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hausboy -> RE: weird fetish (8/7/2011 3:54:48 PM)
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ORIGINAL: iluvgassygirls
Srry didn't know I was in the wrong lol
you aren't "in the wrong" per se, just perhaps the wrong approach.
If your approach is: "this is my kink, are you willing to indulge in it for me?" then your approach will not be well received here from most Dommes. Mostly because that approach is less about the power dynamic of Dominance/submission, and more about a very specific fetish that at the moment, is your focus. (and no, not all Dommes are into humiliation)
If what you truly seek is purely a mechanism to be farted on, a pro-Domme may be one of the easier routes. There's nothing wrong with going to a professional--it's what they're there for. Be specific about what you want, and find a pro-Domme who will fulfill that for you. (for a price)
If, instead, what you really want is a girlfriend who will go to movies with you, hang out, have fun and conversations....and....when you get into the bedroom, she also indulges you in this fetish.... then the best approach is one of "Matt as a person" and not "Hi I'm looking for girls to fart on me"
Not sure if you get the distinction. I'm hoping I'm making my opinion clear.
CollarMe (not entirely, but a good part of it) tends to be more focused on the relationships and the dynamics, and not as much on the quick hookups, although they definitely do occur.
Honestly, I do hope you find what you're looking for. Be patient--it's hard to find good partners for the more "garden variety" BDSM activities, so the less common fetishes can be even more of a challenge.
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