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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 12:58:12 PM   
Lucylastic


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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 1:03:43 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		I can have a relationship without control. I have had several, I have 3 children from just such a relationship. However, I chose not to any longer. I pity you, and your ilk, who cannot accept themselves as they are. It must really be unpleasant to have to live a lie every day of your life.




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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 1:20:45 PM   
SUBMALEUK11


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Status: offline 		I don't even know if ur male or female air pig but if you were healthy you wouldn't need to abuse others

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 1:22:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11

Men don't like it though, there being dominated and humiliated by dominants, men need to he free and live with honour.

If you don't want to hear the truth but want tones answes that will make you smile talk to a man when he's aroused.

So, in other words, by the very screen name that you chose for yourself, you believe that other men see you as less and living without honor?  That you are so easily led by your dick that you will smile and take whatever is dished out to you, so long as you're hard and haven't come yet?  Seems to Me that you might just have a conflict there.  What a terrible way to have to see yourself in the mirror.  No wonder you want other men to feel the way you do about it.  You can't accept your own desires, so you don't think other people can, either.

Of course, there is always option two and Phil just made himself a new profile.


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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 1:32:46 PM   
LadyNTrainer


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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11
Maybe, I've no idea, I just reckon most men on here are like that, no one can be a slave all the time, imagine going to work and acting that way, you wouldn't last long


I think your idea of how a submissive man should be is likely to be inspired by bad porn or stereotypical comedic images found in movies rather than from knowing any genuinely strong and sincerely submissive men in real life.

Both of my boys are collared and branded; they belong to me. They are in my service and submissive to me.  But woe betide anyone who starts anything with them without my explicit permission.  A good analogy is that they are like beta wolves who obey their alpha, or samurai in honorable service.  They serve and obey, absolutely, with strength and honor.  I wouldn't advise teasing wolves or insulting samurai unless you want to end up missing body parts.  Likewise, don't fuck with these guys.  You wouldn't like what happens.

That they have the honor of being in service to me, their Lady, gives them an air of quiet strength, dignity and pride.  It is a subtle thing perhaps, one that an outsider might not recognize.  A vanilla person who did not know that these men were in honorable service might simply observe that there is a certain serenity about them, an unshakeable calm confidence, a sense of grace.  That's what a slave looks like in real life to people who don't necessarily know that they are in service. 

If you don't know any male slaves in real life and only know the bad porno or comedy stereotypes, I get why you are thinking the way you do. But it is pretty obvious where you are getting your ideas, and it isn't from real life. 


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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 1:32:53 PM   
Arpig


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but if you were healthy you wouldn't need to abuse others
Oh I don't need to abuse anybody. I just happen to enjoy it. But then again, I've never claimed to be healthy, rather the opposite. My psychiatrist fully agrees with you...I'm a sick puppy.


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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 1:35:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like the OP's spelling, it is very manly.

Some people said some good stuff in this thread tones of good answes.

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 1:40:20 PM   
LadyNTrainer


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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11
Men don't like it though, there being dominated and humiliated by dominants, men need to he free and live with honour.


Since you're a bit far away for me to suggest you come bother one of my men and see what happens to you, I dare you to go to a military bar and call a Marine dishonorable for taking the orders of his CO.  You could also try hitting a gym and teasing the bodybuilders for following the discipline of their personal trainers.  Let us know how that goes for you.


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If you don't want to hear the truth but want tones answes that will make you smile talk to a man when he's aroused.


I can not think of very many things that are less honorable than being willing to tell lies while you are aroused, and then recanting everything you said after you have an orgasm.  A man who will do that is not a man of honor, nor is he free.  He is a slave to his own drives, and unfit to be in anyone's service including his own. 


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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 2:30:01 PM   
littlekitten1


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Status: offline 		Actually I think a guy can be submissive AND respectful.. Like in romantic movies, where the guy brings flowers, opens doors for the girls, takes living care of her, always checks up on her.... That's pretty normal for some dudes and in society over all... Why would anyone lose respect for the guy over that?

Maybe if people knew what happens to him in the bedroom(the more kinky stuff)... But that's only because outside people are closeminded to kink, and they would equally lose respect for any other type of couple who are a bit abnormal.



