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zephyroftheNorth -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 3:06:42 AM)

That's what I'm saying honeypaws, sometimes there is no angle. Small cars were not made for blowjobs. [>:]




agirl -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 4:55:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: agirl

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Look if you don't want to take our advice, that's cool. I personally have better things to do than to watch you responding to those who post nastiness rather than those of us trying to help you. You're a big girl and you are certainly smart enough to recognise good advice. Take it or don't I'm done.

Zeph



*WE* doesn't exist here.

Seriously, does it matter whether Wretchedness responds to you, or other *helpful* people.

Who's to say that your advice is relevant? And why does matter WHAT advice she finds helpful? She owes you or anyone else........precisely nothing.

No-one has to take* good advice*,..in fact, half of the time the advice doled out is knee jerk, run of the mill stuff that isn't *good advice* at all. It's opinion.

agirl


The thing that people seem to be missing is that she is taking advice. She has changed her profile pictures and asking questions.

I highly doubt that everyone here got everything absolutely correct the first few months they were involved in this WIITWD.

She had a meeting scheduled with a guy that wanted her to dress like a slut. She wasn't comfortable so she didn't dress that way. He said he was going to punish her for that, but her gut told her that was wrong. She came here and asked. When she balked, he "dumped" her. She didn't hook up and when it felt wrong she asked.

So unless you've never made a mistake along this path, the personal attacks are unnecessary.



I have no idea why you think I was *attacking* the OP, or anyone else in fact, as I wasn't referring to her at all.

agirl





JstAnotherSub -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 6:44:49 AM)

Tilt steering wheels=more head room
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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Yeah the only issue I have with that is that it can be hard to get a good angle for it. I like a bit more room.





OsideGirl -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 7:13:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: agirl

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: agirl

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Look if you don't want to take our advice, that's cool. I personally have better things to do than to watch you responding to those who post nastiness rather than those of us trying to help you. You're a big girl and you are certainly smart enough to recognise good advice. Take it or don't I'm done.

Zeph



*WE* doesn't exist here.

Seriously, does it matter whether Wretchedness responds to you, or other *helpful* people.

Who's to say that your advice is relevant? And why does matter WHAT advice she finds helpful? She owes you or anyone else........precisely nothing.

No-one has to take* good advice*,..in fact, half of the time the advice doled out is knee jerk, run of the mill stuff that isn't *good advice* at all. It's opinion.

agirl


The thing that people seem to be missing is that she is taking advice. She has changed her profile pictures and asking questions.

I highly doubt that everyone here got everything absolutely correct the first few months they were involved in this WIITWD.

She had a meeting scheduled with a guy that wanted her to dress like a slut. She wasn't comfortable so she didn't dress that way. He said he was going to punish her for that, but her gut told her that was wrong. She came here and asked. When she balked, he "dumped" her. She didn't hook up and when it felt wrong she asked.

So unless you've never made a mistake along this path, the personal attacks are unnecessary.



I have no idea why you think I was *attacking* the OP, or anyone else in fact, as I wasn't referring to her at all.

agirl


I didn't think you were attacking her. I thought you words were relevant. We can't force anyone to take advice, but no one seems to noticing that she is taking advice.




Wretchedness -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 9:20:32 AM)

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Either way don't let the hostility get to you because i am now seeing you react quite hostile at the slightest deviation of what you want to hear and that isn't productive either.



Wow, so you think I should listen for the words not the way it's being delivered to me, yet you think I’m being hostel? Maybe you should take your own advice. I have no expectations of what I would like to hear. That is why I asked the question in the first place..


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Yes you did dear, you wanted to, but he dumped you. (and this is the best part --->he didnt even have to see you naked)


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Well I see a lot more than you see. Her screen name, her pictures, her profile all combine to strongly suggest a very broken individual who's fetishised pain and self-mutilation. I expect to see these things on the profiles of stupid little emo/goth girls, not a 36 year old woman whose personality should be more established. Her profile screams "prey" and will only attract predators or - as CP pointed out - dudes with a messiah complex.


