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AngelControlsU -> Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 1:44:54 PM)
This is a classified ad I posted on fetlife, I realize it is a little long and I hope it does not seem as if I am trying to circumvent rules and post it here under the disguise of something else but I would really like some feed back as to how it makes me sound as a Mistress and person really. Especially to a sub who might be reading it, if someone thinks it belongs in a different area I am sorry. The reason I ask is because moments after posting it I was called a BDSM prostitute among other insulting things by some troll and while I do not worry about what one troll thinks I do worry that Due to past experiences I will unintentionally come off in a way that would scare off any potentially great slaves or subs. Or combined with certain things in My profile people will get the wrong idea. Ad Title: Domme In Minneapolis, MN Looking for a slave/cuckold/husband & a sub girlfriend Ad Body: Hi there, I am looking for exactly what it says in the title, Please read on if the title interests you. My ideal household would work like this (there is most definitely room for variation and with different people things might with slightly differently I will explain more below): I would like one male slave to serve Me as a live in long term slave, he will be responsible for holding a good job outside of the home and take a large part in supporting My home (I say a large part but do not take this to mean that I do not work, I have been self employed for the last 4 years in Internet Marketing and have great ups and not so great downs but I am very driven and spend quite a bit of time working) I prefer a slave who is a business or property owner, I am especially attracted to attorneys and successful entrepreneurs, but do not let that discourage you if that is not your profession. As I was saying, the male sub’s first priority is financial gain for his Mistress, when not working his free time will be spend cleaning, cooking, household chores and handy man type work, performing as a sexual slave for myself and anyone else I order. He will be disciplined when I see fit and should be very service oriented, your goal should always be to make me as happy as you possibly can. Eventually he might be required to marry and serve as a cuckold husband and father children if I so choose. I would also like one female submissive, you will notice I use the word sub in stead of slave for the female, this is because I am a Female Supremacist and My styles of Domination are very different with females then males. My female sub would be more like a girlfriend and while she would be submissive to Me she would never ever submit to one else especially a man. She would serve more as a personal / office assistant working only for me and never outside of the home. She would be second in line for cooking and cleaning duties if the male slaves job was to time consuming to complete all of it (like I said the male slave’s first priority is to bring in money for the my household so if he were a busy lawyer or taking lots of over time that would come first). My Domination style with men consists of physical punishment, humiliation, at times Chastity, and Rewards for good behavior and service. I do definitely develop close personal loving relationships with My male slaves and certainly care about there wellbeing and happiness. My Domination style with woman is much more nurturing and motherly, I guide them and mold them in to what not only I want but what they strive to be. I fall much more deeply inlove with them and while I am always dominant to their submissive I still regard them as an equal and respect their feelings much more then I do a mans. I am sure my differences in styles boil down to my Female Supremacy views, while I believe men have an important place in this world I believe it is to serve women kind. I believe in a woman choice to do whatever makes her happy and therefore if what makes a beautiful woman happy to serve Me, if she wants to live for me and devote her life to making me happy I would consider Myself to be one very lucky Domme and view that submission as a beautiful gift. Mean while I feel a mans place is at my feet doing whatever I say, in this case it is him who should count himself lucky to have the honor of serving Me and for Me allowing him to take his rightful place as a slave and servant to a superior Femdom Goddess. This does not mean I will not grow to love and cherish him, just like a beloved family pet, Do I love my dog? Of course I do. Do I cuddle him and nuzzle him and let him sleep with me once in a while? Yes I do! Do I take care of him and would I cry if he was hurt? Your damn right I would. Do I let him decide where we walk and what food he eats and weather or not he is allowed to bark at strangers? HELL NO! Anyway after all that being said please take a minute to check out my profile and if you think that you might fit in to either position and be happy there in please contact me respectfully. Please put some thought and time in to your introduction, messages with only a sentence or two will most likely be ignored. Thank you all who have taken the time to read this. ~Goddess Angel This is the first responce I got: him: "(like I said the male slave’s first priority is to being in money for the my household so if he were a busy lawyer or taking lots of over time that would come first)." Jesus Christ, really? There are so many things wrong here I don't even know where to start. How about the easy stuff? Get a real job. Being a BDSM-prostie doesn't make you "self-employed" just like the nightshift pizza guy you scorn in your profile isn't in "mid-level management". The only difference is, that guy probably has a lot of heart delivering pizzas for chunky people like you to stuff in their pieholes, which is more than can be said for you, nitwit. Any self-respecting sub would kick you in the babymaker lol. I did feel the urge to respond and I did: Ahh I made 90k last year thank you, (in Marketing which has nothing do with BDSM) I don't need a real job I run My own business as I have been doing that successfully for the last 4 years. Normally I would not even respond to such an obvious troll but I did feel the need to point that out. Oh and thank you for bring to light a typo I had missed Oh and I sincearly hope you find a better outlet for your negitivity, it will only hurt you. him: S I N C E R E L Y N E G A T I V I T Y they're not typos, you're just illiterate. (Yes I made a horrible mistake that made me look pretty stupid! I am a terrible speller but I always run everything though spell check I really don't know how this one sentence slipped though!) him: you have financial domination nonsense all over your profile, are soliciting for a benefactor in violation of group rules, and I'm the troll? Get lost you clown Me: Oh and I also supported My ex-husband completely, he did all the cooking and cleaning and housework and I paid every bill bought his clothing and personal items and even gave him an allowance. If not wanting to do that again makes me a BDSM prostitute then I guess you called me out. LMFAO! Me again: I will just write this off as one of your occasional indulgences of your playful shit-talking miscreant deep inside. I hope you gain what ever it is you hope to gain out of it. (a reference to something he said in his profile) I am not soliciting for anything, merely because I stated that I expect the male slave to work outside of the home while the female sub works for Me (I work from home and currently employ 2 part timers to which I pay an hourly rate) does not mean that he would be the sole benefactor of our household. I have not violated any group rules. I am not asking for anyone to send Me money or anything for that matter. Your just upset at My views of men being akin to dogs, you are the ill-tempered dog that in a perfect world I would have put down. you can at least take some pride or contentment or whatever it is you were looking for out of knowing that you have in fact pissed me off, I did not want my personal ad to turn to a stupid pissing match with a overly opinoionated about what he knows not troll Oh yeah sorry for being illiterate. My bad. I added the comments because I did explain a few things that I left out that might help my case a bit. The question here is though, is he right? Do I come off that way? There are many reasons for Me stating what I want in such a way, for one as I mentioned I supported My ex-husband completely and that did not work out well, did not make Me happy or him for that matter and I know what I want next time around. Am I going to scare off decent subs because I sound like I just want their money? (I did not think this is how I was coming off but apparently some do) I know my take on males and females and there places in life and my Female Supremacist views cause a lot of controversy and get people riled up and angry and I think this might be the case with him too, even though he said nothing on that subject, if this is your problem with My post then I certainly understand that but then say that please. Is there something wrong with stating that I expect a slave to work outside of the home and carry a large part of the household financial load? I would assume as a slave (not a sub) they would expect their funds (if any) will be at the mercy of their Master or Mistress, this is not an unusual practice, Some slaves expect to work and hand over their paychecks while others expect to serve only with in the home and be supported by there Master or Mistress. Is there something wrong with me clarifying which dynamic I want for my household? Or am I just going overboard with it in my post? Or is this guy just a troll trying to get me riled up (in which case this thread only proves he did and I should just shut the help up and quit second guessing Myself)? I am asking for constrictive criticism! Not name calling and immature judgmental rants. Please be respectful! Thank you for reading! Edited for typos and missed punctuation as always (but that does not mean I still didn’t miss some)

