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RE: Talking about sex... - 5/20/2006 10:11:05 AM

Bearlee

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LOL... why thank you Sir. And...it's always nice to find a Dominant who likes to get to know a woman first!

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RE: Talking about sex... - 5/20/2006 10:56:28 AM

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The only problem I have is one of newness to doing this kind of thing over the net. More a question of OK what level of detail is appropriate here.

Get me face to face with the girl in the real world and no problem, you can gauge her response from things like body language, amount of eye contact and so on. It is easy to tell if the conversation is within her comfort zone for how familiar she is with you, but on the net, when you are typing an email... no imediate feedback, big headache!

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RE: Talking about sex... - 5/20/2006 12:53:24 PM

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I am totally in agreement with you, Bearlee. I am exactly as you say you are in liking sex, etc., and I enjoy talking about it with a potential partner, or just with friends, if we're close friends. But I seem to have a subconscious boundary line that, if it gets crossed too soon by someone I've just met recently, it is a major turn-off to me. There is just a certain level of comfort and trust I have to develop with someone before I open up to them that way. But once I've reached it, then I'll talk about all night if they want to.

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RE: Talking about sex... - 5/20/2006 4:19:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

... But I seem to have a subconscious boundary line that, if it gets crossed too soon by someone I've just met recently, it is a major turn-off to me. There is just a certain level of comfort and trust I have to develop with someone before I open up to them that way. But once I've reached it, then I'll talk about all night if they want to.

Exactly! Thank you... It's kinda like 'On yer knees, bitch' for an opening to a new e-mail... sheeshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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RE: Talking about sex... - 5/22/2006 5:53:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: Bearlee
Exactly! Thank you... It's kinda like 'On yer knees, bitch' for an opening to a new e-mail... sheeshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

So why do you CARE if it's with people you don't want to have those conversations with?

I am comfortable having sexual conversations with near strangers if it's on the level of "I've got some trouble having this type of orgasm, what do you do?" or "Do you consider this to be sex or just foreplay?"

But that's just intellectual conversations and dialogue. If a guy wants me to start describing my pussy just because he wants to get turned on...what's the point of that?

If someone doesn't know how to start conversations and just talk to someone comfortably, then they obviously are NOT a good partner for me.

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RE: Talking about sex... - 5/22/2006 10:56:19 AM

Bearlee

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Yes, my point exactly. I can DISCUSS a lot of stuff...I just don't wanna cyber strangers.

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