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And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:03:29 PM   
urantiam


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Status: offline 		My Mistress who is known as (collarworthy) on this site, as been treated like dirt. You see my Mistress was new to this lifestyle, just like me. When I saw her profile for the first time, she was listed as a submissive female. But I was really attracted by her looks, so I sent her a message.

After this first message, we seemed to get along so fine that one message just followed another. There was just no end to our communication. Then we started to talk on the phone. The more we talked to more I realized that Cynthia was not submissive at all, in fact she was extremely controling. Very dominant also. But she did not realized this herself, since she loved to be dominated in the bedroom.

A couple of days ago, she decided to list herself as a domme. She did this because after talking about owning slaves for hours and hours, she realized that the idea of owning slaves was growing on her.

But since she did this, many members have started to say that she belongs in a mental institution. Now is that a way to treat a Queen. Why don't you get to know this woman. You will see that she has a heart of gold. She is also sexy and very wise. Why do you judge the book by the cover. You members are really hurting my feelings.

Please! Just take your time before you pass jugdement on someone.

URANTIAM
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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:07:13 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		I never hurt anyones feelings, intentionally...and to be frank Ive got no idea what your talking about. Where does all this communciation happen where people are being called names etc?

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:09:15 PM   
Evanesce


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Please! Just take your time before you pass jugdement on someone.


Please!  Why don't you take your own advice before passing judgment on the majority of us who have done nothing "wrong." 
 
If people have nothing better to do with their lives than to worry about whether or not someone is or is not dominant, you should be feeling sorry for them, anyway.

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:15:16 PM   
BitaTruble


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Why do you judge the book by the cover. You members are really hurting my feelings.


This from a boy who said 99% of all women are whores.

Excuse me while I go vomit.

Celeste


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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:17:57 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

Why do you judge the book by the cover. You members are really hurting my feelings.


This from a boy who said 99% of all women are whores.

Excuse me while I go vomit.

Celeste



I'm 99% whore.  Does that make me...  well, nevermind

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:31:15 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: urantiam

My Mistress who is known as (collarworthy) on this site, as been treated like dirt. You see my Mistress was new to this lifestyle, just like me. When I saw her profile for the first time, she was listed as a submissive female. But I was really attracted by her looks, so I sent her a message.

After this first message, we seemed to get along so fine that one message just followed another. There was just no end to our communication. Then we started to talk on the phone. The more we talked to more I realized that Cynthia was not submissive at all, in fact she was extremely controling. Very dominant also. But she did not realized this herself, since she loved to be dominated in the bedroom.

A couple of days ago, she decided to list herself as a domme. She did this because after talking about owning slaves for hours and hours, she realized that the idea of owning slaves was growing on her.

But since she did this, many members have started to say that she belongs in a mental institution. Now is that a way to treat a Queen. Why don't you get to know this woman. You will see that she has a heart of gold. She is also sexy and very wise. Why do you judge the book by the cover. You members are really hurting my feelings.

Please! Just take your time before you pass jugdement on someone.

URANTIAM


Urantium,

I recall the thread.  What I remember seeing was a few people flaming you and a lot of people giving you very intelligent advice, which you chose to interpret as also flaming you because it wasn't what you wanted to hear.  Most of this advice came from people who, while some of them are a lot younger than you and your Mistress, are a LOT more experienced, both online and in the BDSM lifestyle.  And as I recall, just about all of that advice said pretty much the same thing.  I recall the words, "Trainwreck waiting to happen" being repeated early and often.

Son, if a few flames on an internet message board are capable of "really hurting your feelings," then I'd recommend that you avoid such boards, because flames are inevitable.  And if you're going to ignore all advice which goes against your fantasy, then what's the point of asking for advice in the first place.

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:32:32 PM   
MsMacComb


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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
I'm 99% whore.  Does that make me...  well, nevermind
 

I'm 1% slut so are we a match made in heaven or what?

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:40:27 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
I'm 99% whore.  Does that make me...  well, nevermind
 

I'm 1% slut so are we a match made in heaven or what?


Obviously.  So, I love you with all my heart and I guess we now know one another well enough for me to relocate to New Mexico to be your slave.  Is next week soon enough?

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:46:32 PM   
MistressLove999


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Status: offline 		some FYI this guy had started another forum topic heres the link   http://www.collarchat.com/Mistress_is_worried/m_361651/tm.htm
he asked for advice and then gets all pissy and whining when he is told things that dont agree with him.........if your gonna do something stupid ,why bother to announce it????

