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How did you become a slave - 8/5/2011 8:16:20 AM

Asherscorp1

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What was your first really significant step into becoming (emotionally) your Master's slave? A collar, brand, contract, moment of epiphany? This weekend Master and I had a beautiful ceremony and he pierced my septum which is not something I appreciate aesthetically at all but was done purely for the symbology and Master's enjoyment. I feel like despite following this lifestyle for a year now this was THE first big step into being owned by Master. When did you enjoy that overwhelming warmth of knowing in your hear that you are property?

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/5/2011 8:53:05 AM

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The first night we met it was just there. I became his slave right then and there. It was "official" I guess when we were at the beach and be bought me a bracelet. There was no formality to it, no words ever said. I put the bracelet on and it hasn't come off since except when I had to.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/5/2011 8:35:56 PM

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Our relationship was always sort of like this. He was the one in charge, a natural leader, and I was his loyal follower--he brought something out in me that just made me want to be his, made me want to follow, made me want to do everything I could to make him constantly happy and content. We naturally fell into this rhythm over time. I liked this feeling and this structure, and although we didn't talk about it in the beginning, he felt it and enjoyed it too. About...7 or 8 months into our relationship was when he proposed the idea of making it official while we were sitting in the bathtub together one night. We have both embraced it fully and I am now both very content and very proud to be my Master's pet. :)

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/5/2011 11:08:53 PM

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oooo....my moment came when Master and I first met in person. I was a virgin before I met my Master...we started slowly, and he eventually visited me...that first weekend together was nothing short of amazing, and I loved every second of it. But the "epiphany" moment was when we actually had to say goodbye for that time being, and I was so scared. He gently reassured me, and held me, and stayed on the phone with me as I headed home...his understanding and patience made me feel safe and comfortable...I knew then that I needed to be his permanently.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/6/2011 7:36:52 AM

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Well I resisted the entire concept of a relationship with him at first because I wasn't looking for one and I didn't want to be owned again. But we talked, we met, we hung out, we began a relationship and I was very slowly coming to submit to him as we moved forward. There was no a-ha moment. I just realized at one point that I was becoming enslaved to him. It's been almost 2 1/2 years since we met and only in the last few months have I realized I don't think there's anything I would deny him now.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/6/2011 7:39:12 AM

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I became completely his and he became the most important person in my world the day I realized I was head over heels in love with him.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/6/2011 8:05:18 AM

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The first time we met, I knew there was something special going on. We lived so far apart, that I wasn't sure about anything at first. But we kept in contact, getting to know each other and fell in love long distance. I knew I was his slave when there were no longer any walls up around me to protect myself. I had never let anyone in before. He knows me like no-one else ever has.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/6/2011 10:43:49 AM

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i was his the first time we met online it took us a month to getinot the relationship but we both knew the first eday we would. when we first met it was sjut right i was his totally

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/6/2011 4:42:50 PM

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I honestly can't put my finger on the exact moment it happened. It happened quickly because it didn't take either of us long to realize that's the way it should be. We fell in love with each other from a distance, basically, after talking online and on the phone but never having seen each other. By the time we exchanged photos, I was head over heels and it didn't matter to me what He looked like. Fortunately, though, I DID like the way He liked and He liked me

Six weeks after our initial contact, I drove from WV to AR for a week-long visit and there was not a shred of doubt when we met that I was His and would be for a long, long time......luci

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/13/2011 8:24:17 PM

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The very first night he took possession of my body.. he completely blew my mind apart. Despite everything we have ever been through since.. I am his... period.. eternally.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/14/2011 7:44:19 AM

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After roughly 5yrs I asked M if he'd take me on.........he took about a week to decide.

Obviously he said yes, as I'm still here......lol

We had a very long held friendship of 5yrs but the moment the collar was on it changed immediately. He told me that *if we do it, we do it properly* and asked me 10 times whether I accepted what it meant to be actually owned by him. I answered *Yes* 10 times.

Many years later it's clear that I DIDN'T really know what it'd mean......and I'm still finding out even now, over 10 yrs later. I've bolted more than once and he's given me my notice once too.

To be honest, being owned has been one of the biggest challenges of my life, it's been years of frustration, tears, temper and flouncing but that's what happens when you ask the most annoying man in the universe to own you when you aren't submissive.

Of course the years are filled with the most amazing highs as well!...........it's been a bitter-sweet time and I wouldn't change a single milli-second because I still am ridiculously, passionately devoted to him..and he quite likes me too.

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When did you enjoy that overwhelming warmth of knowing in your hear that you are property?

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The first time I realised that HE saw me that way. Before then, it was something I asked for, under my control.When the time came along that it pissed me off and I still had to get on with it..........yes, that was when I realised I was owned and the only way out was to not be.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/17/2011 8:09:08 AM

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quote:

When did you enjoy that overwhelming warmth of knowing in your hear that you are property?

I fail to understand what being "property" has to do with being "slave".............
unless of course you have definitions you'd like to share.

I was property and I felt like just another object upon his shelf that he took down, dusted off and used at his own whim occasionally.
Never wanna go there again.

