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PrairieBlues -> Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 6:07:49 AM)

Talking with many male doms I've noticed that they often tell me they'll keep me naked except for nylon stockings and 6" locked-on heels, 24/7/365.

I don't see how this can be practical for a live-in slave. How would I perform regular household duties, or errands, or all the other daily tasks required of me? Wouldn't this lead to permanent health risks such as bunions, toe deformities, permanently shortened Achilles tendons, and various other foot, leg and back problems?

I'm pretty sure these doms are just fantasizing and possibly have little or no real life experience, but I won't know for sure till I ask:

Have any of you ever been kept in high heels 24/7/365, or made your partner do it?

If yes, how did that work out?

Were you expected to, or able to, do practical types of chores and household tasks daily?

Did you suffer any health consequences, either reversible or permanent?

Is 24/7 high heels even possible, or is it clearly just wank material?



Aileen1968 -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 6:12:48 AM)

I'm sure that goes right out of the window when you rake his shin with those six in heels in the middle of the night while sleeping...



Kaliko -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 6:21:54 AM)

Tried it. Not even 24/7, just 24/7 when with him. Didn't last long. Frankly, he likes me in jeans and hiking boots better.



Lucylastic -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 6:48:31 AM)

I am right with Aileen.
life has a kick ass way of making anything 24/7 loose its allure quite quickly(not relationships but lots of fantasies)



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 6:54:18 AM)

Yeah stockings and heels 24/7 is fantasy fodder, up there with wearing a butt plug or vibe 24/7, living in a cage, somehow managing to do all housework from your cage, as well as support your dom (righty).

It screams desktop dom w/o a clue.





tj444 -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 6:58:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
desktop dom

[sm=rofl.gif]

very apt description..



Lucylastic -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 6:59:56 AM)

see and I was bein nice:)LMAO



risktaker9 -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 7:00:50 AM)

How ridiculous. Since I've never had anyone bring this up to me, I'm curious...do you laugh at them when it comes up? Do you keep even talking to them? It's just so silly, I don't think I could have any more respect for someone that actually thought this was possible in real life. If they prefaced the idea with telling you it was a favorite fantasy or something that would be cool, but for someone to think that it was actually possible...well, I just can't believe they'd think it could be done in a manner that allowed everyone involved to actually live a useful or healthy life.



Ishtarr -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 7:05:41 AM)

I don't think that wearing heels 24/7 is realistic. But I can't really say, I certainly have never tried it.

However, I don't see your concern for doing household chores in heels either.
I love high heels, especially stilettos. I currently own 46 pair.
Before an ankle injury unrelated to wearing heels prevented me from wearing heels for more than a couple of hours at a time, I often did chores in heels.
I see no reason why one can't do laundry, or do the dishes, or vacuum, or do the windows, in heels, I've done it often enough because I squeezed chores in between doing other things and I didn't want to change shoes 10 times a day. For other chores, like cleaning the bathroom, garage or basement I'd change my foot ware, but that's more because I was concerned about ruining the heels than that it was actually impossible to do those things in heels.

But then again, I used to be able to wear rather high heels for an entire day, from the moment of getting dressed to the moment of getting undressed, and have no problem with pain in my feet or legs at all, even if I was on my feet for most of the day. I miss those days...

You just need to give your feet the time to gradually get used to increasingly higher heels for increasingly longer periods of time. As long as you maintain a good posture in heels, instead of leaning or slouching you wont get back problems either, unless you're already prone to it. As far as tendons tightening up, I have noticed that when I wore heels almost everyday, so I worked in a 10 min morning and evening stretch in my schedules and the problems disappeared.

Ishtar



PrairieBlues -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 7:07:50 AM)


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ORIGINAL: risktaker9

How ridiculous. Since I've never had anyone bring this up to me, I'm curious...do you laugh at them when it comes up? Do you keep even talking to them? It's just so silly, I don't think I could have any more respect for someone that actually thought this was possible in real life. If they prefaced the idea with telling you it was a favorite fantasy or something that would be cool, but for someone to think that it was actually possible...well, I just can't believe they'd think it could be done in a manner that allowed everyone involved to actually live a useful or healthy life.


I don't keep talking to them or laugh at them, I just develop an urgent need to go wash my hair or take the dog out.

I know it does sound ridiculous, but lots of things I used to think sounded ridiculous wound up actually being real. Such as Fire Play (set someone on fire for fun, what?!)

So here I am, asking a ridiculous question instead of assuming it can't happen just because I can't understand it.



Kaliko -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 7:10:34 AM)

I've done a fair amount of chores in heels, and I can be comfortable in heels all day long. It's just...you know what? After all is said and done, I really like taking my shoes off and putting on something comfortable for lounging around in, and he likes to see me comfortable and happy. So I'm comfortable enough in heels that I could probably wear them for a good amount of time (minus sleeping or walking through mud and other obvious things), but...I don't really want to.

Plus, they're loud on my wood floors. How would I sneak up on him and give him wet willies?



JanahX -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 7:15:14 AM)

Here's a better question: How stupid are you for even contemplating this?



risktaker9 -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 7:29:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PrairieBlues


I don't keep talking to them or laugh at them, I just develop an urgent need to go wash my hair or take the dog out.

