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RE: weird fetish - 8/7/2011 5:55:02 PM   
SuperHappy


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If what you truly seek is purely a mechanism to be farted on, a pro-Domme may be one of the easier routes. There's nothing wrong with going to a professional--it's what they're there for. Be specific about what you want, and find a pro-Domme who will fulfill that for you. (for a price)


May wanna give them some notice to brew up some good ones tho.

Just sayin'

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RE: weird fetish - 8/7/2011 6:30:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: iluvgassygirls

Hi I'm matt I'm 24 and very submissive but I have A fart fetish and was wondering if any girls have heard of this before? And what u think about it

Yes, I've heard of it and, personally, I think it stinks.

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ORIGINAL: iluvgassygirls

Ppl dont really talk on fetlife plus I thought mistresses liked to humiliate

Actually, in my experience, a lot of people talk on Fet, esp if you meet them at munches and so on in real life first. And, not all Mistresses/Dommes like to humiliate. Also, if you just want a life support system for fetish delivery, why not say so in the first place?

~Hisprettybaby~

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RE: weird fetish - 8/7/2011 7:17:15 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Hi again Matt. It's interesting that you keep trying the same thing over and over,hoping for a different result. You've received advice to the contrary, yet keep offering up your fetish as the only thing you've got going on. I think by now you'd have had some luck with this approach if it was going to work right?

You say you thought Mistresses liked to humiliate...do you know anyone to base this knowledge on or are you getting your ideas from porn? Time to hang up the idea that there is some Mistress out there who will magically fulfill your fantasy and start getting down to the business of getting to know someone as a person first.

You say that you didn't know you were in the wrong, BS. Reread the responses on the other threads, the ones on this thread weren't much different. On the whole people are being really helpful and nice to you, but you aren't taking any of it seriously. This isn't something that is going to suddenly fall into place for you because you keep doggedly trying the same thing that didn't work before.

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RE: weird fetish - 8/8/2011 7:28:44 AM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Y'all do realize don't you that a fart fetish is proven to be a 'gateway drug' to a full blown scat fetish?

That said, budweiser and pepperocinis works REAL good.

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RE: weird fetish - 8/8/2011 11:47:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

...a fart fetish is proven to be a 'gateway drug' to a full blown scat fetish



Friends Don't Let Friends FART-Fuck!!!



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RE: weird fetish - 8/8/2011 1:27:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

...a fart fetish is proven to be a 'gateway drug' to a full blown scat fetish



Friends Don't Let Friends FART-Fuck!!!



Are quiffs ok?

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RE: weird fetish - 8/8/2011 3:50:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		By the way I had a look at that fetlife site and I think it looks good if what you are intois people who share your fetishrather than wanting a 24/7 D/s lifestyle.

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RE: weird fetish - 8/8/2011 4:44:10 PM   
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By the way I had a look at that fetlife site and I think it looks good if what you are intois people who share your fetishrather than wanting a 24/7 D/s lifestyle.


Exactly!  That's what I tried to tell him.  If he's looking for people who share his interest in farts, and who want to talk about it, Fetlife is the best place for him to go.  I still don't understand why he thinks people on Fetlife "don't like to talk".

OP, Fetlife is the best place for you.  Give it another try.  I can assure you that you'll have more success finding people who share your interest on Fetlife than you will here on CM.

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RE: weird fetish - 8/10/2011 8:43:45 AM   
stoni23


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Status: offline 		iluvgassygirls: you need to refocus a touch. As many have hinted here, it can't be all what you want.

I learned this the hard way myself. Always called myself a slave or a submissive but all I really cared about was indulging my own fantasies, and trying to find that perfect someone that will indulge them for me.

You have to get beyond your insatiable desire to have your own fantasies realized, and be willing to help someone out with their own fantasies. This will usually include some things that you may not necessarily want to do (ever eat dog food? :) ).

Once I realized that it wasn't just about what I wanted, some new avenues began to open up for me. You will also find the more willing you are to bend to someone's will, the more willing they usually will be to help you achieve those fantasies you're trying to get. It just probably won't happen right away.

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RE: weird fetish - 8/10/2011 9:42:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stoni23
the more willing you are to bend to someone's will........


