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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 9:39:18 AM

DiannaVesta

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<smiles> I'm lucky when it comes to wrinkles. I just don't have any but that is my skin type I guess. I colore the grey out of my hair until recently and thats because I just got busy. I have about 4 inches of it. My hair is very straight these days and down to my waist. I just don't have time to do all that fluffing any more.

I've always been a big girl going between size 14-16 sometimes 16 is tight. I feel better 30 pounds lighter but I'm not going to worry about it too much. I'll work on it when I get to it. I think health is very important and I try to always eat healthy. At times I just eat too much of it! lol

There are subs who prefer a larger woman and some that likes thin ones. Its a personal preference on what type you like.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 10:16:07 AM

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well I am 54, will be 55 this winter and I am damn proud I am---no can't wear the size 8 I did at 20-I now wear a 12, I wear eye make up only, wear denim shorts and tank tops and am barefoot, when I ride, I wear boots ( wicked grins)--I still stand tall, can play extreme frisbee with the best of them--and work My horses 4-5 times a week, home school My teen and hold a demanding full time job---but My smile is genuine, My wisdom invaluable, My sex drive pregnancy fear free and has increased since menopause and the only mood swing for Me is do I beat him first or after-- and I am Woman and I am on the "prowl"---smiles

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 10:19:50 AM

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*applauds for MistressHathor*...well said..and what a wonderful life approach.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 10:53:40 AM

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Its amazing how diferent its the experience of living depending how You take it in Your mind.
i think so, and experience it frecuently, that every stage of live has their proper happiness and magic. Its really a fortune know it en enjoy as never will be more that the present.
Please see: http://positivepause.com/ and put the sound!
An important thing is the health, as it gives people (with the kindness of the spirit) the true beauty and atractivness.
Smoking is really a big handicap for the health, one need to go for quitting as the first priority.
Anyway, You are smoker or anything, You have to take Your health as Your responsability. Doctors havent the copyrights of our health, its ours, completely. We need to read, search on books, look for the basic knowledge and internet its a precious gift, at least by the moment.
Eat frecuent and well combinated raw meals, every day, full of liquids. Apropiate exercice to our state of fitness, as every persone its diferent.
Then, there are suplements. The far most important is the vitamin C. Please search in the net for information. I take 12 gr daily and its the best thing i do for my health. Linus Pauling, the only two winner Noble Prize, toke 18 gr/daily, and he died at 94. Colagen making need a lot of VC, and colagen its the main ingredient of skin and conective tissue, not taking about you can forget all worries about colesterol, etc (please go :

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 11:13:13 AM

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(sorry, i follow my post):
please go: http://www.cforyourself.com/

And fat?. Well, i am thin, but i adore big and round (and dominant, course, lol) females. IF i would atend only to body type would find litle atraction for skinny Females.

Be well ;)

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 11:22:57 AM

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Hey I'm feeling you here also. Although I rather like that age has added soft curves to what used to be a rock hard body. The only thing I dont like about my body is my stomach so its a work in progess for me now. At 5'11" 230 lbs I'm healthy and happy and faster than a blink of an eye can have most boys on the floor face down with my boot on the back of their neck. At 39 yes I do color the grey out of my hair. But overall Im pretty happy with the progession of my life. Gone are the days of wearing a sized 10 now in 18's and when I walk through the mall heads still turn its about the way a person carries themselves. Im sure I will be buried in hip boots and a paddle in my hand.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 1:04:00 PM

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Well said! There is a great quote from Lita Ford, the heavy metal
guitarist. I will try to paraphrase it here. She basically said that
she isn't going out of this life all soft and gentle. She is going out of this life
with a broken g-string between her teeth, fixing her guitar
and with glass of whiskey next to her rocking chair.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 2:45:30 PM

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I do not know if it is normal, but I kinda did, and I kinda still am.

I am two years away from 40. I accept the fact there is cellulite on my ass that will probably never go away no mattter how much weight I lose. I have accepted that I will never look like the 25 year olds at my gym. I have accepted my hair will be gray one day, and I am "lucky" it isnt yet. I have accepted that I will never have less lines around my eyes.

