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agirl -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 10:54:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1

If your Master preferred you to be a size or two bigger would you be willing to gain 8-12lbs to please them?


Yep, if it was 8-12lbs of muscle......I'm actually trying to do that with a PT anyhow:) Then it'd be win-win.

Otherwise, I've never been THAT driven to please him so I doubt it. If it mattered a great deal to him I think we'd likely have to call it a day.... or he'd have to make the prospect overwhelmingly enticing.

agirl






Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 10:56:16 AM)

No. And I wouldn't pick someone to be my life partner who wanted me fatter. It's unhealthy for me. I already have a number of health issues compounded by weight, and I would have to be insane to want to be fatter or go along with someone's desire for me to be fatter


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ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1

If your Master preferred you to be a size or two bigger would you be willing to gain 8-12lbs to please them?



DesFIP -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 10:56:29 AM)

Not enough info. The people who need to lose it shouldn't be told to gain even more. And underweight people have as much difficulty gaining weight as overweight people do losing it. So then comes the serious question, how is this to be accomplished? Is he going to order her to drink ice cream shakes multiple times a day, with the risk of playing with blood sugar? Is he going to demand she eats unhealthy things? Or is he able to magically snap his fingers and have her gain it without any adverse health problems arising?



mynxkat -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 12:02:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
So then comes the serious question, how is this to be accomplished? Is he going to order her to drink ice cream shakes multiple times a day, with the risk of playing with blood sugar? Is he going to demand she eats unhealthy things? Or is he able to magically snap his fingers and have her gain it without any adverse health problems arising?


See, this is actually the easy part. All it would take (for most people, there are exceptions) is a slight overall increase in their daily caloric intake, without a corresponding increase in physical activity. Have slightly larger portions of healthy foods. You know, lean meats, cheeses, veggies, whole grains and the like. I'm not saying go back for thirds and fourths at every meal, but eat a bit more until the goal has been reached then taper off to maintain it. Keep up whatever exercise programs that are currently in effect, but don't increase them. The idea would be a slow, gradual increase, much the way the goal of weight loss is a slow, gradual loss.

:shrug: But I wouldn't actually DO it.



agirl -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 1:15:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1

If your Master preferred you to be a size or two bigger would you be willing to gain 8-12lbs to please them?


I ought to say that if it was just a preference, then it's highly unlikely. He'd prefer I was more organised, he'd prefer I didn't obsess about certain things and so on.

After all, I'm sure he has lots of preferences but he chose me, with all that goes with it just as I chose him. A *preference* isn't much incentive for me to get involved with something I really wouldn't otherwise. An *order* might, though.

agirl



rulemylife -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 1:31:54 PM)

Are you up for a large deluxe pizza with extra cheese?

And several pitchers of Heineken?

Did I mention the cannoli for dessert?






HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 3:49:02 PM)

Yes. I probably wouldn't be too happy about it, and I'd probably try to talk my way out of it, but in the end that was the deal. I do what I'm told to do.



HisPet21 -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 4:35:57 PM)

No, I wouldn't. I would consider an extra 10 pounds a major body modification, which is one of my limits. Plus, staying healthy and fit is VERY important to me, on a physical and emotional level. Plus, he likes skinny girls, so I doubt the issue would ever arise.



littlewonder -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 5:47:09 PM)

If that's what he wanted then yes.

Thankfully it's not what he wants and we probably would not have been compatible in the very beginning if it was being that we both simply aren't attracted to bigger sizes.




Hisprettybaby -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 6:27:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1

If your Master preferred you to be a size or two bigger would you be willing to gain 8-12lbs to please them?

No. I'm already overweight and I'm not about to add to the risk of health issues arising by purposely gaining more. My weight is enough of a bitch anyway, without adding to the problem.

~Hisprettybaby~



lupineEleven -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 6:44:47 PM)

Well, this is something of an interesting question. I've actually been working to lose weight and become more fit, and Master tells me sometimes when he hugs me, "Oh my gosh, I'm gonna miss your little-squish when it's gone!" lol. I honestly would be slightly miffed if he turned around once I'd lost all that weight and gained all that nice muscle and said, "Okay, time to get the squish back!"

It would probably depend on how/why he wanted me to gain that little bit of weight, and whether or not it would be detrimental to my health. If he just wanted me to go up a size, and still be in a healthy body weight range, then I'd have no problem with it. But if he was wanting me to gain back everything I'd lost or something I'd be questioning his sense of standards and health values.