I know it does sound ridiculous, but lots of things I used to think sounded ridiculous wound up actually being real. Such as Fire Play (set someone on fire for fun, what?!)

So here I am, asking a ridiculous question instead of assuming it can't happen just because I can't understand it.



I didn't mean to say that your question was ridiculous, and you're right...many things that sound crazy turn out to be ok. In fact, I asked a question of my own wondering how you treated the inquiries when they came about, because I myself couldn't figure out what I'd do if faced with someone that seemed to be so unconnected with reality as to put the idea out there of having their woman do stockings/heels 24/7. I mean I'd try not to laugh or be disrespectful but I think that's what would happen in the end, so you're ahead of the game with the sudden need to do a chore [;)]

My answer was predicated on having had to wear heels and knowing that I could not carry out what was expected of me in them. Men like the way they look and have no idea of how it feels to wear them or what happens to your feet when you do. Of course I'm only speaking for myself and I find wearing them to be difficult and uncomfortable, as opposed to others who may have found that they can indeed wear them with impunity.



littlewonder -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 8:04:26 AM)

You know Master loves me in heels..the higher the better. He likes the helplessness they bring about but there are times when he is just annoyed by them such as when we're in a hurry to get to some place or I can't keep up with him and I don't think he'd be very thrilled if I wore them while we were out hiking or in the sand at the beach lol.

So there's really a time and a place. I suggest if you get with a dom who requires them 24/7, go ahead..wear them 24/7. The first time you guys miss an appointment or you get stuck in the mud for the thousandth time he'll be yelling at you to take them off lol.




kiwisub12 -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 8:32:30 AM)

Don't you hate it when reality intrudeds - lol.



Epytropos -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 8:51:33 AM)

There is research basis which says that heels worn over the course of a lifetime - even just 3-4 days a weekfor work hours - has the potential to cause problems for the feet. Many podiatrists recommend that we as a society eschew them altogether. Wearing them 24/7 for any period of time is a terrible, terrible idea. As others have said, I doubt it would significantly interfere with service, at least not once the sub got used to them, but that's quite beside the point given the heath risks.

Additionally, in the words of Benamin Kroshaw, the quickest way to spoil your pleasures is to make them routine. If you ONLY ever see her in heels it would grow dull, I expect.



DesFIP -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 11:32:30 AM)

He better be wealthy enough to buy new sheets on a daily basis. And be able to have a handicapped accessible shower put in, and those things aren't cheap. Plus there goes working out, washing the floor, etc.

Or living in the northern half of the country for that matter.

It's obviously not something anyone has ever done.



NuevaVida -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 11:36:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

It screams desktop dom w/o a clue.


Ok THAT'S funny!

And 6" heels??  Ha ha ha, I hope we have good medical insurance.  [8D]



UniqueRaven -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 11:47:30 AM)

24/7/365 for anything other then breathing and having a beating heart is unattainable beyond the short term.

My theme for M/s or Owner property is always - be authentic. Be who you are, within your definition of the power exchange. It means being real, and having real expectations of each other as Master and slave, and valuing each other and the relationship much more highly than the fetish or the kink.

This thing that these "Doms" are asking is a fetish, it is something they read in a fetish novel, and the thought makes them hard - that's about it. Honestly, actually getting one of these men to even meet you in real life is probably an unreal expectation...they're typing with one hand, if you get my drift. ;) Move on to someone who understands your humanity and is seeking more than just a fantasy, I say (unless you just want the fantasy as well).

Some comments in regards to wearing heels...I do most of the time - heels and skirts (no hose, this is Texas for heaven's sake!). I shop, carry groceries upstairs, do chores, wash, cook, rinse, repeat, etc. in heels. I have done so for a loooong time now, with few ill effects.

I also do a LOT of yoga - and I also take a lot of time to simply be barefoot. As a matter of fact if I'm not in heels, I'm simply barefoot. I really own no other shoes, other than my one pair of running shoes.

I think that the continued movement and stretching of my feet through both heels and yoga is very healthy for them. My daughter's podiatrist tells me the most important thing for the foot is to keep it moving, and keep it flexible, which I do.

And you may ask - why do I continue to wear heels, even though I am currently not owned 24/7? Because the challenge of it is worth it. It is exercise, it is meditative, and it is very good for my legs. I enjoy the realization that I'm going to have to kneel down in my skirt and heels to pick up the package of laundry soap from the bottom of the cart, or that I'm going to have to take two trips up the stairs because I can't carry as much. It's good for my body, my balance, and my mental space. So I continue to do so. Plus it looks feminine, and I enjoy looking feminine. It's becoming more rare these days.

It's just like pretty much anything else in life - if done to excess, and not in balance, it can be damaging. But as part of a healthy lifestyle...and a healthy D/s relationship...sure, go for it, is what I say.



angelikaJ -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 12:05:02 PM)

Someone mentioned foot deformities.
Another is a shortening of the achilles tendon.
Wearing high heels for prolonged periods puts your body out of alignment by pushing your center of gravity forward thus stressing your lower back and can cause sciatica. I imagine long term use would cause wear and tear over time.
Then there is the stress on your knees and hips.

So, men who have this fantasy are not thinking of long term, nor have an awareness of nor care about the wellbeing of their potential partners.



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