That's really the key.  That's why they call it "submission".

Good advice, Stoni23.  I hope the OP reads it and heeds your advice.

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RE: weird fetish - 8/10/2011 9:43:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stoni23

iluvgassygirls: you need to refocus a touch. As many have hinted here, it can't be all what you want.

I learned this the hard way myself. Always called myself a slave or a submissive but all I really cared about was indulging my own fantasies, and trying to find that perfect someone that will indulge them for me.

You have to get beyond your insatiable desire to have your own fantasies realized, and be willing to help someone out with their own fantasies. This will usually include some things that you may not necessarily want to do (ever eat dog food? :) ).

Once I realized that it wasn't just about what I wanted, some new avenues began to open up for me. You will also find the more willing you are to bend to someone's will, the more willing they usually will be to help you achieve those fantasies you're trying to get. It just probably won't happen right away.


I had to requote what you wrote stoni! People on these boards have been telling that to posters for eons, and it never seems to sink in; it's just so cool to have someone come here and say that they learned the very same thing that is pretty much a standard answer in a ton of the threads on here. Omg...it just blew me away to find that on here today. Thank you!

If I can add one small thing, I hate to mess with perfection, but perhaps for the others that are reading this and filing it away....from a woman's point of view it's not so much wanting our fantasies realized as wanting to be treated like a person and not a fetish/sex/kink delivery system. In general women are looking for relationships and they're looking for someone to value who they are. Sure, fantasies come into play for us, but with a trusted, valued, partner. That takes time and effort. To sum it up, for women it's generally more about being with the person, not about the activities. That is where the sexes differ. Men focus on the activities and therefore don't find the woman who will give them to him.

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RE: weird fetish - 8/10/2011 9:48:00 AM   
JWriter


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Status: offline 		Heard of it; just was never into it. However, without looking, I have read more than one profile, claiming to be of female dominant /domme type persons, who say that they do this to men. So, if you use a keyword search, you might find them, as well.

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RE: weird fetish - 8/10/2011 10:54:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lizi
If I can add one small thing, I hate to mess with perfection, but perhaps for the others that are reading this and filing it away....from a woman's point of view it's not so much wanting our fantasies realized as wanting to be treated like a person and not a fetish/sex/kink delivery system. In general women are looking for relationships and they're looking for someone to value who they are. Sure, fantasies come into play for us, but with a trusted, valued, partner. That takes time and effort. To sum it up, for women it's generally more about being with the person, not about the activities. That is where the sexes differ. Men focus on the activities and therefore don't find the woman who will give them to him.


Yes, you are perfectly correct. I should have included more about the relationship itself in my original post. But I'm with you 100%. And thank you for your kind words : ).

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RE: weird fetish - 8/10/2011 11:06:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stoni23

iluvgassygirls: you need to refocus a touch. As many have hinted here, it can't be all what you want.

I learned this the hard way myself. Always called myself a slave or a submissive but all I really cared about was indulging my own fantasies, and trying to find that perfect someone that will indulge them for me.

You have to get beyond your insatiable desire to have your own fantasies realized, and be willing to help someone out with their own fantasies. This will usually include some things that you may not necessarily want to do (ever eat dog food? :) ).

Once I realized that it wasn't just about what I wanted, some new avenues began to open up for me. You will also find the more willing you are to bend to someone's will, the more willing they usually will be to help you achieve those fantasies you're trying to get. It just probably won't happen right away.




Wow. Fabulous first post! Welcome to the boards, you'll be a very good addition here.


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RE: weird fetish - 8/10/2011 6:48:30 PM   
stoni23


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Status: offline 		didn't want to reply without any substance but I guess since we're meeting for the first time on the boards why not? : ).

Thanks for the kind words! : ).

I'll admit I almost gave up on CM.. SSOOOOO many fakes.  But, coming to the boards has re-invigorated me that there are actually real people here.  : )

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RE: weird fetish - 8/10/2011 6:55:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		This side of CM is definitely different from the other side.  Glad you found your way here and your post is great.  Not often someone who's changed their attitude admits it and gives a different point of view.  Indeed, you'll do great on this here. 

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