Arpig -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/15/2011 6:47:42 PM)

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Are you up for a large deluxe pizza with extra cheese?

And several pitchers of Heineken?

Did I mention the cannoli for dessert?
LOL, I knew a girl years ago who weighed in at under 90 lbs. Her doctor put her on Ensure and all sorts of supplements to get her to gain weight, none of it worked. She was bitching about it one day, and I told her to just sit on her ass and live on pizza and beer for a month or two and her problem would be solved.

I was right.



foxling -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/16/2011 7:27:35 AM)

This is difficult. I want to say 'no, hell no' - because my self esteem rests quite heavily in the way I look and I'm making changes to that through losing weight that I'm happy with, that I feel make me a happier and more confident person and therefore a 'better' girlfriend/submissive. And as he's said, he'd not ask. (Thank god.) But, if I was being asked to do it seriously, if it was a full on instruction, I think I'd find it really hard to say no. I think the relationship would have to be evaluated on much broader terms (to do with what we want, whether or not I am found attractive by them at all, where they stand on messing with my health) rather than me simply refusing to do that and still expecting the dynamic to be unchanged.



LafayetteLady -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/16/2011 7:47:23 PM)

~Fast Reply~

For me, the answer would be a flat out no. If it were a situation where the s-type was seriously underweight, then it would of course make some sense. But I'm one of those crazy people who has the belief that if I get into a relationship with someone, I do so because I like who they are, and they like who I am. I don't follow the concept of "yes, let's get together so I can "mold" you into what I want you to be."



tyrasia -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/16/2011 8:36:45 PM)

On my frame 8-12 lbs either way makes no difference in size or appearance :D
not sure yet if that is good or bad...hehe



MaxsBoy -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/16/2011 10:50:33 PM)

I've done it.  A former Dom asked me to gain about 10-15 pounds, which took me from the tin side of normal to the heavier side of normal.  I was perfectly healthy at both weights, he just prefered me with a little extra meat.  I did not prefer it however, and thankfully Max has been fine with me losing it again.  I would never gain or lose weight, for anyone, if it would put me at an unhealthy size.



LillyBoPeep -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/17/2011 4:07:02 AM)

yeah, i think i might have less hesitation about it if i was already thin. i'm coming down from my highest weight ever (one day i'll take a new prof. picture haha) and i really DON'T want to go back there. but if i was like 110 lbs or something, going to 120 wouldn't automatically make a person unhealthy (110 is a perfectly healthy weight for people my height).




gungadin09 -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/17/2011 10:04:50 AM)

8-12 pounds, yes. 50 or 60? probably not.

pam



butterflyeffect -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/17/2011 3:11:43 PM)

I've done it...17#...wasn't happy about it & put up a "fight" because i had struggled all my life going up & down & emotionally that is hard to ask that of someone who has done that...and he didn't know me then. But ultimately it wasn't my decision...and I trusted him. I had been consistently losing weight thruout our relationship...because i had wanted to, not because he told me too. I let it get out of hand and he believed i had gotten too thin & looked unhealthy...as well as losing alot of my assets :) And he wanted me to gain until he told me to stop. When i reached a certain weight I broke down & cried & begged him to let me lose some. I was not to diet, however my workouts were increased majorly. And as of this date I have lost 10 of the pounds i had gained. I'm probably back at a healthy weight for ME...and in much better shape physically & strength-wise.

Every person's story/relationship is different. One could say it is a control thing, and to a degree it is, but without knowing the background for each person then it is hard to make a blanket statement about a Master/Dom asking that of his slave/sub. He wanted me to gain because he believed it was right for me...physically. Then he allowed me to lose because again he believed it was right for me...this time emotionally. He was not trying to change me from what i was in the beginning of our relationship, only what i had become...however, as his slave, if he chooses to change me at any point, for any reason, then that is his right. I have given up complete control to him. Just my two cents.



leadership527 -> RE: Would you gain weight? (7/18/2011 8:34:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1
If your Master preferred you to be a size or two bigger would you be willing to gain 8-12lbs to please them?

Carol and I both came to the same conclusion we always come to on these sorts of questions. Carol is mine -- period. Shaved heads, fatter, thinner, whatever. She is mine.



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