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Awareness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:39:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wretchedness Wow is this were I’m suppose to break down and get all suicidal because some douche bag has a low opinion of me and thinks I’m emo. Maybe you need to look in that toilet for your own self worth dear. I'm unimpressed. No, it's the bit where you're supposed to stop and think. If you didn't care what some nameless douche-bag on the internet said, you wouldn't have reacted the way you did. There's a difference between someone who makes an observation and someone who's genuinely trying to rile or upset you.

DesFIP -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:40:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: motodom The fun part is that whatever you feel uncomfortable doing, at some point you will enjoy it because it has become a way to please your Master. The other side of that is, everything you already enjoy can be turned into a punishment. So anything a person enjoys becomes something she dislikes, and she's only allowed to do stuff she hates? And you think this is a basis for a mutually satisfying relationship where one person is totally unfulfilled and dissatisfied? Some people here just amaze me. Shakes head and thanks God I found a dominant who enjoys knowing I'm happy to be with him instead of miserable.

Awareness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:40:53 PM)
Zephyr, I really do like that avatar, where did you find it?

Wretchedness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:41:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness quote: Frankly, I can't tell if you're attractive or not, because you're hiding yourself behind a mask. And no, being shy is not broken, but the combination of being insecure, feeling you're wretched and worthless and looking for someone to beat you, is. My suggestion would be to stop trying to live up to some kind of ideal or image of what you think you 'should' be. Not all Doms are interested in inflicting pain, so not all subs have to be masochistic pain-puppies who want to be beaten. The crap you've got all over your face is unattractive, fake and reeks of someone trying desperately to be accepted. Thanks but I’ll take my advice from someone I actually respect, not someone that felt the need to belittle me and try and tear me down. Also if you had looked at my pictures the majority of them are just me, without make up. Not hiding.

Wretchedness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:43:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness [ If you didn't care what some nameless douche-bag on the internet said, you wouldn't have reacted the way you did. There's a difference between someone who makes an observation and someone who's genuinely trying to rile or upset you. quote: If you didn't care what some nameless douche-bag on the internet said, you wouldn't have reacted the way you did. There's a difference between someone who makes an observation and someone who's genuinely trying to rile or upset you. And you would be which one dear?

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:43:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness Zephyr, I really do like that avatar, where did you find it? Thanks! A girl called poise here on CM found it for me. Zeph

Awareness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:45:08 PM)
shrug You're free to do as you wish, it's no skin off my nose if you ignore everything I say. My ego is not tied into you paying attention to me. I give my perspective which I believe to be valuable to those who are capable of listening. If you find no value in it, that's entirely your own affair.

DesFIP -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:45:45 PM)
I will say that I'm impressed that awareness has acknowledged publicly that he's a douche bag. Something many of us thought but were too polite to state. Perhaps now that he's identified his problem, he might even go do some thing about it. Or is that too much to hope for?

LadyPact -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:46:55 PM)
What? All of the times that he admitted to being an asshole don't count?

Awareness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:47:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth Thanks! A girl called poise here on CM found it for me. Zeph Sly minx. Poise loves to play the avatar game. She found a few for me too.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:47:16 PM)
He likes my avatar so he can't be all bad.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:51:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth Thanks! A girl called poise here on CM found it for me. Zeph Sly minx. Poise loves to play the avatar game. She found a few for me too. She actually found me two, one of which I use on Fet.

Wretchedness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 5:51:40 PM)
Well then I will just put it in the toilet that you think of myself worth is in. MK! I'm shy and new and a little unsure. But I’m not a doormat, and I really don't care about your opinion or observation of me. And I reacted because it was kind of shitty what you said about me, I do believe that is a normal reaction. But I’m sure you will be the judge of that.

Awareness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 6:01:12 PM)
There we go. Unfortunately this one is a little busy and I think at this size is somewhat confusing. I'll see how it plays.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 6:08:16 PM)
I like it actually. It's really cool plus it has "poise" written all over it. I admit to just a smidge of bias where she's concerned.

LanceHughes -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 6:33:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wretchedness Well then I will just put it in the toilet that you think of myself worth is in. MK! I'm shy and new and a little unsure. But I’m not a doormat, and I really don't care about your opinion or observation of me. And I reacted because it was kind of shitty what you said about me, I do believe that is a normal reaction. But I’m sure you will be the judge of that. This whole thread has kinda gone down hill. As a Dom, I'd suggest that you (as a sub) - notice I didn't order you - LOL! I'd suggest thatyou go back to the very beinning where there ARE helpful and concerned posters. The early suggestions have gone by the way-side. Do you remember saying things like "That makes perfect sense to me." and other such positive statements. Sometimes threads start high and devolve. Scoot, girl! Go and read. Daddy says so!

kalikshama -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 7:19:45 PM)
quote: Thanks but I’ll take my advice from someone I actually respect, not someone that felt the need to belittle me and try and tear me down. There's lots of great posters here - no need to waste energy on the annoying ones - save that for the Politics & Religion section.

OsideGirl -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 7:58:59 PM)
You're doing just fine......

Aileen1968 -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 8:02:07 PM)
Your pictures completely negate all that you've written here. People who are relying on that aspect of a profile will not get the full picture.

Wretchedness -> RE: True submissive? (7/23/2011 8:13:08 PM)
i have no idea what that means.

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