AngelControlsU -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 2:37:54 PM)
WOW, at least people here must subscribe to the "if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all" theory Apparently popular consensus is that I am a horrible despicable person, see replies below. Replier #2 Based on my experience and of many others, I can't realistically believe that you will be readily successful with your search for you apparently have an inadequate lack of respect for men and probably for yourself as well. Your belief in gender supremacy is not widely accepted based on reality. Your overall view of men is non conformal to the sex positive ideology. Some of your stated beliefs and key expectations will therefore likely make it difficult to nearly impossible for you to have an intelligent and financially successful long term devoted male partner of the type you desire that will lead to a successful marriage. Based on what you have said herein, I am also seriously concerned for any potential children that you may have in the future especially if they are of male gender. I suggest you attain adequate professional counseling and advice from a competent sex positive relationship and family counselor/therapist before you enter into a personal relationship with others with mutual long term intentions. Replier #3 Ya know, my opinions of female dommes can be really low at times. Thanks OP, for pretty much proving my points I've made about them in the past. I mean, sure I know of some Dommes who are decent people and I know its not fair to judge them all based on the sins of some, but a lot of them come off exactly like the OP. It's like most of these women aren't even really kinky, they just want to get back at men for some perceived injustice, or just want to boss someone around or get free housework out of a guy. It really is extremely sad and it reinforces negative stereotypes that people like myself had about dominant women. And of course when no decent man takes her up on this ridiculous offer, she'll bitch that all male subs are shit, like gee what self-respecting male sub would want to submit to some bitch who thinks BDSM is some great excuse to dislike men, of course all she's gonna get are wankers with no self respect with this attitude. OP: You need to seriously get over your hatred for men (and your self hatred btw) before you can dominate anyone. I suggest you should stick to the ladies, for everyone's sake. Seriously was it that bad? I do not hate men, I replied to all there comments by stating that after looking at all of there profiles that non of them were subs anyway and therefore I wondered what they were even doing reading my ad. I know that everyone has different views on everything and there will always be people with strong opinions that disagree with mine and they will not always be respectful in expressing that but if my post is worded in a way that will attract these people maybe I should just take it down.