If you find statement made by the people above me a proper way to speak to someone asking for advice, then by all means you take it. I will not listen to people like this. It's obvious they have their own issues they need to deal with before trying to save the world.

Here's the deal, I did listen. I changed my profile picture and took some of the pictures down at other's telling me I would attract the wrong attention. I don't feel like and never will feel like I need to look for some hidden meaning in words that are throw at me by angry or mean people.

I am far from hostel but then again by your own advice listen to the message not the messenger, right?



P.S. There are two very nice ladies here that have offered to help me with question and concerns. They have offered to help guild me and I have and will utilize this gracious gift offered to me. Also a nice Domme Lady from another site I’m on has decided to mentor me. I appreciate all three of these ladies immensely. My ears are open and even though I might not agree with the things they tell me to do. I do them because they have more experience and it comes from a place of concern. I value what they say because of the way they treat people. With respect and kindness. And I am very aware that I have a lot to learn..




GreedyTop -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 9:29:58 AM)

*still likes teh W chick.. still wants to keep her*





tiggerspoohbear -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 10:48:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth
That's what I'm saying honeypaws, sometimes there is no angle. Small cars were not made for blowjobs. [>:]

Silly Zephy, that's why cars have hoods and trunks! [;)]  I'm not saying at the Wal-Mart Supercenter in broad daylight, but a nice dark spot is always good!




coookie -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 1:47:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Wretchedness


I am far from hostel but then again by your own advice listen to the message not the messenger, right?[/color][/size]




Got it. The message is ... "I don't gotta listen cause they were mean!!"

That is fine. You do not have to listen. All that i was trying to tell you is that sometimes the best advice that i have gotten was the advice that initially made me want to punch the person in the nose. We are obviously not the same. Again, that is alright. Good luck to you in your future.




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 1:59:48 PM)

Yeah well not all steering wheels tilt do they




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:01:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth
That's what I'm saying honeypaws, sometimes there is no angle. Small cars were not made for blowjobs. [>:]

Silly Zephy, that's why cars have hoods and trunks! [;)]  I'm not saying at the Wal-Mart Supercenter in broad daylight, but a nice dark spot is always good!



Well excuse me for wanting comfort instead of being exposed to the elements [>:]




JanahX -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:07:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*still likes teh W chick.. still wants to keep her*





PLEASE ... take her !!!




LadyConstanze -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:09:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I do LIKE this girl.. I vote we keep W!!!! and not the inbred TX twat!!


I agree with Greedy!




JanahX -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:19:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I do LIKE this girl.. I vote we keep W!!!! and not the inbred TX twat!!


I agree with Greedy!

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It's easy to see how the US is in such a mess when people lobby to vote for dumb asses ....


It's easy to see how the US is in such a mess when people lobby to vote for dumb asses ....




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:20:00 PM)

I agree with Greedy and LadyC. 




Awareness -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:29:22 PM)

  I agree with no-one because turning a discussion thread into a popularity contest reeks of the kind of social stupidity most people leave behind in high school.




LadyConstanze -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:29:27 PM)


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ORIGINAL: JanahX


It's easy to see how the US is in such a mess when people lobby to vote for dumb asses ....


Oh well, and not all of us are US citizens, how ignorant... but hey, I don't think anybody voted for you...




Awareness -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:31:41 PM)

  And we're off to the races.




LadyConstanze -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:35:38 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Awareness

  And we're off to the races.


Ah toodles, it's alright, we know you believe you know everything and you're this awesome dom, it's OK, I'm sure you will be one day, when you're over your fear of women.




JanahX -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:46:46 PM)

You dont count.




Awareness -> RE: True submissive? (7/27/2011 2:49:07 PM)

  *raises an eyebrow*  Christ, you're easy.  Like shooting fish in a barrel.

Point to me.




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