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:48:25 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: MistressLove999

some FYI this guy had started another forum topic heres the link   http://www.collarchat.com/Mistress_is_worried/m_361651/tm.htm
he asked for advice and then gets all pissy and whining when he is told things that dont agree with him.........if your gonna do something stupid ,why bother to announce it????


Yes, that's the thread I was refering to.

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 10:48:55 PM   
MsMacComb


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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
Obviously.  So, I love you with all my heart and I guess we now know one another well enough for me to relocate to New Mexico to be your slave.  Is next week soon enough?
 

Not sure. Do you have an skills, lol? By the way, how come you don't have a profile?

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:03:12 PM   
MistressLove999


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awwwww forget it,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,isn't even worth it

no more advice I will just sit back and laugh, afterall it is funny.

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:03:12 PM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		I think , urantium, you need to learn the difference between flaming and disagreeing.  Just because someone holds a different opinion doesn't mean they're flaming you.  And if you're both new to this lifestyle, and making a lot of very big changes in your lives, you REALLY REALLY need to get the advice of the people here who've been in this life for longer.

There's a huge difference between cyber and real - ignore the cyber-onlies, they're easy to spot.  And please listen to the ones with real life experience who are kind enough to share with you.  Trust me, it'll help a lot.  Advice from experienced friends got me through a lot of rough patches.

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:04:37 PM   
MistressLorelei


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Status: offline 		I think one or both of you are simply seeking attention with your thread after thread of 'look at me'.   Your Mistress with the heart of gold; a newbie who  has discovered she is dominant within the past week is now offering phone domination for cash.  

http://www.collarchat.com/Phone_domination_with_Mistress_Cinthia/m_376540/tm.htm

It's obvious why most don't think you are playing a sincere game.  Perhaps you are too new to the lifestyle  to understand what it really is and what it really isn't.  Scamming others for cash to dominate them via telephone when she is a new to the lifestyle submissive is what it *isn't*.

If things work out for you two... wonderful (though doubtful), but you are guilty of what you accuse others of doing... call it even and move on.    

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:11:26 PM   
Reflectivesoul


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Status: offline 		Just a little heads up for those of you that have seen all of this.... look real close at his id.... U   RANT   I  AM..... look at the spelling errors in his posts and her posts..... I'm thinking SCAM.....

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:11:41 PM   
MsMacComb


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ORIGINAL: becca333
And if you're both new to this lifestyle, and making a lot of very big changes in your lives, you REALLY REALLY need to get the advice of the people here who've been in this life for longer.
 

With all due respect I could not disagree more. Sure there are always a few people that lend good advice anywhere. But 9/10s of other peoples advice (and often those people themselves) can also be some of the most ridiculous nonsense to ever walk the planet. Taking "lifestyle" advice from someone on a forum can be about as bright as taking financial advice. I'm happy that you had a few friends that helped you out but that may not have been the norm.

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:19:23 PM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: Reflectivesoul

Just a little heads up for those of you that have seen all of this.... look real close at his id.... U   RANT   I  AM..... look at the spelling errors in his posts and her posts..... I'm thinking SCAM.....


I always read that as 'Your ant, I am,' as in.. I'm a bug. lol I think you hit this one on the head, Soul.

Celeste

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:22:25 PM   
Reflectivesoul


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Status: offline 		I cant claim the fame for this one Celeste even if I wanted to, but a friend of mine here actually saw it... He was in the threads last night cause I was rollin at the stupidity in the last comment from ding nuts to me and I hadda show Him... anyhow He goes "hey did you notice....." I was like well I'll be damned..... cause I read it like you did Celeste....So while I cant claim the fame I did want to atleast give a heads up....

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:23:23 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
Obviously.  So, I love you with all my heart and I guess we now know one another well enough for me to relocate to New Mexico to be your slave.  Is next week soon enough?
 

Not sure. Do you have an skills, lol? By the way, how come you don't have a profile?


Skills?  Skills?  You mean besides body worship?  Why would I need skills to live in a cage 24/7?

Sheesh,  I DO have a profile.  But STILL the only way to see it is to type or copy and paste my screen name into the username field of the homepage.

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RE: And what's wrong with that? - 5/18/2006 11:33:07 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		I also find it interesting that 'Collarworthy' can't seem to remember how to spell her own name. ::chuckles::

cynthia  <- post # 57 "In Urantiams defense" thread cinthia <-- her own profile 

of course, u rant i am can't spell it either..

Cynthia <-- Urantiams profile Cynthia <-- Post #1 "And what's wrong with that" thread Cinthia <- post # 1 "Mistress is worried' thread Cinthia <-- post #1 "Phone domination" thread Soul.. if you're selling scam.. I'm a buyin! lol  Celeste 


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