Anyway people... Why are you feeding the troll? :p

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 2:50:00 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		OP - here's something for you to reflect on:

"Everything we are is the result of what we have thought, the mind is everything, what we think, we become" - Guatama Buddha

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 3:41:23 PM   
SUBMALEUK11


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Status: offline 		Once you submit in one area of your life, the others will collapse like dominoes.

Don't be punished over a lifetime for someone else's childhood.

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 3:43:03 PM   
SUBMALEUK11


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Status: offline 		I think there's a big difference between a marine and a guy who degrades himself sexually.

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

quote:

ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11
Men don't like it though, there being dominated and humiliated by dominants, men need to he free and live with honour.


Since you're a bit far away for me to suggest you come bother one of my men and see what happens to you, I dare you to go to a military bar and call a Marine dishonorable for taking the orders of his CO.  You could also try hitting a gym and teasing the bodybuilders for following the discipline of their personal trainers.  Let us know how that goes for you.


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If you don't want to hear the truth but want tones answes that will make you smile talk to a man when he's aroused.


I can not think of very many things that are less honorable than being willing to tell lies while you are aroused, and then recanting everything you said after you have an orgasm.  A man who will do that is not a man of honor, nor is he free.  He is a slave to his own drives, and unfit to be in anyone's service including his own. 


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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 3:47:44 PM   
Arpig


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Anyway people... Why are you feeding the troll? :p
Because we're perverts and we find it entertaining?

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 3:49:40 PM   
Arpig


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Once you submit in one area of your life, the others will collapse like dominoes.
Well yes, that is the general idea, that submission won't just be restricted to the bedroom. I'm glad to see you're catching on.

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 3:52:56 PM   
SUBMALEUK11


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Status: offline 		You think it's right for a persons life to collapse?

Would you want that for your son?

< Message edited by SUBMALEUK11 -- 7/28/2011 3:53:18 PM >

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 4:01:12 PM   
Arpig


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Would you want that for your son?
If it made him all hot and spermy to fall to his knees before a woman, sure, why not? Why wouldn't I want him to lead a happy and fulfilling life?


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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 4:06:01 PM   
LittleRooster


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Status: offline 		I still feel submissive, but not horny so if my lady still wants to play or humiliate me etc that is fine but I am more tired! But then if she does start humilitaing me after orgasm, I do tend to get back in the mood pretty quickly.

Generally it is better if I am kept without orgasm if you want me at my most intense state of submission.

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 6:41:38 PM   
experiment2


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Status: offline 		if i have an orgasm with permission from my Mistress, i do feel somewhat less inclinded to participate in other activities for a while. i lose interest and want to be on my own. the excitement is gone. there is no desire to do anything stimulating for several hours to a day or two. i can't explain my reasons.

but on those occassions wher i lost control and ejaculated on my own without permisssion, i felt wasted and guilt ridden for what i did as well as what i have become. the longer i was in chastity, the greater the guilt. i have found myself wanting out of the submissive lifestyle. after a day or so i generally regret what ever hasty decision i have made and slowly try to slip back into my previous desires. of course by then i am in serious trouble.

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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 6:51:57 PM   
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RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls ha... - 7/28/2011 6:51:57 PM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		God, this thread started out as genuinely stupid but man it's really taking a turn for the better on this last page. There are some real gems here:

Lucylastic: if you have an issue with control, you need to get off the site doood, you are really out of your depth

LadyNTrainer: I dare you to go to a military bar and call a Marine dishonorable for taking the orders of his CO. You could also try hitting a gym and teasing the bodybuilders for following the discipline of their personal trainers. Let us know how that goes for you.
... from the hospital.

SUBMALEUK11: I think there's a big difference between a marine and a guy who degrades himself sexually.
... unless it's a marine who likes to degrade himself sexually -- who would still be quite happy to put you in the hospital.

Arpig: Well yes, that is the general idea, that submission won't just be restricted to the bedroom. I'm glad to see you're catching on.
In response to, Once you submit in one area of your life, the others will collapse like dominoes.

I would like to thank the above posters for restoring my faith in Collarme -- each in their own way :) I'd like to nominate this whole page for "Sunny Quote of the Day".

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