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UniqueRaven -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 12:13:26 PM)
I would just like to point out that there are many things we do that cause wear and tear over time. Walking is one of them. Typing on the computer, sitting in a chair, using a mouse, driving a car, typing on a keyboard...the list goes on. Our bodies are made to slowly degrade over time, unfortunately...it's all just a matter of choices. For me, I follow the advocacy of keeping moving, and for the things I do that strain my body, I do activities that relieve that strain (i.e. yoga, stretching, meditation, etc). It works for me, keeps me young (12 years now) and it's all in the balance. :) Not advocating the 24/7/365 fantasy though. That's silly, and goes against the "balance" I mention above... It just always amazes me how we have to think in extremes. Yes, the 24/7/365 fantasy is an unreasonable extreme. But so is the "don't do it your feet will fall off" (tongue in cheek) response. Balance always falls somewhere in the middle, and it depends upon the individual, his/her health, and the situation.

Killerangel -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 1:26:42 PM)
It actually scares me to think that a man with this request would be in charge of someone someday. If he is so inept as to think that a 'rule' such as the one mentioned of wearing heels and stockings 24/7 could be followed without incurring the issues mentioned in the various responses so far, what the heck else would he ask of someone under his care? I honestly can't think that a submissive or slave would be able to take a man like this seriously- which she would have to do in order to get any kind of power exchange going. A man with this request doesn't seem to have any realistic sense of being a leader. I'm thinking the whole appeal of D/s to someone who thinks like this is the fantasy of bj's on tap. He isn't really in charge.

NuevaVida -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 1:32:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven Balance always falls somewhere in the middle, and it depends upon the individual, his/her health, and the situation. I totally agree. I joked about health insurance because I am clumsy. It took me almost 2 years to completely recover from a fall down the stairs which wiped out both of my ankles. I actually have issues with my Sacroiliac joint that have not gone away and which cause incredible pain without regular chiropractic treatment. It's only been in the last 6 months that I've been able to muster 3 inch heels. I do have some sexy 4 1/2" "fuck-me" shoes that I dangerously wobble in when he asks me to walk across the room in them, laughing all the way (which kinda defeats the "sexy" part), but I don't wear those to walk in. [;)] My ankles just aren't strong enough yet. So the thought of 6" heels had me laughing and thinking "Whoa Nelly, THAT'LL put me right back in the hospital!"

roland23 -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 2:13:39 PM)
Great idea! I'll order to my sub to wear stockings and high heels 24/7, especially in hot weather! I've never had any sub do this, but if they won't wear stockings and high heels when I command....forget it! The refusal to wear such items contributed to the collapse of one of my marriages and ended several other relationships.

NuevaVida -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 2:46:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: roland23 I'll order to my sub to wear stockings and high heels 24/7, especially in hot weather! Where I live, the temperatures easily climb over 100 degrees in the summer. Where I used to work, they had a dress code policy (created by the male executives) stating women could not wear open toed shoes, and if in dresses, nylons were required. With closed toed shoes. The women simply refused to adhere to the policy (myself included) so they changed the dress code. That was easier then sending all of us home every day and writing everybody up every day (big company - lots of women violating policy). Some ideas just aren't thought through very well.

angelikaJ -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 3:43:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven I would just like to point out that there are many things we do that cause wear and tear over time. Walking is one of them. Typing on the computer, sitting in a chair, using a mouse, driving a car, typing on a keyboard...the list goes on. Our bodies are made to slowly degrade over time, unfortunately...it's all just a matter of choices. For me, I follow the advocacy of keeping moving, and for the things I do that strain my body, I do activities that relieve that strain (i.e. yoga, stretching, meditation, etc). It works for me, keeps me young (12 years now) and it's all in the balance. :) Not advocating the 24/7/365 fantasy though. That's silly, and goes against the "balance" I mention above... It just always amazes me how we have to think in extremes. Yes, the 24/7/365 fantasy is an unreasonable extreme. But so is the "don't do it your feet will fall off" (tongue in cheek) response. Balance always falls somewhere in the middle, and it depends upon the individual, his/her health, and the situation. And of course that is the problem with many 24/7 fantasies: our bodies are not meant to do things such as being in a cage 24/7 or being bound to a cross or other such activities that place them in unnatural positions for prolonged periods and even our normal activities such as: "Walking is one of them. Typing on the computer, sitting in a chair, using a mouse, driving a car, typing on a keyboard...the list goes on. "; none of them are singularly meant to be done 24/7. The consequences of being sedentary are a good example of that. Balance is all about variety. Wearing stockings in 100 degree heat 24/7 as suggested above will lead to fungal foot diseases.

SimplySubmissive -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 9:05:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: roland23 Great idea! I'll order to my sub to wear stockings and high heels 24/7, especially in hot weather! I've never had any sub do this, but if they won't wear stockings and high heels when I command....forget it! The refusal to wear such items contributed to the collapse of one of my marriages and ended several other relationships. And this is exactly why i love such requests. They make sifting through all of the emails so much easier..! lol. ( and maybe thats why you are alone so much hmmmm?) Anyone making such broad general requirements obviously has no real experience. Think about this... knowing He loves the look of sexy thigh hi's and stilettos, i would go out of my way to offer this look whenever possible.. because i love to please. but it would be for special occasions.. dinners, movies.. hmm just a special night at home, etc. not 24/7. I also find that as i get older, i can walk in them less. so, the highest, most sexy heels are for those times that don't involve much time actually walking..[:)] ymmv.. SS

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 10:10:44 PM)
i used to keep heather in heels 24/7. but we went through too fucking many bladders for the water bed so i had to stop.