When I came to REALLY accept these things was about a year ago. I could barely breath because I smoked and had gained 55 or 60 lbs. I was in a size 16 and I felt sick all the time. It wasnt about looks anymore, changing the way I live, it was about feeling good about me in my body. I lost the weight, got in shape and I quit smoking. Basically I had trouble breathing one day and thought about all the abuse my body had taken, and I was going to be kind to it from now on.

I will only get older, just like you, a day at a time. There used to be a time when I was the hottie at the local night club. I had long hair, big breasts, large blue eyes, and long lean legs. I was the proverbial "tall drink of lemonade",.. It is not that I cant be that anymore, I can, but I really dont want to anymore either I find it rather shallow and hollow to be in that atmosphere, and I do not think I am alone in this at my age.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 3:56:52 PM

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at 46 I still like to dress what I think is sexy. At age 15 I weighed 120. Now I weigh about 128-130. And that's after 4 children. I still look for clothes in the junior or petite section, becuase thats not only what fits, its what suits me. I dont compare myself to 20 yr olds.

I also look for role models my age to prove I can still look good. Madonna, Goldie Hawn are the most obvious public figures I can think of.. So I can look good like that too. Except that Im not wealthy and cant hire a personal trainer to work out with three hours every day. lol But in general, knowing I can look good, keeps me from getting down.

I think the best part of aging for all of us is, that we dont really have to age, in many ways. We dont need to become those women with permed white hair in polyester. We can really actually dress in jeans or the clothes of our lives, for our entire lives. And that I think is a big change in our world. Hallilueyah sisters!

I once read a quote that has alawys stuck with me that goes, "the tradegy of old age is not that we are old. It is that we are still young."

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 5:37:28 PM

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damn, you mean I don't get to wear the polyester double knit pants my mom used to wear????

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 5:47:36 PM

BreakingGlass

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vendaval
and what is this
nonsense about having to fight wrinkles and acne at the same time?

Oh, thanks, I really needed that today.

One of the banes of my existence is the classic oily complexion, the one I was supposed to grow out of oh so many years ago. The plus side of it is there aren't many wrinkles...now if I could just do something about that "tired" look I get around my eyes (usually from lack of sleep).

I'm staring down the barrel of 34...33 I could handle just fine, since it's still "early 30s," but 34 is more or less mid-30s.

Having never been a beauty I can't say I'm feeling any loss over any diminished looks and my clothes have never fit properly. I'm rarely comfortable during work hours anyway, since I can't go casual and playing Dress Up was never much fun. (At least not in terms of workplace-appropriate clothing.

)

But what has been on my mind lately is...the very high likelihood that my life is just about half over. (Most people in my family rarely make it to 70.) Gives me pause for thought, particularly over what I've accomplished by this point in my life, but that's neither here nor there.

Am I any happier than I was, say, 15 years ago? I may be closer to a MILF than a nubile now, but I'd say the answer is yes, for the most part. Of course there are the "could've, should've" things that pop up from time to time, but I'm a touch more comfortable with who and what I am now than I was back then. After all, I never really acted young, even when I was.

If I could jump in a time machine and go back and visit who I was 15 years ago, what would I tell myself? Basically, things will always be strange, but you'll handle it just fine. Oh, and change your major to get a math or science degree, dammit.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/20/2006 6:53:18 PM

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Welcome to middle age

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Other times, I think maybe the upcoming me is going to be sassy and sexy in a whole new way, with a whole new meaning I've never even thought of.

Given your attitude and the way you seem to carry yourself, I would say that is a pretty safe bet.
Aging has never been an issue to me, but then again I am an ugly man to begin with, so I look forward to morphing into a "distinguished" ugly man.
Every wrinkle you may have tells a story, it is part of you and should not be feared, and inner beauty is not all you have to rely on, older women are not by definition unattractive, so my advice is to just relax and to enjoy the changes life brings...you can't stop it anyway.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/21/2006 7:32:33 AM

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Applauds all the Great posts! Adds tho' I have always said of myself and find it to be truer each day " I may not be beautiful, but I damn sure am interesting" I will accept who I am and stand by my convictions and truth as I percieve it....The grey in my hair is wonderful and is that true rare silver color....Maria with the many colors of hair....

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/21/2006 8:09:46 AM

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I am near the big 4-0 and find I do have to work a bit harder. But, I'm doing it.

With some guidance (perhaps that kick in the ass i received ;) ) recently lost 10 pounds. Went from a size 8 (OK, not really fat, just off my best self) to a 6 and am on my way back to a sleek size 4 bottom.

