LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: crazyml Because to characterise yourself as a "real player" and to suggest that some of the fantastically EXPERIENCED and KNOWLEDGEABLE people who have responded to you are some how "less real" is fucking absurd. Here's the funny thing. One of the most "real" answers that a person can give on a question like this is to say that they aren't experienced in the play, couldn't do it safely, or were not willing to assume the risks. Even the YKINMK replies are sufficient. Am I going to delve into somebody's psyche should they come to the boards and say that they have a kink to have a concrete block dropped onto their head from a person standing several feet about them? Nope. If somebody wants to destroy themselves in the name of kink, that's there own decision. As a top do I want anything to do with it? Not particularly. As a RACK (risk aware consensual kink) player, if I'm not knowledgeable about the dangers of the play or not willing to accept the risks associated with it, as a competent top, the best thing that I can do is tell someone that I don't have the education or competency on the matter. Could I do it if I didn't give a damn? Sure. However, to Me, if the benefits don't outweigh the risks, it just plain isn't worth My time. I have no doubt that the OP could self inflict this kind of play. A few folks have even handed him the information on the best tool with which to do it. Probably the same as I would have thought would be the best choice if I was foolish enough to be the top in the scenario, though I would most likely mind fuck the guy instead and done a switch of implements. Otherwise, he's got to find somebody who either doesn't care about the damage they might do, risk the jail time, or somebody dumb enough to fall for the 'you're not real if you won't do it' blustering that he's trying to pull here.
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