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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 10:16:41 AM

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If I like them, I'll meet them. Coffee shop, bar, her place, a park, behind the dumpster back of the 7-11 on 3rd. Wherever she wants to meet is fine by me. Worst case scenario, she's not the hot chick who's pics I was jerking off to.

Oh well...next!

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 10:17:30 AM

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 10:23:03 AM

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That's some funny shit.

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 10:34:36 AM

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my only guideline was to bring a good book or my computer to waste time until they showed up and to finish my cup of coffee before getting up and walking out.

I took "the guideline" to mean "after meeting them on-line what guidelines are there before you would PROPOSE meeting them for obligatory coffee."

That is, what "hurdle" exists between on-line contact and personal contact.

I guess I don't have any guidelines then lol

When i met Master he had a fuzzy picture from very far away so I had no idea what he looked like, didn't know his name or anything else about him really except for the philosophical one liners we'd throw at each other at 3am.

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 10:50:46 AM

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I guess I don't have any guidelines then lol

I don't either. I don't have "one size fits all" anything. One could say how I operate is random, dependent on how I'm feeling at any particular moment... or open to the universe.

One thing's for sure. My submissive has to be flexible.

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 11:08:36 AM

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Me also.

I've met several after only one or two emails and no photo. It was an enjoyable visit and nothing more.

Then, there are several that, even after photos, phone calls, and many emails.......I have noooooo desire to meet. EVER

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 12:03:23 PM

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It's all context sensitive. No two people are the same, and no meeting two different people is going to be the same either.

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 12:34:08 PM

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You were right to have red flags, IMO.

I was enjoying your posts - do come back.

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 3:08:54 PM

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Well, I pressed the wrong button and ended up looking at the OP again.

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It's strange the stuff people feel a need to conceal.

Words more apt never were said. Innit.

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RE: Why people hide stuff online - 8/11/2011 11:57:43 PM

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Nothing wrong with people protecting their privacy, but I think if - big IF - she was an actual woman, maybe something made her uncomfy or triggered alarm bells. I usually switch off if somebody exchanges 1 or 2 CMails and then wants my email or a messenger, a phone number, an address or anything that I would not tell a stranger I just met online. Not having a picture of herself is a bit odd, it's not that digital cams or webcams are a super novelty, I wouldn't pose in front of a webcam for a stranger, but if you want to meet a picture of yourself not such a big deal.

Hey, consider yourself lucky, you didn't waste more time on "her" and noticed fairly early that there was an incompatibility

I agree, the guys who fish for personal info like location, or messenger right off the bat are a warning flag, as are the ones who are in fantasy role play mode after first email. Pro session clients & new lifestyle service pets do not my address until they are almost to my space, pro clients must deposit to get it. I use a college a couple miles away as location for mapping out travel. Too many boys on this site fish for addresses & personal info...with no 'good' intention and some of them are rather 'off'. As a woman, even with 2 large dogs, a hand gun, and a male live in, I am *still* exceptionally conscious of it. I had a psycho fan stalker a decade+ ago go off meds & leave college without telling his family to come *talk to me*, cross country, MA to CA. Better safe than sorry.

Now I don't 'cam verify' either - its usually a huge waste of time. However, if she doesn't have a photo on her profile, and wont send a photo via email, she either A) doesn't really want to meet you or is B) a man or C) lied about herself enough physically in the name of fantasy to be too scared to show you the real her

Could be any of the above, but why would you care to meet her if there are that many warning flags/questions? Move on to the next opportunity...

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