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RqrCompanionS -> RE: Wardrobe challenged (7/22/2011 11:31:42 AM)
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ORIGINAL: leadership527
What's a polite way to encourage someone to invest some money in their appearance?
It's the same as the polite way to say to a woman, "Your fat. You should really invest in a gym membership and a diet plan." My question is "Why would you even make the attempt?
I know this seems petty, but what can I say? It's important to me.
I don't see it as petty. I think people get to choose partners on whatever basis they feel is appropriate. I want HWP women and I don't make any bones about it nor do I feel petty about my preference. What I do NOT do is get involved with obese women then try to fix them. THAT isn't petty, but it's downright rude and inconsiderate.
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What I do NOT do is get involved with obese women then try to fix them. THAT isn't petty, but it's downright rude and inconsiderate.
Ah, but, there are polite ways to say it, if your intentions are good. Such as "I am worried about your health and you don't seem very happy with your size. Is there something I can do to help you?"
As for getting involved with obese women and trying to fix them, it is only rude if, in fact, you are doing it when they don't want to be fixed, or, doing it in a manner that is not at all helpful to them. If they want help to change, if they need help to change, and, you are offering to do what they need, it is called being a friend.
Says the obese woman who is damned tired of everybody judging her for what was caused by several horrible people in her life, and, compounding the problem (since it is mostly related to extreme stress and bad doctoring), and, who are never willing to listen, consider that maybe she, as the inhabitant of her body, knows what is needed to be done, and, then, do something constructive rather than something just assholeish.
I want a slave who is perfectly fine with getting involved with an obese woman and fixing her, because, I have the knowledge of how to do it and no resources to get it done. So, what I think is rude and inconsiderate, is for people to ignore me when I say that, then give me bad advice that does not apply to my life (and, seldom applies to any females life, for that matter), or, tell me that they like bigger women so they wouldn't want to help.
If that's the case, they should get out of the way, because, I only have room in my life for those slaves who are actually going to be helpful in me changing my life, so that is more comfortable for me, and, then, who are willing to help others do the same.
PS: While my body fat percentage is not 20 -30 percent, it is, in fact, lower than a whole lot of women I know who are size 2 - size 7, who people look at and judge as not obese and as socially acceptable. So, HWP obviously doesn't really mean anything about actual physical fat content, or, those men who say they want women who are HWP would be chasing me in favor of the smaller women with less muscle and bone. It has shite to do with actual health, and, everything to do with looks.
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