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Aneirin -> RE: Women: Realistic or Gold Diggers? (7/9/2011 5:26:24 AM)
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Women: Realistic or Gold Diggers ; I suppose something similar could be asked about men, what is it they want from a women in reality.
In the past it was all about nurture, the almost unwritten rule that one must have a family, a woman seeking a healthy employed male as a partner is logical and at the same time primitive, the law of nature, for whilst a woman produces the offspring, the man is responsible for feeding the offspring and the woman, the mama bird in the nest scenario.
But now as the desire to produce offspring is waning, I wonder if natural D/s comes into the mix even with the nillas, the desire to 'own ' someone and have them at a dominant's beck and call, an object to hang on the arm and take pleasure of now and again, almost like a personal servant for some.
But then there are others who seek their equal and opposite to complement each other.
But myself being unemployed, I am aware of my lack of attractiveness to potential mates, a reason to seek employment, but thwarted in the fact that there is little employment, so stress and all it's attributes becomes a problem to add to the unemployment problem. But then I am not bitter, for if it were me and I saw someone like myself as attractive but feckless, I also would leave alone if I could not inspire them to think outside the box. But with myself I am on the verge of starting my own business, a business that when it happens, time is something that will be scarce I know full well and then I wonder at my attractiveness then, being physicaly tired for working with rusty metal, grease and a bellows blown coke fire.
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