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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/19/2011 11:33:47 PM

Andryanna

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I used to scoff at all this "acknowledging you are a slave" stuff, but realistically I found that I do acknowledge it because I'm confident and comfortable with who I am and how I feel about myself in general

I can't really say when that happened, it just formed gradually with time

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RE: How did you become a slave - 8/22/2011 9:14:50 PM

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Master and I had my grandbabies at the park one day. He said he should slap a collar on me and make me his slave. I looked at him and said, "Well why dont you?" One week later at the same park, Master collared me. It's been a wonderful 4 years since that day. None of which either one of us has regretted. Up to that point in the park, I hadnt even considered myself a slave. But I'm so happy that Master saw that in me, even if I didnt. Not til the words came out of my mouth.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 9/4/2011 12:43:49 PM

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after Goddess allowed me to beg Her, thinking i was going to be a submissive, She wanted a slave and here i am...Happy as a clam. Never would i have ever believed anyone would be telling me how to live my life and i constantly beg her for more.

She completes me and makes me feel i am only on this earth to be Hers. i have never been this happy.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 9/6/2011 9:05:46 PM

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It's interesting reading these. I'm not sure if it's how you became a slave or submissive? Or how did you get "collared" to your Dom/Domme. (I use "collared" in quotes since other tangible items that can indicate being owned also.)

My Lord and I signed a contract that I would be submissive to him and it was more set up as we would negotiate what was happening. As our relationship grew and became deeper and more intense, the negotiation did not need to happen. Now it's just part of how we manage our relationship.

He and I re-committed to the relationship almost four years ago and we shared the purchase of my permanent collar which was put on 1 and 1/2 years ago.

We've not looked back.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 9/14/2011 6:22:54 PM

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those are such wonderful love stories with such passion and reallationships, it does take a realtionship
to start it also, will I wish to hear from the men now!

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RE: How did you become a slave - 9/19/2011 9:09:24 PM

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Some things happened fast and others happened more slowly. We met online and after a few months I drove over 800 miles to meet her face to face. During our first weekend while sitting in her parent’s living room, she had her niece rub her feet and pull her toes. I remember saying don’t expect me to do that. Her mom and sister laughed.

She met my family a month later, and three weeks after that we were married. Things were pretty vanilla for almost ten years. I was always concerned with her pleasure, but we remained pretty much even. One night she asked me if I had any sexual fantasies. My answer changed my life.

I told her I had fantasized about being forced to obey a mistress. It did not happen overnight. But over the next few years there was a power shift in our relationship. Just before our 14th anniversary we signed a slave contract and I was owned. That was just over a year ago. I am still not where I need to be, but I love serving my mistress. It goes without saying that I take great pleasure from rubbing, caressing and kissing her feet. I have never been happier.

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RE: How did you become a slave - 10/3/2011 8:16:50 PM

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you know when you would never be anywhere else... and never do less then 100% to make his world....

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RE: How did you become a slave - 10/14/2011 10:25:27 AM

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Well I'm a switch and have been dominant in all my relationships. Deep down I have been wanting to find the right man to bring out my submissive side that I knew was there. Sure I could've been submissive to anyone but it wouldn't be real and I can't be a sub to a fake Dom and I can't be a sub to a woman idk why it's just me. Any who I met a man who was definitely dominant and we just fell into our natural roles needles to say things didn't work out between us. Afterwards I met Master I was quite nervous because I was new to the lifestyle and didn't want to make a fool out of myself or him. Also I get bored very fast and move on. Master knew I was new and he was patient but I was still a little skittish. During our first time having sex he was gentle yes he used some force but he wasn't overly forceful we have been together for a year and not once have I felt afraid. We have come up with ways to get me to open up because I am shy and too shy to talk dirty so we had slutty sharing where I would text him at least 3 fantasies one of which was have a threesome with me and 2 guys. Well Master made that fantasy come true with a friend of his he knew and trusted. He saw I was nervous at first and on our way there he held my hand and caressed it and gently kissed me. I completely melted and felt relaxed he made sure he held me close there and back. During our first anal encounter I was terrified (yes ass virgin here) and sure he could of jammed it in but he didn't he let me guide it and I was unable to stop and if he felt he was hurting me he would stop wrap me in his arms and stroke my hair and ask if I was okay and tell me he's sorry if he hurt me. I have never felt like I was just a sex object with Master. Yes I am his property but he has never made me feel like a piece if property. When he comes back to visit soon he is going to officially collar me. I sat and thought "do I really want this?" after careful long thinking yes I do I love Master with all my heart and I'm overly happy at the fact that I have been able to please him and he wants to keep me

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