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Forced Bi - 8/9/2011 11:22:27 PM

bound1717

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Hello all may i ask a question on forced bi? my Mistress want to have a bi session and im concerned with safty issues please tell me what should i know and any help would be welcome

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/10/2011 12:29:48 AM

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The very same stuff that you would need to know about safer sex practices for any other type of encounter. Don't take risks that are not necessary regarding fluid transfer. Have the person that you are going to be engaged in these activities with have a STI panel done and ask for the printed test report. (You should do the same if you haven't been tested recently.) Use condoms for both oral and anal penetration. The common sense stuff that reduces your risks.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/10/2011 12:36:20 AM

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Anything that exchanges blood-based fluids can transmit blood-based pathogens. It's just that simple. Anything that is going to transfer those fluids needs to be protected.

EDIT: Word choice

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/10/2011 2:10:17 PM

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Body Condom... it's the only way to fly "bi"...

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/10/2011 9:16:27 PM

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christ on a cupcake man, don't fucking do it. suck a cock even once and you'll turn gay. there'll be no turning back!! run man, in the name of all that is holy run for your life!!!

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/10/2011 10:27:16 PM

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There is NO such thing as "forced bi".

No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

You have to WANT it internally.
You are straight or GAY.

"There is no such thing as "BI."you are GAY, but, you like women too...Phil McGraw.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/10/2011 10:41:37 PM

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quote:

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There is NO such thing as "forced bi".

No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

Wanna bet?

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 7:24:55 AM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

There is NO such thing as "forced bi".

No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

Wanna bet?

Yeah, I'm having trouble with this one.

People have been forced to rob banks before... even bank managers have been forced to rob banks.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:26:38 AM

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I agree with LadyPact. Subs can easily be forced into a bi situation that they don't want to do.

Example:
submissive is straight. Has no intention of ever being with a male.
Dominant enjoys seeing male on male action and has a very good relationship with said submissive.
submissive trusts Dominant wholeheartedly and is willing to do anything for Dominant.
Dominant tells submissive to suck a dick. submissive does not want to, but does simply because submissive will do anything to please their Dominant.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:35:05 AM

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I'm not bi. I have zero interest in women at all. Even most of my friends have been male.

But I have been forced to fuck another woman. When you're bound and a woman is sitting on top of you and the only way to get her off of you is to make her climax, you do what you have to do.

Master has talked of one day bringing another woman in. He knows I have no interest but I would do it anyway because it's what he wants. When I agreed to be his slave I lost that option of choice.

Doesn't make me gay, doesn't make me bi. It makes me a compliant servant.

As for safety, choose your other person carefully, make sure they're tested for stds, make sure you know them at least fairly well and use condoms, no different than if you were fucking any person.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:36:15 AM

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yep i believe in forced bi. I don't believe it when a single person is all like yeah i really want to be forced to be bi ... wait a second~~ but in the instance stoni described exactly i believe in forced bi

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:39:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I'm not bi. I have zero interest in women at all. Even most of my friends have been male.

But I have been forced to fuck another woman. When you're bound and a woman is sitting on top of you and the only way to get her off of you is to make her climax, you do what you have to do.

Master has talked of one day bringing another woman in. He knows I have no interest but I would do it anyway because it's what he wants. When I agreed to be his slave I lost that option of choice.

Doesn't make me gay, doesn't make me bi. It makes me a compliant servant.

As for safety, choose your other person carefully, make sure they're tested for stds, make sure you know them at least fairly well and use condoms, no different than if you were fucking any person.

and ya i agree it doesn't actually make you bisexual so perhaps there really IS no forced bi sessions

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:40:02 AM

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yea forced bi can't be consensual without being contradictory : )

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:40:04 AM

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THE DOMME ISN"T HOLDING A GUN ON THE SLAVE!
SHEESH!
One is a CRIME, the other is a CHOICE!
DUH!

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

There is NO such thing as "forced bi".

No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

Wanna bet?

Yeah, I'm having trouble with this one.

People have been forced to rob banks before... even bank managers have been forced to rob banks.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:43:16 AM

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when the choice is to comply and make your Master happy or end the relationship .... there is no crime but yes it is forced and it is a mind fuck

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:43:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

There is NO such thing as "forced bi".

No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

You have to WANT it internally.
You are straight or GAY.

"There is no such thing as "BI."you are GAY, but, you like women too...Phil McGraw.

Are you thinking we will be distracted by the twenty year old picture of your tits... that we won't notice the shit flowing?

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 8:44:54 AM

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But now you're getting into the semantics of BDSM. You agree to be someone's slave, so you agree to do everything they ever ask of you? Or You agree to be someone's slave, and therefore can be forced into doing anything, but does that make it a conscience choice? I think this only really concerns the individuals themselves. Each situation is unique.

And besides, if someone wants to call it forced bi because they get off on that... let them! What harm is it doing to you. If you feel they're living in a fantasy... let them!

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 9:00:37 AM

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With my experience, it's actually the slave who has the most control in these relationships. Both parties agree beforehand what is acceptable and what is not. The slave lives fantasies by having things done to it, and the master lives fantasies by doing them.

Sure, the master might have additional fantasies, but if they are pushed past the boundaries without the slave's "permission," then that master has a chance of losing the slave.

Unless the slave says "I don't care, do whatever you want, etc etc."

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 9:12:39 AM

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why do you think it's the Master who risks the possibility of losing the sub?

It can work just the other way as well you know? If the sub does not agree to it the Dom can walk away as well.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 9:13:31 AM

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I do expect some of my toys to be bi-obedient. Not necessarily bisexual. I have found on a personal note that 'forcing' my slaves or submissives into bi sexual acts often leads to complex after care scenarios. There seems to be a fine line between bi obedience and forced bi. I suspect even though I have a preference for one the other strokes my interest now and then as well.

I am in agreement that 'forced' and 'please make me do it' can also lead to inauthenticity which for me would be a 'forced' role play.

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