I was inked when I was with a dom once....... it doesnt "belong" to him, its my ink, nor do I belong to him anymore.
No symbology in it for me . . . not then and certainly not now.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/17/2011 8:18:41 AM

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When the time came along that it pissed me off and I still had to get on with it..........yes, that was when I realised I was owned and the only way out was to not be.

agirl

hah this! I am so glad i am not the only one who didn't realize in a moment gush.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/17/2011 4:15:34 PM

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I can relate.
I felt it as I walked down the aisle, with eyes that kept seeking out possible exit points. And it was sealed when the priest said you are man and wife and he leaned in to me before the kiss and said "you are mine now"

..never want to revisit that place.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/17/2011 5:47:47 PM

agirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I can relate.
I felt it as I walked down the aisle, with eyes that kept seeking out possible exit points. And it was sealed when the priest said you are man and wife and he leaned in to me before the kiss and said "you are mine now"

..never want to revisit that place.

The exits are always there.... I wish I'd had the gumption to use them the first time around...I was young and stupid. I can't exactly blame him for that.

I don't regret it though, as it was an interesting time. I certainly had a chance to sort out what I did NOT want.......:) That's always been easier than knowing what I DO want.

agirl

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/17/2011 6:19:59 PM

agirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mysouldesire

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When did you enjoy that overwhelming warmth of knowing in your hear that you are property?

I fail to understand what being "property" has to do with being "slave".............
unless of course you have definitions you'd like to share.

I was property and I felt like just another object upon his shelf that he took down, dusted off and used at his own whim occasionally.
Never wanna go there again.

I was inked when I was with a dom once....... it doesnt "belong" to him, its my ink, nor do I belong to him anymore.
No symbology in it for me . . . not then and certainly not now.

Sounds like any other embittered relationship.

I can't say that my ink *belongs* to M either. It's on my body and if we ever part, that's where it'll stay. I do belong to him and have done for years. When and IF I don't, the ink is mine, the relationship will be part of my history. A remarkable history.

agirl

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/17/2011 6:24:23 PM

agirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: coookie

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When the time came along that it pissed me off and I still had to get on with it..........yes, that was when I realised I was owned and the only way out was to not be.

agirl

hah this! I am so glad i am not the only one who didn't realize in a moment gush.

I can't, with any honesty, count * years* in momentary gushes.

Hah, the words of that song says it so well... * I should've known better.....*.

I hear it as * I learned to know better.* :)

agirl

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/17/2011 9:19:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1

How did you become a slave

Got traded for a set of Ginsu Knives -- note, the knife block was at least included in the deal.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/17/2011 9:42:11 PM

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I've been a submissive most of my life, but shyed away from the lifestyle after a very bad experience with an old dom when I was a teenager, he used his dominance over me to physically abuse me until the night he beat me into a one month coma. After that I told myself I would never allow another man to be like that with me unless I truly believed he was worth it and worthy.

I went without a master for a very long time until I met the man who will soon be my husband. When we met I was badly hooked on Ecstasy, I was never eating and I was stuck in a bad relationship with a very mentally abusive person. When my then boyfriend would be to lazy to come and see me during really bad withdrawl periods, Master would come over after working all day and stay with me while I rode out the hard times. We had already known each other for about 3 years beforehand. I was doing well with my drug issue until the day my then boyfriend pushed me head on into my addiction. It had been a hard night and Master came and stayed the night with me, he did nothing but held me while i sobbed for hours and the next day he took me and some friends out for breakfast. I got a call from then boyfriend screaming at me because masters ex had told him that master stayed the night, and then boyfriend told me to go back to being a junkie because it was all i would ever be good at, so to spite him in my fragile state, i did. I was doing 3 pills a day, 5 days a week and weighed next to nothing, I ended things with then boyfriend because after he said that it made me sick to even look at him. Master broke a promise to someone very important, he started doing E with me but made me promise we would do it together, then we did it less and less until I wasn't doing it anymore, we moved in together and i started eating more. The defining moment, the night i realized that I would be his slave and He my master was one night after a very heated session, we were laying in my bed and he looked down at me and said "Has anyone every made love to you?" i said no so he held me and said "Then let me show you how much I love you" afterwards i was crying and laughing.

He's done more for me than anyone has ever done, I am Proud to be his submissive and no other man would ever be master but him, next year we're getting married ^_^.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/18/2011 9:25:00 PM

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I was very young and lacked the ability to say no so that people knew I meant it. Bad things can happen when people lack those skills. I don't regret my marriage, though I did take the only opportunity to exit when he offered it up. Some good came of it, my children which are still my best creation, and the knowlege that I may have been born to be a slave, but out of self preservation I know I can never choose that path.
Life is a lesson.

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ORIGINAL: agirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I can relate.
I felt it as I walked down the aisle, with eyes that kept seeking out possible exit points. And it was sealed when the priest said you are man and wife and he leaned in to me before the kiss and said "you are mine now"

..never want to revisit that place.

The exits are always there.... I wish I'd had the gumption to use them the first time around...I was young and stupid. I can't exactly blame him for that.

I don't regret it though, as it was an interesting time. I certainly had a chance to sort out what I did NOT want.......:) That's always been easier than knowing what I DO want.

agirl

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