DarkSteven -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 2:44:40 PM)
I didn't need to read your post. You're not advertising sex for money, so it ain't prostitution. Block, delete, ignore. Save effort.

juliaoceania -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 2:53:12 PM)
quote: Apparently popular consensus is that I am a horrible despicable person, see replies below. Or perhaps your OP is soooooo looooooong that no one has the patience to wade through it

AngelControlsU -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 3:00:25 PM)
Well thank you and I am certainly not, I am aware of that. Though I did not mean the question quite so literally, that was something he called Me but obviously it gave that particular responder a very negative impression that lead to him call Me that. What I really want to know is if people understand where he is coming from and think that I am giving out a very negative impression of myself and what I want for my life.

Kaliko -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 3:08:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AngelControlsU Well thank you and I am certainly not, I am aware of that. Though I did not mean the question quite so literally, that was something he called Me but obviously it gave that particular responder a very negative impression that lead to him call Me that. What I really want to know is if people understand where he is coming from and think that I am giving out a very negative impression of myself and what I want for my life. I saw it as negative. Based solely on your ad, you seem like someone that I would not want to know. But - and this is a big but - I don't "get" financial domination at all. So, it might just be that anyone who posts anything telling anyone to pay up will not be high on my list. Apart from the financial domination part, you seem a wee bitter about the male sex. Again, that might be because I, someone who reveres the male sex just for being the male sex (also an approach which many do not agree with) simply cannot comprehend. But apart from that - looked good to me. :) These people that responded to you possibly feel the same way that I do, at least in part, but for some reason feel the need to beat you up about the fact that they feel differently than you do. Personally, I think it's best to show your full personality from the get-go and if that's you, don't change it. The right person(s) will find it appealing.

angelikaJ -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 3:09:07 PM)
I would do my best to ignore and not engage/respond to the negativity. There are a lot of people who do not understand financial domination and there are a lot of men who automatically equate Domme with prostitute no matter how it is dressed up... in part because (to be fair to them) so many have encountered women who want tributes and such. You are upfront about what you want. Just ignore the trash talk.

January -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 3:13:02 PM)
ControlsU, You have a commercial website. You demand TRIBUTE before you'll bother to pay attention to the slaves' applications. In answer to your OP question: No, you are not a BDSM prostitute, as you provide no service for the tribute. You are a scammer. January

Kaliko -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 3:14:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: January ControlsU, You demand TRIBUTE before you'll bother to pay attention to the slaves' applications. I Oh..now see?? I totally don't understand financial domination.

