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Asherscorp1 -> Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 1:33:10 AM)

If your Master preferred you to be a size or two bigger would you be willing to gain 8-12lbs to please them?



SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 1:38:55 AM)

If your profile is accurate id be smacking your owner upside the head. Your at a healthy weight for someone your height, adding 8 to 12 pounds would make you over weight... and im sure you intelligent enough to realize the health implications of it.

The question to better ask is why isnt your master happy with the way you are now? Why is he trying to change you? Why was your current weight look appearance okay when you met but not now that your collared?



Asherscorp1 -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 1:51:57 AM)

Well, my profile isn't accurate since I started jogging this summer and dropped about 1-2 sizes but I'm gorgeous and toned, nowhere near underweight by any standard. It was more of a hypothetical question. Master see's that my self-esteem has been boosted immensely by being more fit and while He does mourn the loss of my more "soft, fluffy" spots He would not ask me to gain weight since mentally it would be damaging to me. That said, I started wondering how I would feel if He were to ask since I know that He really did like it before when I had a bit more pudge and it seemed an interesting question to pose to others as well. I am my Master's creature but I don't know how I could do something like that which would directly undermine my self-respect and esteem.



MrHCurious -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 2:12:33 AM)

No, Christ no. She's trying to lose weight, I'd be a fucking fool to turn around and say 'good job princess, now put it all back on again'



DarkSteven -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 4:44:56 AM)

Um.  As a Dom, I would never do this unless I felt that she was underweight.  Here in the US, that doesn't normally happen.

If the woman is a healthy weight, telling her she needs to gain or lose even five pounds would be opening the floodgates to all kinds of body image issues.  I don't want to mess with her mind that way.



LillyBoPeep -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 4:52:17 AM)

i could imagine myself getting into a mental tangle over that... i mean, my first instinct would be to say "that's what he wants, so do it." but if i had spent a lot of time trying to improve myself, it would hurt my self-esteem -- especially if it put me back to a point where dancing was harder, i got winded easier, blah blah blah. 8-12 pounds is a lot when you're short like i am; it makes a pretty profound difference.
i just lost about twice that weight and if i put it back on, i'd be really disappointed with myself. so how would i feel towards someone who told me to do it on purpose?
sheesh, i dunno. =p
what a difficult question.
i guess there's always the possibility of being happy knowing that you're exactly what he wants -- but how does that jive with your own self-esteem?




kalikshama -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 5:09:15 AM)

quote:

If the woman is a healthy weight, telling her she needs to gain or lose even five pounds would be opening the floodgates to all kinds of body image issues. I don't want to mess with her mind that way.


I was a healthy weight for me (I have a large frame) when I went to enlist in the USAF. They wanted me to lose 10# and gave me 3 unhealthy quick weight loss diets. I'd never had weight issues before. Losing that 10# started me on several years of binging and purging and 20 years of yoyoing. Ironically, during my enlistment, the weight standards were changed and I need never have lost that 10#. As of 2004, the max weight for my height has increased yet another 10#  [8|]

I'm going to rewrite the OP:

quote:

If your master wanted you to make lifestyle changes with the overall goal of improving your health, would you?

Yes.

To the original OP - No.




NuevaVida -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 6:56:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1

If your Master preferred you to be a size or two bigger would you be willing to gain 8-12lbs to please them?


If I were 8-12 pounds underweight to begin with, sure.

But in my current state?  We'd have problems over that edict, and my problems are his problems.  I just lost 80 pounds and every day is a victory over my eating disorder.  If he were to say "OK now put some weight back on" it was really screw up that victory, and odds are I'd end up putting the 80 back on, and then some.

I would seriously push back at that order, because I could foresee the problems it would bring.



zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 7:02:35 AM)

Currently? Nope, I've worked hard to lose weight, there is no way I'm gaining it back.



domiguy -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 7:03:22 AM)

I would do it, but, unlike the majority of these whores, I am a giver.



zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 7:08:59 AM)

Of dumpster naps?



IrishMist -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 7:09:46 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1

If your Master preferred you to be a size or two bigger would you be willing to gain 8-12lbs to please them?

No




Charnegui -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 7:12:12 AM)

I'd love to gain some weight, I'm skinnish.....[&:]

But it would take an awfull lot of trouble to put it on me...[:D]



windchymes -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 8:25:03 AM)

No problem whatsoever. Hell, I gained a pound and a half just reading this thread [&:]



HannahLynHeather -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 8:52:10 AM)

quote:

she was underweight. Here in the US, that doesn't normally happen.
and they say it's the fucking brits who do that understatement thing eh?

i guess it would really depend on what i weighed, if i was already overweight then fuck no, but if its just a question of adding a few pounds to a normal frame i'd be game to do it.

however, in a situation similar to your's, where the sub just worked really fucking hard to drop a few sizes, i would tell him to go fuck himself up the nose with rifle cleaning equipment. the dumb fuck should have said something before she made all the effort. but then again that's probably the whole fucking point, to get his kicks seeing her work like a bitch to get skinny for him, then have put it all back on and then work it off again. it would be a power trip, but that sort of fucking up and down with weight isn't particularly healthy.



HannahLynHeather -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 8:56:25 AM)

quote:

I would do it, but, unlike the majority of these whores, I am a liar.

fyp for ya domi, no need to thank you.



sexyred1 -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 9:55:15 AM)

Not only would I not gain weight for anyone, but I would not lose weight for someone. I understand people wanting to be supported in weight loss challenges and in pursuing healthy lifestyles, but most of us who need to lose weight already know it.

I do these things for myself and my health. I tend to go for people who are already attracted to me the way I am.

Any changes I choose to make for myself would have to be accepted by a partner.



mynxkat -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 10:08:00 AM)

Not just no, but HELL no! I'm overweight as it is, and have been fighting with that my whole life. I'm trying to lose weight, I would NOT be appreciative of someone asking me to put weight on.



littleone35 -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 10:20:09 AM)

I love my Master and wou do almost anythung to make him happier.  This falls outside of the almost catogery.  Master loves me just the way i am.  He is supporting my weight loss goals because he know it is somethng i want.  He would not ask me to gain weight when i am sttruggling to lose it.  I lost 5lbs so far it is a victory for me but i want to lose another 20.  Master said he will be happy with me no matter what weigh i am, so he would not ask me to gain or lose any weight.

Matt's littleone



juliaoceania -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 10:45:19 AM)

I gain weight accidentally all of the time, and then lose it just as fast.. so I would be willing to try it on for size (stupid pun, but hell, I just had to type it)



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