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Kana -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/11/2011 5:46:36 AM)

Old joke.
Q-How do you know when two BDSM types are on a second date?
A-The moving van is in the driveway.





GreedyTop -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/11/2011 5:48:15 AM)

*snort*

(how ya doin, Kana?)




LaTigresse -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/11/2011 2:16:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Old joke.
Q-How do you know when two BDSM types are on a second date?
A-The moving van is in the driveway.




That is a lesbian joke here in Iowa City.




whiteslavebitch -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/11/2011 4:42:34 PM)

As long as it takes for both to be ready for that.




kiwisub12 -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/11/2011 4:54:28 PM)

For me it was the third time we met in real time........ and lasted until he died 5 years later. I pretty much went to his house and didn't go home again...

Of course, i was fortunate enough to have a family member at my house to take care of the animals.




slavemoth -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/17/2011 3:07:15 PM)

I really think it is up to the dom/sup every couples different,when it feels right between both.




Giermo -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/17/2011 3:12:05 PM)

When you are both ready. [:)]




erieangel -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/17/2011 3:23:42 PM)

Lets see...I knew my last boyfriend for 3 years and never dreamed of moving in with him. The one before that, I knew for 2 weeks and we were making a home, looking to buy a house together...

There is no time frame.




phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/18/2011 1:17:28 AM)

we knew when we first met online. but didnt act on it till we first met. then couldn't wait till i could move over an be with him




juliaoceania -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/18/2011 7:36:56 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: youcanchoose

Simple question: How long should a dom and a sub know each other before moving into a 24/7 situation?



Sometimes it should never happen. Not every couple should even have that goal necessarily. For example, the way I feel about it now is I am more interested in building a strong relationship than the label 24-7. Some couples might be very happy with each other if they let go of the label and strove to be happy with each other instead of trying to make a relationship fit into a preconceived ideal.

That is just my opinion




Anomandaris -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/18/2011 11:54:00 AM)

Whever it's right.  




SailingBum -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/18/2011 11:07:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: youcanchoose

Simple question: How long should a dom and a sub know each other before moving into a 24/7 situation?


My girl and I have been doing the deed for years and years literally. Ive still not made a honest woman outta her. So im thinking never...

BadOne




txurinal -> RE: Time before 24/7 (7/31/2011 8:57:30 AM)

Before i moved in with my MASTERS on a 24/7 basis, we all went through a getting to know and learn process. i was told up front exactly what was expected frrom me as a slave and exactly what to epect from THEM as MASTERS.

When i first became THEIR slave, i lived about a 5 minute car ride from THEIR house. AT first i was told to come over every evening after work and at specific times on Saturdays and Sundays. During these times i was to function as a housekeeper and learn what my MASTERS expected from me sexually as a slave. i gave up all free time to spend every moment when not working or sleeping at THEIR house.

This relationship went on for several months before i moved in with THEM. This way each of us knew what we wanted and whether this was going to work out for us all.

i feel that the slave moving in with its DOMINANT on a 24/7 has the most to think about and the most to lose so taking some time to make sure it is right can only help in the long run




MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Time before 24/7 (8/1/2011 7:57:14 PM)

Then again... there's always the "scientific" approach... [8D]


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