AngelControlsU -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 3:43:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: January ControlsU, You have a commercial website. You demand TRIBUTE before you'll bother to pay attention to the slaves' applications. In answer to your OP question: No, you are not a BDSM prostitute, as you provide no service for the tribute. True, I do have a site that was mostly pointed towards financial domination, I am in the process of re-vamping it to reduce the whole findom aspect, but that was not meant to me connected to my ad in anyway, (I realize it of course is by way of my profile) I am not looking for Tributes, I am not looking for paypigs or even gifts and I say nothing of the sort in my ad. I work and make My own money and do quite well at times and decent at others. as for Me "demanding TRIBUTE before I'll bother to pay attention to the slaves' applications" (I believe that was only for the piggy and blackmail application which I thought I had taken down all together) Yes I do remember there was a Demand for Tribute on my site but no where ever on either of My profiles here on CM or fetlife does it ever demand any tributes. I certainly am not asking for nor expecting any tributes along with My husband/cuckold/slave application and I will be going to My site right after this to make sure that it does not give that impression. I honestly am not nearly as in to findom as it apparently appears that I am and the only thing that got me in to it in the beginning was 2 different pay pigs that turned me on to it by way of offering gifts and tributes and thanking me for the mere opportunity to do so, asking me to be their Financial Domme, of course I though this was great (it was several years ago) and began to look more in to Financial Domination and other Fin Domme's web sites. I never realized that there were men out there that got off on buying gifts and giving there money away to women. I am Dominant, I am Controlling, and I love to get gifts and I love to spend money. It seemed a great match. At the time I was not looking for 27/7 I was involved with other people and it was a fun and I met some cool (and not so cool) people and got a lot of really cool stuff. Now I am looking for a 24/7 long term relationship and it seems like any association I have with financial Domination automatically discredits anything I say. This is definitely something for me to consider and I thank you for your opinions (except the one about Me being a scammer) and for being respectful!

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 3:53:19 PM)
honestly, your ad reads like you're looking for a guy to work and take care of you and your "sub girlfriend." lots of sub males get run through the wringer by chicks who just want what's in their wallets, so it's no surprise you're getting the reception you're getting -- that's what your ad sounds like. at least you're being upfront about it. =p and i really can't think of a man who would want his kids raised by a Female Supremacist mother; Dad's choices are his own, but he may be afraid that you could never give due attention and opportunities to a male child because you expressly state that you believe men are here to serve women. "gender supremacy" ideas turn a lot of people off.

AngelControlsU -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 3:54:05 PM)
Just went to my site, I was right no where do I "demand TRIBUTE before I'll bother to pay attention to the slaves' applications." but on the Tribute Page it did say "You should Tribute me BEFORE you contact me" which I have removed.

Lockit -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 4:06:29 PM)
I couldn't wade through all that after all the work I have done today, but I have seen some of your other posts. Me, I think you were rather smart. You posted this elsewhere and people responded. You got some answers for which I don't really understand why you care, but if we are going there... I will continue. I basically thought... well damn, she figured out a good way to post an ad right here as a question! Now that is good advertisement! However, how good is it if you turn people off when you are trying to turn them on? They sure aren't going to pay unless you do or they really believe (somehow) that women are superior. I'd say good advertisement would have to come in proving the honesty in advertisement. When lightening comes from your fingertips and you can burn some sorry ass... and miracles are a dime a dozen... you might get those tributes before any product, service or title is seen as worth it and applied. So basically it amounts to one thing in my opinion. Spam...

AngelControlsU -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 4:10:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep and i really can't think of a man who would want his kids raised by a Female Supremacist mother; Dad's choices are his own, but he may be afraid that you could never give due attention and opportunities to a male child because you expressly state that you believe men are here to serve women. "gender supremacy" ideas turn a lot of people off. Yes I received a comment about that, I have a son, I love him more then anything in the world and he is spoiled rotten. I do not believe in treating male children different from female children and I do not believe that male children are any less precious then female children. I want My son to grow up with a strong male role model and a very strong example of how a man should treat a woman which in my opinion (and I know I am not alone here) is with the utmost respect, woman should be cherished and cared for, never disrespected or intentionally hurt. I want him to grow up seeing that his father (or step father) would do anything to make his mother happy. I do not treat males as sub standard in public or around My child or even in day to day private life (unless we are privately in an adult play session and that is part of it). I am not looking to force a man to do all the work for Me and to be my servant and pay My way, I am looking for a man who wants nothing more then to do so, a man that will take great pride and satisfaction in doing domestic work and making my life easer. I do not want it to be demeaning for him I want him to enjoy and want to serve Me in those ways.

