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im new to bdsm - 8/6/2011 6:47:29 AM   
michelle46135


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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/6/2011 6:52:14 AM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		what do you want help with? Wanna be more specific?

find a dom? Same as finding a partner anywhere else with anyone else. Bdsm isn't special.

help with an emotional problem? Speak to a therapist. Bdsm is not therapy.

Help with a physical problem? Probably best to speak with a physician.

Help with  how to use a certain toy? Tell us about it and someone will tell you.....

Need more info dear.



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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/6/2011 7:30:46 AM   
Aileen1968


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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/6/2011 7:39:19 AM   
NuevaVida


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quote:

ORIGINAL: michelle46135

anyone can help me im submissive

Communicating effectively is critical.  Be clearer in yours. 


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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/6/2011 7:40:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		1. Determine what it is you want.
2. Communicate this want clearly.


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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/6/2011 12:48:34 PM   
MasterNeo1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: michelle46135

anyone can help me im submissive


I'm sure, if we knew what it was we were meant to be helping you with, we would. Maybe, you might find it useful to take a scan through the forums and see if you find any answers to this rather vague question of yours..


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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/6/2011 1:28:16 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: michelle46135

anyone can help me im submissive

I think it must be contagious, perhaps something in the water here,
because I am also submissive! Last I heard, there was no cure for this.
It's probably best to just accept it and live your life accordingly. Good luck!

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/7/2011 4:12:06 AM   
Manawyddan


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Status: offline 		Is this perhaps not a question but a statement, that because the she is submissive that anyone at all may 'help' her?

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/7/2011 5:09:05 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		She's not looking for advice folks, it's an ad.

Oh and welcome to the discussion side of CM, OP.


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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/7/2011 5:41:18 AM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

what do you want help with? Wanna be more specific?

find a dom? Same as finding a partner anywhere else with anyone else. Bdsm isn't special.

help with an emotional problem? Speak to a therapist. Bdsm is not therapy.

Help with a physical problem? Probably best to speak with a physician.

Help with how to use a certain toy? Tell us about it and someone will tell you.....


SQOD??

lord knows, it needs repeating often enough...

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/7/2011 5:43:20 AM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: Manawyddan

Is this perhaps not a question but a statement, that because the she is submissive that anyone at all may 'help' her?


Whaaaaat? You mean my response wasn't helpful?
I suppose it really is difficult to say what her intent was in posting,
but I felt advising her to relish in her submission was still good advise. :)

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/7/2011 9:08:23 AM   
Tristan


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Status: offline 		Are you looking for an intervention? Like maybe having friends and family take you to an anti-submissive camp where you can learn to be dominant?  I hear that the religious folks are having great success with their homosexuality interventions.

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/7/2011 10:27:44 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Help! I'm submissive, and I can't get up.

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/7/2011 11:28:44 AM   
Missokyst


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absolutely priceless with your avatar.
quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Help! I'm submissive, and I can't get up.



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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/7/2011 12:53:20 PM   
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The red lipstick is much too bright. Blot Blot Blot.



LOL


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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/9/2011 3:55:00 PM   
michelle46135


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Status: offline 		im looking for sombody teach me and long term relationship

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/9/2011 6:07:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: michelle46135

im looking for sombody teach me and long term relationship


Teach you what?
As was stated, you have to be specific.

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/11/2011 8:30:31 PM   
MrSprocket


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Status: offline 		It does seem like an advert. The "long term relationship" is directly relative to the "teaching." At least that's how I think.

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RE: im new to bdsm - 8/11/2011 10:40:55 PM   
coookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

LMAO!!
absolutely priceless with your avatar.
quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Help! I'm submissive, and I can't get up.




HAHAHA this was the best bedtime giggle i could ask for

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RE: im new to bdsm - 10/2/2014 8:55:49 AM   
michelle46135


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Status: offline 		WELL IM SUBMISSIVE AND I LIKE TRY LEARN NEW THINGS

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