Muttling
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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or "Locking a child in a box is not a mistake. It's a depraved act by useless pieces of shit who deserve terrible terrible things to happens to them. " Try that with an extremely hyperactive kid who plays with fire, and at ten steals your car keys, and kills your pets. Puts you in a trick bag because the motherfucker ran over someone. You pay, no matter how much, you pay. Try that fucking shit. You are correct in your own experiance. but try kids who kick out all the basement windows and it rains in and the freezes and wrecks the foundation of the house. I have been there, I have seen it. Sometimes you gotta smack the motherfuckers REALLY FUCKING HARD. I agree that it does no good, but you still hafta do it. T^T As a high school teacher who often has behavior disorder kids in a classroom of 20+ kids, I can say from a great deal of experience that your proclaimed knowledge on the subject is severely limited and your the concepts presented in your examples are badly misinformed. Locking such a child in a box is only a quick fix for the adult, it does nothing long term to help the adult and will often amplifies the behaviors that the adult is trying to prevent. Children such as you describe require a TON of effort and are a MONSTER test of your patience, but you can lock away the keys to the car you spoke of much more easily than you can lock away the child and you can work with the child's behavior instead of praying that it goes away on it's own instead of using meaningful correction.
< Message edited by Muttling -- 7/30/2011 9:05:13 AM >
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