AngelControlsU -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 4:22:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit I couldn't wade through all that after all the work I have done today, but I have seen some of your other posts. Me, I think you were rather smart. You posted this elsewhere and people responded. You got some answers for which I don't really understand why you care, but if we are going there... I will continue. I basically thought... well damn, she figured out a good way to post an ad right here as a question! Now that is good advertisement! However, how good is it if you turn people off when you are trying to turn them on? They sure aren't going to pay unless you do or they really believe (somehow) that women are superior. I'd say good advertisement would have to come in proving the honesty in advertisement. When lightening comes from your fingertips and you can burn some sorry ass... and miracles are a dime a dozen... you might get those tributes before any product, service or title is seen as worth it and applied. So basically it amounts to one thing in my opinion. Spam... I thought it might look that way, as I was trying to post the classified ad here, I am not. I only wanted feedback because of the responses I got on fetlife but I can see where you would get that. But this is what I do not understand, why do people keep responding as if I am asking for something, NOWHERE on here or in My ad do I ask for any kind of tribute what so ever! "They sure aren't going to pay unless" Pay what???? "you might get those tributes before any product, service or title is seen" WHAT TRIBUTES????? I NEVER FUCKING ASKED FOR ANY TRIBUTES! I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO SEND ME ANYTHING, I DO NOT WANT TO GET PAID FOR ANYTHING!!! I AM NOT OFFEREING ANY SERVCE OR PRODUCT!!!! I NEVER ONCE USED THE WORD TRIBUTE! I NEVER ONCE ASKED FOR ANYTHING!!!! Sorry to yell but wtf? edited to move a comma and ad a period

Lockit -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 4:31:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AngelControlsU Just went to my site, I was right no where do I "demand TRIBUTE before I'll bother to pay attention to the slaves' applications." but on the Tribute Page it did say "You should Tribute me BEFORE you contact me" which I have removed. Well forgive my tired eyes and mind! Tribute isn't asking for something? Oh... maybe when old Uncle Sam can't get his dime from it, it doesn't amount to anything. I don't know what planet you are living on, but a tribute before you contact someone, means someone is giving you money simply because they wish to contact a superior woman. That is my dear, asking for something. Do you think that this is their first go round with someone with a web site that pretty much could have been seen before they responded to you? In your superiority, do you really think everyone is a silly little dick wad that cannot put some rocket science to anything at all? Give it up. You want tribute or you wouldn't have asked for it. So you modified some things after you got a little butt spank... you still said it in the first place and you have said something like it in many places and in many ways in the last couple of days. Get on with your bad self.. I really don't care... but I know a spade when I see one and I have no problem calling it a spade. It wasn't me dragging this all out. You came with questions your superior mind couldn't quite grasp apparently and you got told. Backfired didn't it?

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 4:40:37 PM)
you can't really say "i never used the word 'tribute'" because, as Lockit quoted, you just removed a "tribute me before contacting me" phrase from your site. people probably viewed your profile, which linked to your site as you said in the OP, and saw that, and formed their conclusions. now you've edited it away, but your "classified ad" still says that your slave's #1 job is financial gain for you. you continue to hammer away at it by saying you're "attracted" to property owners, business owners, attorneys, etc etc -- surprised you left out doctors. =p you're very concerned with his money and his possibility to make money. it's very transparent, i don't understand why you can't see that. people see you as a money-minded woman because that is exactly how you have portrayed yourself.

