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Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/8/2011 8:39:16 PM   
hangemhigh1953


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone! I'm a 19 year old "guy" from California, doing a lot of soul searching. I'm currently a virgin, and I've never done any BDSM stuff before but lately I've been interested in it. I put "guy" in quotation marks, because I'm not sure if I'm just a crossdresser or if I'm transexual. I don't think this would be just a kink for me, because I'm mostly interested in the emotional aspect of it; and I would probably be a sub or a slave, but like I said, I just don't know much right now about who I truly am. I'm mostly straight as I've only ever been emotionally attracted to women, but I definitely have a bi side that is interested in sexual fantasies with men, though I don't think I'd ever pursue that.

For now I'm just looking to participate in the message boards to learn more about this stuff to see if I'm truly interested, but one of my fantasies is, perhaps in time, to be a sissy maid/slave to a loving Mistress, provided I get to know her first and am sure I love and trust her. I've always been a very submissive person and my whole reason for living is to make other people happy, I even get depressed when I am unable or denied the privilege of helping others, and I am uncomfortable whenever I have to pursue my own selfish interests, which is the main reason I'm interested in maybe subbing/being a slave.

Anyways, sorry for the long post, but I look forward to meeting some friends and learning about this lifestyle!
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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/9/2011 6:31:34 AM   
ashjor911


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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/9/2011 7:48:18 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Welcome hang, what's "1953" mean? By the way, why not just go and see a hooker?

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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/9/2011 5:50:22 PM   
hangemhigh1953


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Status: offline 		Hang em High and 1953 are just two Dropkick Murphys songs I like, it's not necessarily D/s related. And I'm not really in any rush to lose my virginity. Sex to me is more about pleasing someone I love rather than just achieving orgasm.

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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/11/2011 5:58:43 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		I was'nt thinking about sex!

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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/11/2011 6:10:09 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/11/2011 11:24:11 AM   
hangemhigh1953


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ORIGINAL: OohAahMrs

I was'nt thinking about sex!

What else would I pay a hooker for?

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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/11/2011 11:25:20 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Stimulating movie and album reviews?

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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/11/2011 12:36:23 PM   
zephyroftheNorth


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Stimulating movie


So that's what they're calling porn these days!


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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/11/2011 4:01:03 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM and the boards.  Hang around the boards, make liberal use of the search feature located top right hand corner, and read older and newer threads.  There's great people here who'll answer your questions, just remember to be respectful and polite.  Check out the "Ask a Mistress" forum's FAQs for some info that will also be helpful.  Good luck on your journey.

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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/12/2011 5:44:22 AM   
OohAahMrs


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RE: Hi everyone... total newb here - 7/12/2011 5:46:34 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Alright, alright, "sex" but not as we know it, not the old "in-out!" Blimey, give a girl a bad name!

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