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Female objectification/ashtray - 5/17/2006 4:45:08 AM

MasterSundog

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Hi there. Im an experienced Master very much into objectification and training my female slaves as usefull everyday objects. Whilst living abroad I trained 2 female slaves as human ashtrays, both me and the slaves found this a very good form of humilliation and enjoyed it thoroughly. Since returning to the UK I've found it hard to find a slave willing to be used as such. Ive also found it very hard to find websites etc covering this?? apart from 'house of gord' which covers basic, nodel type shoots of objectification. can anyone help??

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RE: Female objectification/ashtray - 5/17/2006 6:12:11 AM

sabswife

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i found all sorts when i typed 'human ashtray' into google. personally i am no help as this would be a hard limit for me.

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RE: Female objectification/ashtray - 5/17/2006 6:17:19 AM

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sorry... this one is anti-smoking... i'm no help

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RE: Female objectification/ashtray - 5/17/2006 8:27:25 AM

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I've found that male subs prefer the human ashtray aspect of objectification a lot more than female subs. That could however, be because I'm approached more by males than females in general.
You could try posting a pic of yourself smoking and actually put in your profile that you're looking for a girl who gets into it.
Also, a lot of submissives haven't really thought about the whole concept. For many, the mention of "human ashtray" puts thoughts in their head of being burnt and scarred, so they are quick to reject the idea. And some have limits against consumption.
I've found that if I explain the concept and the activities it involves (which can be different depending on the people doing it), subs are more receptive to the idea. And if they have a problem with consumption, I am willing to bend a bit. Like anything, building up slowly with a new activity is always a good idea.
Sometimes, just dashing ashes into someone's palms, while they kneel in silence, can be more appealing than actually making them consume or burning them.
And yeah... if you google "human ashtray" you can find a lot.

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