HeatherMcLeather
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At 56yrs old, you'll just have to take my word for it that I've pretty much worked out my "horizons". Of course, to put it in a way you'll likely relate better to; I'm 37 years past the old bumper-sticker adage of "Hire a teenager now, while they still know *everything*"! Based on the familiar Hannah/Heather theme expressed here (there's only 2 ways - our way and the wrong way), I'm guessing you're not much past.... 20? <shrugs> Let's take a look at who said what, and see who made the absolute my way/wrong way statement shall we?
You said: "In my world, subs are the only ones who get restrained." OK, That's pretty unequivocal, there is no allowance for anything but subs being bound, thereby dismissing all dominant bottoms and switches.
I said: "That's actually a rather sad commentary on how narrow and limited a world you live in. My Domme gets restrained quite regularly. You really should try to expand your horizons a little, you'd be surprised at how much you will discover." No, nothing exclusionary or about having to do anything one way or another.
So your first point is untrue. Obviously a clumsy attempt to deflect what I said by throwing in a red herring and trying to make it seem like I was the one making the unreasonable all-or-nothing statement, when in fact it was you who did so.
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And a little fyi on the sentence context you quoted. Judging from a number of his posts in the past month or so, Arpig has appointed himself as my serial stalker. He makes with the petulance, I retort, he needs to be somewhere else, apparently.... OK, Let's take the context. You made a statement, he replied with a joke. <A joke is usually what is implied by adding the laughing face at the end of a remark> And you replied back with your absolute. It seems you take Arpig's presence on a thread far more seriously than does anybody, including Arpig. Along with expanding your horizons, I would strongly suggest you learn to lighten up a little. It will help you deal with life's little bumps. and at your age you really do need to be careful about your blood pressure.
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The aforementioned "my world" includes these CM discussion boards. The advice I gave here is relative to D/s and the OP's question. See, it's not all about me - one of those many horizons I long figured out. Well, if your world does indeed include these boards, then your absolute statement is obviously wrong, as these boards do indeed include several non-subs who get restrained. And as far as things being all about you, well you certainly seem to think they are, based on your replies. You have taken a passing joke as part of some imagined stalking campaign. I can't be 100% certain, but I'm 99% certain, that nobody on these boards cares or thinks about you enough to bother stalking you, you just aren't that important. In fact, I'm pretty certain you're pretty much irrelevant to almost everybody on here.
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If you wanna ponder "sad", go find Arpig. While there are several aspects of Arpig's life and views I find somewhat sad, I find your fixation on him even sadder. You are replying to me, not him, he has nothing to do with my remark to you, nor should he be relevant to your reply to me.
The only petulance I see in this whole exchange is yours in the post I'm replying to now. So far your response consists of:
~ I'm older than you.
~ You do worse things.
~ Arpig is picking on me.
I will, however, say that you are proving his penis remark to be very accurate. I wish I'd made it <I like being right>.
Now, before you reply back hastily and dig yourself deeper, I suggest you consider making a reply along the lines of "You're right, I was all butt hurt and just shot off my mouth without thinking".
< Message edited by HeatherMcLeather -- 8/13/2011 8:01:13 AM >
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