AngelControlsU -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 4:52:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit quote: ORIGINAL: AngelControlsU Just went to my site, I was right no where do I "demand TRIBUTE before I'll bother to pay attention to the slaves' applications." but on the Tribute Page it did say "You should Tribute me BEFORE you contact me" which I have removed. Well forgive my tired eyes and mind! Tribute isn't asking for something? Oh... maybe when old Uncle Sam can't get his dime from it, it doesn't amount to anything. I don't know what planet you are living on, but a tribute before you contact someone, means someone is giving you money simply because they wish to contact a superior woman. That is my dear, asking for something. Do you think that this is their first go round with someone with a web site that pretty much could have been seen before they responded to you? In your superiority, do you really think everyone is a silly little dick wad that cannot put some rocket science to anything at all? Give it up. You want tribute or you wouldn't have asked for it. So you modified some things after you got a little butt spank... you still said it in the first place and you have said something like it in many places and in many ways in the last couple of days. Get on with your bad self.. I really don't care... but I know a spade when I see one and I have no problem calling it a spade. It wasn't me dragging this all out. You came with questions your superior mind couldn't quite grasp apparently and you got told. Backfired didn't it? No I do not feel it backfired and I do appreciate your input. I am new here and have noticed you are a very involved member I am not trying to start anything with you or cause any ill feelings, (although it seems you have already made up your mind about me and I doubt I will be able to over come that in your case anyway) You did say you did not read it all and I will assume that is the reason for this misunderstanding. In writing My personal ad I had no intention of it leading to my site or having anything to do with my site. I had no intention of interested parties reading My personal ad and then going to my site and thinking the site was directed at them as well. I realize now this was just poor planning on my part and that of course anyone can easily get to my site from my profiles and that of course no one would keep these things separate. This is 100% my fault but it was not how it was intended and I believe I said that above before. This thread was asking for people to critique My personal ad writing, NOT my site. In the ad there was no implication of any tributing.

Lockit -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 5:00:49 PM)
Okay, what part of your not having any intention of people connecting the dots from your posts to your profiles and all those addys you have stuck to every post, makes sense? So does this mean they will be disappearing? I mean, if your real intent isn't for them to connect the dots... you might delete the direct path you have left. I am not so much involved around here and my opinion whether I am or not, is of no matter. I just see you saying one thing and then another and then saying you never said or intended the one thing and you have been a busy lil worker bee lately. Forgive me if I assume you want to get noticed and have an agenda. As for your post... I read most of it... I think you are a very determined person, who has a pretty lil picture she wants to live. Should you be called a prostitute... no.

AngelControlsU -> RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like a BDSM prostitute? (7/18/2011 5:18:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep you can't really say "i never used the word 'tribute'" because, as Lockit quoted, you just removed a "tribute me before contacting me" phrase from your site. people probably viewed your profile, which linked to your site as you said in the OP, and saw that, and formed their conclusions. now you've edited it away, but your "classified ad" still says that your slave's #1 job is financial gain for you. you continue to hammer away at it by saying you're "attracted" to property owners, business owners, attorneys, etc etc -- surprised you left out doctors. =p you're very concerned with his money and his possibility to make money. it's very transparent, i don't understand why you can't see that. people see you as a money-minded woman because that is exactly how you have portrayed yourself. Yes I get what you are saying as I addressed above and you are right about it, like I said that was a oversight on my part and it makes a lot of sense where some people are coming from I do understand that. When I said I never used the word tribute I did mean in the ad itself. I am not attracted to lawyers and self employed individuals because of their earning power alone it is what is in their personality that makes them become those things, I am a self employed business owner so that right there makes sense why I would like other business owners. I have always been of the belief that you can never truly get ahead in this world working for someone else so I tend to click well with others that have figured that out too. As for lawyers they have strong Alpha male personalities and many have a secret (or not so secret) desire to submit to one special woman, they are also intelligent and have great critical thinking skills, which I believe is why I have ended up dating several of them which is why I pointed it out, also I have always wanted to own, rend and flip property which is why I mentioned that, I am very skilled at and enjoy handyman stuff including knowing how to hang dry wall, install windows and doors, sweat copper piping, even electrical work. I have also worked as a property manager and am used to dealing with tenants so someone who was into things like that would be a great match for Me. I did not ad doctors, surgeons, CEO's of major corporations, movie stars or Bill Gates because I have never found my self specifically attracted to any of them. Let me just state again I WORK! I work 60 hours a week or more usually, I work very hard, I make good money! YES I am a Money Minded person! I would never ever deny that, that is why I do not go out and party, that is why I do not spend as much time with my friends as I would like, Because I am working long hours to make money. I made 90k last year Myself alone, I do not have much to show for it though besides a few nice TV's and computers and pictures from a couple trips I took do you know why? because I was the sole earner in the house old I and I alone paid for 100% of my son's and my husbands expenses. Maybe because of this I am going over bored on expressing that I do not want the same thing. I do not think I am being such a horrible person because I want my slave (and also co-member in the household) to ideally make close to as much as me or more. I have been working too hard for too long, Yes I want to be able to take a break some times and know that everything is not resting on my shoulders alone. I think I deserve that. I really do.

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