Working out, eating right. Good genes. I am lucky. My Grandmother, who passed away at age 97, taught yoga classes at the ripe old age of 70!

Don't hate me. Please. I'm fighting every minute. Besides, inner beauty is what really counts.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/22/2006 8:41:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix
Or am I really just getting fat and wrinkled and trying to delude myself into thinking it's a good thing?

Don't worry about it. There's a fetish for everything. ;-) Remember the guy that loved the "waddle" on Ally McBeal? (I have no idea how her name is spelled; I didn't actually watch the show)

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/22/2006 9:04:37 AM

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Hellos Ladies,
What an eye opening topic. I honestly believe I must live on the edges of denial - like TammyJo said " Now to twist the topic a bit: Do your subs or slaves or bottoms ever notice your body's changes?

Neither Tom nor Fox noticed mine; they think I'm goreous, beautiful, perfectly curving in all the appropriate places. But that nasty part of me that I learned growing up dismisses what they say as blinded by love or focused on other parts of me.

It can make me feel like a bad wife and a bad mistress when I don't believe their compliments that I know objectively are heart-felt." - I MUST respond to this - it DOES help to have one or more younger admirers - My Primary is *sigh* about 14 years younger and insists I am 36 (that age has not changed from the year we met, almost 6 years ago now) and He takes the worst pics of Me..
I know what this means, do you?
He must be blinded by that True love that shows them Our Inner Beauty.
coz it doesn't matter if I'm all mascara smeared, or bleary eyed frazzle haired after either a hot scene or simply waking up in the morning - his awefull photography show Me that he truely loves "Me" : The double chin from laughing so hard, the hip buldges - the bra roll!
I've recently been diagnosed with diabetes type II - after being a size 13/14 for years to suddenly puff up to an 18 - and he says "I like 'em all plump & curvey" .. (what a relief..I've worked My way back down to a solid 14/15!) .. yeah, I'm keeping him.
What I find so excellent now is that younger males are accepting of Me and pressing for My attention even if I'm sometimes suddenly aware of My non-youth! Are we talking life experience attraction or what?
Right, I still have leathers and skimpy outfits that I long to wear again, but parting with them? hell, I'll make floggers and throw pillows out of My favorites!
Tummy tuck? Looking into that, I feel like a mama Lioness.
Good advice on which face creams and all; gloves are sexy & make nice gifts from your admirers, hats are mysterious.. I say we become more worldly in the style of ageless beauty granted to those with the self confidence of a Domina.
I am thrilled to know of You All, your words have inspired Me away from sliding into a sadness - I trust in these honest networks of Real Women. Kudos to y'all! Look Me up when you are in Washington.
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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/22/2006 1:28:39 PM

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I got some more lotions for my dry skin -- blah -- and Fox looked at me this afternoon and said "Do you really need that, Mistress?"

I replied, "My dry skin itches," so he did a price check and got me the best buy of the type I wanted with a "Can't have that," comment.

This is my biggest problem -- dry skin. Freaked me out after having oily and hyper sensitive skin for most of my life. Still hyper sensitive skin but now also dry in spots. But, genetically speaking, I don't worry about wrinkles. My mother turned 76 around Christmas and she looks like she's in her early 50s and she's a sick woman. My students routinely think I'm in my low 20s and several people think Fox and I aree the same age even though I'm 11 years older.

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/22/2006 3:24:26 PM

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SideNote:
Fire that new picture is beautiful. Where do I get one of those blouses?

M

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/22/2006 3:32:14 PM

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I've been meaning to tell you M that I love your new pic!!!

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RE: I'm getting fat and wrinkled. - 5/22/2006 4:07:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MochaMistress

Hey I'm feeling you here also. Although I rather like that age has added soft curves to what used to be a rock hard body. The only thing I dont like about my body is my stomach so its a work in progess for me now. At 5'11" 230 lbs I'm healthy and happy and faster than a blink of an eye can have most boys on the floor face down with my boot on the back of their neck. At 39 yes I do color the grey out of my hair. But overall Im pretty happy with the progession of my life. Gone are the days of wearing a sized 10 now in 18's and when I walk through the mall heads still turn its about the way a person carries themselves. Im sure I will be buried in hip boots and a paddle in my hand.

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