Marisol
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ORIGINAL: siamsa24
Our toy box is stocked with items from The Dollar Store, Wal-Mart and Home Depot. There are countless threads on how you can stock your toy box with items from these stores and a few websites dedicated to DIY toy and clothing making.
My Husband and I are not well-off, not even close, we are considered working class, but we still manage to make our relationship work. Granted, I am not a Domme, but I think it can work both ways
I'm glad to know that I can use creativity and go to everyday stores to stock up. I always look at bdsm stores, and get dismayed at the prices!
Thank you for the reply. This gives me comfort that I can make this work, despite not being wealthy.
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
If you want a relationship, no. I would think any malesub who wants a relationship also is not looking for the toys and the outfits but a confidant woman who doesn't need all the gizmos to dominate him.
If you want to be a pro-domme....well, you don't need to be wealthy but the guys are paying for more than a bossy woman....they want the costumes and toys, the fantasy that they are paying for...unless you make that part of your pro-domme scheme.....if you want me to dominate you then buy me this, that, blah blah blah...an Amazon wishlist.
It comes down to what do you want
I'm not very interested in being a pro-domme, maybe some day, but for now, definitely not.
Thank you for your reply too.
I'm definitely looking to let my confidence be what makes subs want to submit, not fancy toys(not anything wrong with that for those who like this). So, I'll remind myself it's an inner growth I need more of, not more money necessarily.
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Think of those things that you do have and focus on them as you work your way into your own... a place we all have to find one way or another. A funny thing mother's often do in trying to teach a balance or maturity we see our children progressing to, is tell them what is needed in a manner that will often make them feel less than or insecure or unable. It is an art and at moments, a parent can be overwhelmed, rushed, worried or scared for our newly adult children. I can tell you the many things my mother said I couldn't do and not one thing from that time period that I could do. lol
The thing is, I didn't care. I was going to go out and do my thing whether she thought I could or not and even if it meant I had yukky roommates or ate peanut butter sandwiches for weeks, I was going to do it. That spirit was attractive to people, all sorts of people and it worked me into some pretty good situations.
You will come into your own. Believe it! As you get creative in how to live life, you will also get creative on how to have fun in life! The toys will come, as well as the boys... no doubt about that!
This reply made me smile, a lot. You're right, our parents do that often. My mom is quick to say things that make me feel less of a person.
I know i am young, so I am still learning how to live and how to make the best of things.
The thing I took most from your post is I have to be resilient and not let anyone(even my mother) get me down.
ps. I personally hate peanut butter sandwiches more than any other food, but your reply gave me this confidence that I'm wiling to sacrifice things and to make do with what is available just so I can push on and make more of myself. thank you
< Message edited by Marisol -- 7/29/2011 1:22:01 PM >
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