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RE: new dom issues - 7/17/2011 12:20:03 PM

MASTERMAC50

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No shit Sherlock.
When writing my original posting I was aware that it had the feel of a porn story but I wanted everyone to get the feel for the progression of the relationship. I felt that this was the best way of imparting the progression and the time line of the various acts as they unfolded. And speaking of unfolding the remark about her pussy lips rates right up there with a high school joke about finding my keys and driving out. I am not a big fan of computers and even less so of blogs or forums this is only my third listing on any of such means of communication anyway and it seems that my feelings about forums have been confirmed, one makes a legitimate query only to have childish retards with an IQ hovering around 60 make smartass remarks and the only reason for doing so that I can think of is to make themselves look smart and to ridicule just like the bullies I remember seeing in high school do to he less popular kids in class, easy pray I suppose. But it occurs to me as I write this maybe these people ARE in high school!
Anyway, back to the original reason for writing to those on this site with any real legitimate input, and I thank Heather McLeather for her insight. I came here seeking some Doms with more knowledge than I on this subject so I will try again and hope that I will get some helpful information to my questions. So, to break it down 1) given my gf's love of my cock and cum do you think she was a sub(again taking into account I never even thought of us in the SM realm 2)also considering her love of said indulgences is that what is meant by cock worship 3)can a girls pussy be that loose naturally given the fact that my hand slipped right in without so much as any pressure at all, I have sense been with women that have had children and I am lucky if I can get two fingers in.

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RE: new dom issues - 7/17/2011 1:32:12 PM

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ok, since you're going to insist on taking over this thread with your bullshit, i'll answer your fucking questions in hopes you go away.

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1) given my gf's love of my cock and cum do you think she was a sub(again taking into account I never even thought of us in the SM realm

maybe, maybe not, how the fuck would we know. maybe she just liked sucking cock and the taste of cum, maybe it was rooted in anger issues regarding curfews back in high school and she imagined her father seeing her slobbering all the fuck over your cock as a form of emotional revenge a sort of "see dad, i turned out a right slut despite all your fucking rules". oh and the fact that you never never thought of the two of you in a bdsm context is fucking irrelevant, there's a whole lot of shit you haven't thought of in a given context and that has no effect on the actual nature of that shit.

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2)also considering her love of said indulgences is that what is meant by cock worship

it could be interpreted that way, but to my mind cock worship has more to do with seeing the cock as the source of the fucking dom's power rather than as the focus of her lust.

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3)can a girls pussy be that loose naturally given the fact that my hand slipped right in without so much as any pressure at all

yes.

there, i've answered your fucking questions, hopefully the next time you feel the urge to ask a question, you'll spare us the detailed descriptions of your sordid sex life.

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RE: new dom issues - 7/17/2011 1:56:11 PM

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OP - I read your posts and to be honest I've found nothing that indicates your gf is sub or even that you are dom! Yeah, she's horny and kinky, but you don't need to be into bdsm to be that. Fisting, cock worship and loving cum are things that any woman who is comfortable with her sexual side may well want to experience and even tell her partner she wants it.

Are you interested in actually taking the lead in the relationship? Are you mostly looking for a seriously kinky girl in the bedroom? Do you want more outside the bedroom?

I think you have a lot of questions to ask yourself, and a lot of research to do before you can come to a decision. Someone mentioned 'Screw the roses' as a place to start - I would recommend that. See if there is anything in there that connects with you, and from there make the big decisions about your relationship and how it may change.

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RE: new dom issues - 7/18/2011 8:29:04 AM

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So how, exactly, have you tried to find "a sub". Did you check and see if amazon carries them?

Dude... seriously... if you ignored BDSM for a moment then what you're trying to find is "a girlfriend". They don't just fall into your lap. Are you going out to places where "subs" (whatever you mean by that) congregate? When you get to those places are you open, forthright, available, etc? And, I'll say the same thing to you that I say to pretty much every new dom. Yeah yea, you want some girl to fawn over you constantly yada yada. Neat. Out of curiosity, why should she? When you have an answer to that question then you'll be getting somewhere.

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RE: new dom issues - 7/18/2011 12:18:19 PM

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quote:

I am not a big fan of computers and even less so of blogs or forums this is only my third listing on any of such means of communication anyway and it seems that my feelings about forums have been confirmed, one makes a legitimate query only to have childish retards with an IQ hovering around 60 make smartass remarks and the only reason for doing so that I can think of is to make themselves look smart and to ridicule just like the bullies I remember seeing in high school do to he less popular kids in class, easy pray I suppose.

You will get better reception if you:

1. start your own thread instead of hijacking someone else's
2. use paragraphs
3. avoid run on sentences
4. have a clearly defined question
5. don't be rude to the people from whom you are seeking input

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RE: new dom issues - 7/18/2011 12:47:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: MASTERMAC50

So, to break it down 1) given my gf's love of my cock and cum do you think she was a sub(again taking into account I never even thought of us in the SM realm 2)also considering her love of said indulgences is that what is meant by cock worship 3)can a girls pussy be that loose naturally given the fact that my hand slipped right in without so much as any pressure at all, I have sense been with women that have had children and I am lucky if I can get two fingers in.

Fetish and kink do not necessarily equate to Dominance/submission.
It sounds like your previous girlfriend has a fetish for ejaculate.
You accomodated her whims.
There is nothing especially dominant about saving it for her at her request.

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RE: new dom issues - 7/18/2011 1:58:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: MASTERMAC50

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