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RE: Intelligence. - 8/7/2011 3:23:40 PM

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It's fun to fuck the stupid at times too.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/8/2011 9:44:40 AM

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I'd never get home if I didn't have a credit card. I'd never be able to get books or register for a class. Someone once told me to basically get rid of my cards, too. Yeah. That is so not gonna happen.

I think credit card "culture" is a little different throughout the world, I see why in places like the US one might be required to have one for a lot of stuff, but here in Norway it is absolutely superfluous and a dept trap just waiting to happen.

Spending money one doesn't have just squicks me, the only exceptions are when it comes to houses and cars

yes, they can be debt traps, true enough!

I'm with Constance about the whole - debt free loan and such. I love paying off the card right away when my employer gives me reimbursement. It feels almost like cheating... almost.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/8/2011 2:40:06 PM

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Give me someone with intelligence, character, humor, interests, nice eyes maybe the ability to have a life outside of being submissive all these things mean far more to me than mere physical attraction.

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/8/2011 5:00:21 PM

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Just as in life, intelligence in BDSM is expressed in many ways. Scening --understanding the flow and how to affect someone -- requires intelligence.

If you are looking for a checklist of things to do that demonstrate intelligence, you'll probably be disappointed.

The best way to demonstrate intelligence is to do stuff that demonstrates you understand who the person you are with is.

--Sorry for the vagueness!

What I'm trying to ask is, for example, if you enjoy being in/putting others in confined spaces, there are certain D/s type activities that can be used (mummification maybe one).

But, if intelligence is the 'kink', whether it be for the D or s, how would that be expressed in a D/s related activity?

I hope that makes a little more sense? --

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RE: Intelligence. - 8/8/2011 6:05:24 PM

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Sapiosexual. Yep, it's real. Just listen to Neil DeGrasse Tyson talk about space. So real and yet brilliant.

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