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RE: Intelligence. - 8/5/2011 9:44:39 PM   
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RE: Intelligence. - 8/5/2011 9:45:26 PM   
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Reading glasses.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/5/2011 10:32:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HisPet21

As a submissive, I find it completely and utterly impossible to submit to someone who isn't at least as smart as I am, for several reasons. For one, it makes me uncomfortable, for the same reason getting in the car with a drunk driver is uncomfortable: I can't trust them to take the wheel and know what the hell they're doing or where the hell they're going or to keep me safe in the process. For another, in my opinion intelligence IS power. I cannot see a man without intelligence as dominant. I just can't. Intelligence, to me, is the sexiest trait a dominant man can have. I've been hot for nerds all my life. Finally, I do enjoy a good mind fuck. Unintelligent men are just incapable of providing a good mind fuck...it takes a special skill, foresight, and deep understanding of your partner to intimidate her, make her feel your dominance, and keep her safe and secure at the same time.

As for what you can do physically...It's hard to elaborate, other than to say that an intelligent dominant will tend to be more creative, and exciting, in bed and everywhere else because he's got such a big, sexy brain. Plus, he'll get all of my nerdy jokes (and I like my nerdy jokes...).


If I had your way with words I'd be saying THIS...

Edit: Which is why I'm atm running this relationship, I love the guy, but he can't take charge and make good decisions even if his life depended on it...
Not to mention how he mixes up my GOOD dishwater brush with my dirty/fatty dishwater brush, no matter how many times I tell him the difference...
And don't get me started about credit cards and why you shouldn't need them, or why "buy now, pay later!" is NOT a good idea...... *sigh*


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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 1:57:21 AM   
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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 5:19:16 AM   
Tristan


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Status: offline 		Intelligence is just one of many traits I seek in a partner.  I find good discussion an incredible turn on in an of itself as is honesty, personal integrity, creativity, and commitment. I suppose intelligence and creativity are necessary if one is going to have and express erotic fantasies or scenarios, which are fun to explore.  However, I have not expressed intelligence by itself as a kink.   

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 5:55:39 AM   
Tantriqu


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Status: offline 		As said on another thread, an Oxford comma makes me hot.
Here's the antithesis!
And keep in mind I desire only straight smart polite male subs; I received a subly message, but here is an anonymous version of his self-description:

Looking for a new puppet! Hi, im a handsome man mod hairy and quite masculine ect. Still amateur but improoving. Im looking for open minded easy going! no drama bitches to submite to me. I respect you completly and otherly when your not on my leach. Other wise your mine.
xxx

So, what's most stupid?
The 'b' word?
The speeling errers, with nice Freudian slips on the 'submite,' and the space between 'other' and 'wise'?
The 'too dumb to think I'd read his profile' ass-hatted-ness?

And hey, do the Mods think 'mod hairy' is attractive?

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 6:02:41 AM   
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I'm with him on the thing about leeches. If I had a leech, I wouldn't respect a woman who kept attaching it to herself. I would consider that ill-mannered of her.


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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 6:12:24 AM   
Tantriqu


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Status: offline 		Not I: I believe in self-improoovement, and always carry a small packet of salt for just such leech emergencies.
Although I've always had a soft spot for Archibald Leach.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 6:19:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu



I'm with him on the thing about leeches. If I had a leech, I wouldn't respect a woman who kept attaching it to herself. I would consider that ill-mannered of her.



I dunno, those leeches are used quite a lot in medicine now, we're seeing a vet who treated Kia's arthritic knee with leeches (sounded nuts to me first) but she moves much better, that along with some Kneipp therapy has her jumping around like a puppy again, so don't mock them leeches even if they are slugs...

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 6:41:58 AM   
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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 6:58:36 AM   
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Oh, yes, hospital-grade and medicinal purposes only, not a common-or-garden leech.



As far as I know, they do actually breed them specifically and after they've been applied, they're getting destroyed. Don't think it would be a good idea to pick them randomly from ponds and applying them...

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 9:24:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu



I'm with him on the thing about leeches. If I had a leech, I wouldn't respect a woman who kept attaching it to herself. I would consider that ill-mannered of her.



