" when talking about a woman whose sexual choices I disapprove of.




imperatrixx -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:50:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

quote:

I'm as down-to-earth and laid-back as anyone can be but that word totally lacks class and style and when I see it posted publically in a profile, I can't help but relate that person as equally lacking class and style. Some things really are best left in private, IMO.
in other words you're not as fucking down-to-earth and laid-back as anyone. you're hung up on a word that you have decided is an arbiter of class and style.

it is a badge of honour, when you, or me, anybody else calls me a slut, it is just an acknowledgment that i have decided that i am as free with my carnal nature as any fucking man is. why the fuck shouldn't i be proud of it? guys are. they boast about their conquests, why the fuck shouldn't we?

what's the big deal about fucking anyway? it's just another bodily function like breathing, eating, and shitting. it doesn't matter how many people i eat with, so why does it matter how many people i fuck with? saying any woman is somehow lesser because of the number of fuck buddies she chooses to have is like saying that because you go to public washrooms and stand at a line of urinals and piss with other men, that makes you crass, filthy, unclean, and of low morals.

see how fucking illogical your position is? its just a word, it only has the power you give it.



it's a personal choice...I have refused to get involved with men because of their sexual history and I've thought they were downright nasty.

I guess that's the main difference lol. If a guy looks down on sluts he'll probably still sleep with one...if a girl looks down on male sluts there's no way she's getting in that bed.




PeonForHer -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:54:26 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave
Ha, you seem upset. Massive upper arms, yet stangely floppy..... Bingo!


What on earth are you talking about? God, if I were born female I'd be more than happy to have her figure.




GreedyTop -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:55:20 PM)

thats his latest insult, Peon...LOL




tj444 -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 5:59:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: imperatrixx
I guess that's the main difference lol. If a guy looks down on sluts he'll probably still sleep with one...if a girl looks down on male sluts there's no way she's getting in that bed.

But... if the guy that looks down on sluts sleeps with one, then doesnt that make him a male slut??? [8|]

And, there are men that cant get laid no matter what but if they could they would fuck any female they could, are those men sluts even tho no one will fuck them? So is being a slut a state of mind or do you also need the wanton physical sex to make one a slut?




imperatrixx -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 6:09:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tj444
But... if the guy that looks down on sluts sleeps with one, then doesnt that make him a male slut??? [8|]

And, there are men that cant get laid no matter what but if they could they would fuck any female they could, are those men sluts even tho no one will fuck them? So is being a slut a state of mind or do you also need the wanton physical sex to make one a slut?


I'd say they are potential sluts ;)

Although for me it's less about the number of partners and more about the manner in which the sex happens. I think on average people have had 7 sexual partners in their life...if someone has had sex with 6 people but every single one of them was a random one night "hookup" then they're a slut...if someone has had sex with 10 people but every single one of them was in a relationship then they're not a slut.

Most people I think are a mix between the two...most sex in a relationship but maybe one or two hookups. I think it depends mostly on which type of encounter takes priority for them.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 6:09:52 PM)

If I want to be a slut with my other half and he'd start to complain about wild and wanton sex (he'd have to be hit on the head by a heavy brick to do so), I guess I would have a brain surgeon on speed dial, repressed and insecure males are just not my cup of tea.




tj444 -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 6:20:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: imperatrixx


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ORIGINAL: tj444
But... if the guy that looks down on sluts sleeps with one, then doesnt that make him a male slut??? [8|]

And, there are men that cant get laid no matter what but if they could they would fuck any female they could, are those men sluts even tho no one will fuck them? So is being a slut a state of mind or do you also need the wanton physical sex to make one a slut?


I'd say they are potential sluts ;)

Although for me it's less about the number of partners and more about the manner in which the sex happens. I think on average people have had 7 sexual partners in their life...if someone has had sex with 6 people but every single one of them was a random one night "hookup" then they're a slut...if someone has had sex with 10 people but every single one of them was in a relationship then they're not a slut.

Most people I think are a mix between the two...most sex in a relationship but maybe one or two hookups. I think it depends mostly on which type of encounter takes priority for them.

hmmm, but then one can't be a slut if they are in a relationship??? I want to be a slut even when i am in a relationship with the benefactor of my sluttiness.




KiGirl -> RE: Meaning of the word "slut" (7/6/2011 7:01:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thatsOKsweetie

Slut (noun): A woman who can put pride, ego, and shame away as she pursues sexual pleasure.


More like they never had any to begin with...




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