Awareness -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 10:32:36 PM)
I can't imagine any scenario under which a dude with his head screwed on right would seriously have such an expectation. I might toss it out as part of the banter, but it'd be a joke.

JWriter -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 10:43:43 PM)
24/7/365 would cause enormous health risks and effectively hobble you, possibly even cripple you. Certainly, you would not be doing the housework, after a time. Mostly 24/7 is feasible, if the high heel wearer is released to take showers or baths, perform exercises, and, preferably, also for sleep. Otherwise, the tendon in the heel area is going to get short, very quickly, and, it will atrophy, so that you will never be able to put your heel down again, in your life time and the enormous strain of balancing all that weight on the ball of your foot will crush the bones, probably causing your feet to swell enormously and have to be removed, once they've gone gangrene from the damage caused by being so swollen and still locked in the shoes. Mmm .. what a fantasy.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (7/31/2011 10:50:18 PM)
oh fuck!! the shit you come out with woman!! you are a fucking riot, please promise me you'll never stop posting, pleeeeeease! gangrene! that's sweet, just fucking sweet. i damn near pissed myself over this one.

kuppykake -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/1/2011 9:26:53 AM)
Couldnn't the Dom settle for 20/7, giving the girl a break or two each day to ensure hwr feet's well being? For crying out loud the whole point is that she looks sexy in heels right? I'm sure there are many other kinky points, but damn after a while she won't look so sexy because she won't be able to stand on her own 2 feet haha.

thishereboi -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/1/2011 10:35:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ishtarr I don't think that wearing heels 24/7 is realistic. But I can't really say, I certainly have never tried it. However, I don't see your concern for doing household chores in heels either. I love high heels, especially stilettos. I currently own 46 pair. Before an ankle injury unrelated to wearing heels prevented me from wearing heels for more than a couple of hours at a time, I often did chores in heels. I see no reason why one can't do laundry, or do the dishes, or vacuum, or do the windows, in heels, I've done it often enough because I squeezed chores in between doing other things and I didn't want to change shoes 10 times a day. For other chores, like cleaning the bathroom, garage or basement I'd change my foot ware, but that's more because I was concerned about ruining the heels than that it was actually impossible to do those things in heels. But then again, I used to be able to wear rather high heels for an entire day, from the moment of getting dressed to the moment of getting undressed, and have no problem with pain in my feet or legs at all, even if I was on my feet for most of the day. I miss those days... You just need to give your feet the time to gradually get used to increasingly higher heels for increasingly longer periods of time. As long as you maintain a good posture in heels, instead of leaning or slouching you wont get back problems either, unless you're already prone to it. As far as tendons tightening up, I have noticed that when I wore heels almost everyday, so I worked in a 10 min morning and evening stretch in my schedules and the problems disappeared. Ishtar My hats off to you. I could barely walk in the damn things, let alone try to do anything. Thank the goddess most people don't expect me in anything but sneakers or sandals.

mnottertail -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/1/2011 10:56:42 AM)
I would think it would tear the shit outta the bedsheets, myself.

wetshoe -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/4/2011 2:20:53 PM)
If she gets hot in her heels, tell her to shower in them! quote: ORIGINAL: roland23 Great idea! I'll order to my sub to wear stockings and high heels 24/7, especially in hot weather! I've never had any sub do this, but if they won't wear stockings and high heels when I command....forget it! The refusal to wear such items contributed to the collapse of one of my marriages and ended several other relationships.

Arturas -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/4/2011 2:53:05 PM)
quote: This thing that these "Doms" are asking is a fetish, it is something they read in a fetish novel, and the thought makes them hard - that's about it. Honestly, actually getting one of these men to even meet you in real life is probably an unreal expectation...they're typing with one hand, if you get my drift. ;) Move on to someone who understands your humanity and is seeking more than just a fantasy, I say (unless you just want the fantasy as well). Yes. A fetish. Nothing wrong with that, you understand, but I agree with you that any man bringing this up in early conversations rather than discussing things like common interests in yoga or hiking, fine dining tastes and then later on perhaps lifestyle and lifestyle clubbing interests and limits, is just playing online and you will never nor do you ever want to meet him, as you already know being the obviously well balanced and thoughful woman that you appear to be. I agree with you without reservation; balance is everything in things of the body, the mind and the spirit. You never asked, but I like a woman in heels both bound and unbound or caged or in evening black dress at a great restaurant, but in balance so it is not everyday but something very special like the woman who wears them. I wish you well, Arturas

nephandi -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/5/2011 5:04:24 AM)
Greetings Well I have seen some vanilla women who wear high heels about all the time they are awake, they even have high heeled slippers, high heeled booths, high heeled everything. The point is this that if you wear high heels to much some ligaments, I think that is the English word for it, in your feet will shorten making it uncomfortable wearing anything flat or walking barefoot. However how would you wear shoes 24/7, how would you bathe or shower? How would you wash yourself? No the 24/7 thing seams to be a bit of a fantasy that can not be pulled of in real life thing to me. I wish you all well

iowaswitcher -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/7/2011 2:50:27 AM)
like alot of other people said the idea of doing anything other than normal bodily functions, like breathing and your heart beating, is ridiculous and shouldn't be done. however though i don't think anyone really expects that out of anyone they are just exaggerating making themselves look bigger. although i would love to be in nothing but stockings and heels for long periods of time.

LanceBarr -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/15/2011 5:56:51 AM)
nylons and heels are mandatory for our subs, shaved also!!

ownedbyPF -> RE: Stockings & Heels Worn 24/7? (8/15/2011 10:11:33 AM)
Try Insolias (search them on the web). They take some getting used to, but they can almost double the amount of time that a pair of heels can be worn comfortably. They shift the center of your weight back further.

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