I dunno, those leeches are used quite a lot in medicine now, we're seeing a vet who treated Kia's arthritic knee with leeches (sounded nuts to me first) but she moves much better, that along with some Kneipp therapy has her jumping around like a puppy again, so don't mock them leeches even if they are slugs...

They aren't slugs, they're aquatic or amphibious annelids.

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Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 9:30:29 AM   
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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 9:55:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Marc2b
Stand over her holding a whip while she, naked and kneeling of course, does your taxes.


As a former IRS agent, this never came into play!
Darn darn darn!

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 10:20:51 AM   
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Bloodsucking worms, ewwww

Correct. Think lawyers without the degree.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 11:03:33 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		After a rather horrible accident that left her ankle joint shattered, mom got a replacement joint and they used leeches to get the clotted blood out (the surgery left her with hematomas and she couldn't move the joint and apparently early movement is important for the healing), pretty disgusting if you think about it but very effective. That made me look into the whole treatment thing and when I found out that apparently it works for arthritis too and then signed the dog up for it, they did look a bit stupid when I mentioned I want it for the dog's arthritic knee, but it worked a charm but looked pretty damned disgusting (she didn't mind the leeches as much as the parts where the leeches go being shaven), didn't even seem to hurt her and when they were full, they just kinda dropped off, a great deal cheaper than the usual therapies they suggested and super effective.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/6/2011 3:08:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, I'll jump in for what it's worth,
Look at it this way,
For an intelligent Dom, they can figure out your psyche, het in your head and really play around in there to bring your experience in an altered state or reality.
For the intelligent sub, you get into your Dom's head by stroking their ego, responding with your voice or body in a way that they are looking for.
Both feed off each other for the complete experience, mix step 1 & 2 and repeat often for a good time
Now, how you get to that point is up to where you are in a relationship, some people don't need a relationship to trascend, such as random scene in a BDSM club. I've seen Doms and Subs negotiate a scene and go to it both getting some satisfaction, thank each other and go about their way, but I would argue in order to have the full experience, physical and emotional the two or three or five of you really need to know each other on a personal level.
Anyway, like I said, for what it's worth......
L.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/7/2011 2:02:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I'd never get home if I didn't have a credit card.  I'd never be able to get books or register for a class. Someone once told me to basically get rid of my cards, too.  Yeah.  That is so not gonna happen.  


I think credit card "culture" is a little different throughout the world, I see why in places like the US one might be required to have one for a lot of stuff, but here in Norway it is absolutely superfluous and a dept trap just waiting to happen.

Spending money one doesn't have just squicks me, the only exceptions are when it comes to houses and cars

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/7/2011 2:09:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I'd never get home if I didn't have a credit card.  I'd never be able to get books or register for a class. Someone once told me to basically get rid of my cards, too.  Yeah.  That is so not gonna happen.  


I think credit card "culture" is a little different throughout the world, I see why in places like the US one might be required to have one for a lot of stuff, but here in Norway it is absolutely superfluous and a dept trap just waiting to happen.

Spending money one doesn't have just squicks me, the only exceptions are when it comes to houses and cars


To be honest, I think credit cards are great, instead of overdrawing my account for something I know I get refunded for (like business expenses) I put it on the credit card and have an interest free loan for a month, I always make sure that my card is paid off at the end of the month.

Buying stuff on a credit card that you can't really afford is just stupid, I mean if you can't afford it this month, you can't afford it next month, and the interest rates will just make it more expensive. But if you're traveling a lot and you need to book flights or rent cars, you are truly screwed without a credit card.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/7/2011 3:00:32 PM   
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I dunno, those leeches are used quite a lot in medicine now, we're seeing a vet who treated Kia's arthritic knee with leeches (sounded nuts to me first) but she moves much better, that along with some Kneipp therapy has her jumping around like a puppy again, so don't mock them leeches even if they are slugs...


quote:

They aren't slugs, they're aquatic or amphibious annelids.


HW, I honestly think I'm going to remember that fact for the rest of my life.

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