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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 11:06:56 AM

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hmm bi-obedient.. i like it.

And little wonder i agree completely. That is just like "the gift" nonsense. The submissive has just as much to lose as the dominant does.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 12:31:41 PM

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why do you think it's the Master who risks the possibility of losing the sub?

It can work just the other way as well you know? If the sub does not agree to it the Dom can walk away as well.

Well that would also be expected. I suppose I'm guilty of not explaining both sides at once.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 12:40:26 PM

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THE DOMME ISN"T HOLDING A GUN ON THE SLAVE!
SHEESH!
One is a CRIME, the other is a CHOICE!
DUH!

Well then maybe YOU shouldn't have chosen that stupid metaphor, should you?

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 12:44:45 PM

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 5:43:07 PM

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When I agreed to be his slave I lost that option of choice.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 5:45:43 PM

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Are you thinking we will be distracted by the twenty year old picture of your tits...

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 11:33:39 PM

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i just want to say thank you all for your input

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/11/2011 11:47:14 PM

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No thanks are needed for my little bit. My opinion is no better than anyone else's :P

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/12/2011 12:33:18 AM

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THE DOMME ISN"T HOLDING A GUN ON THE SLAVE!
SHEESH!
One is a CRIME, the other is a CHOICE!
DUH!

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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There is NO such thing as "forced bi".

No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

Wanna bet?

Yeah, I'm having trouble with this one.

People have been forced to rob banks before... even bank managers have been forced to rob banks.

Oh! I see, did you forget to add "without a gun" to the sentence below when you originally wrote it then? Only it seems like on being challenged over the silliness of this absurdly generalised statement you're now adding conditions to it.

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No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

Now let's look at the special new condition you've added...

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THE DOMME ISN"T HOLDING A GUN ON THE SLAVE!
SHEESH!

Again, the point has to be made - when you originally said...

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No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

You didn't actually make it clear how this force was going to be applied, in either case, but I'll let that go.

People have been forced to do all sorts of things by their dominant partners. There are cases where people have been forced to commit murders. I've no doubt whatsoever that you're the strong, independent thinking, type who'd never bow to pressure from a partner unless you were happy with it. Perhaps that helps to explain why you're a domme. But I know plenty of strong, independent thinking subs who, for the right dominant partner, and in a trusting relationship, would do almost anything for their Dom/Domme.

If you don't think that there are cases, and plenty of them, where the Dom/Domme in the relationship can make a partner do something they don't enjoy doing then, and I say this with enormous respect, your experiences of D/s are very different to mine.

I've seen hundreds of examples of sub partners doing something that they don't enjoy one bit, for their partners. They do get pleasure from pleasing their partner, but the act in and of itself doesn't give them anything. Indeed, since "humiliation" is one of my kinks, I can assure you that this is a pretty common thing - at least in the context of my experience.

Oh... and I wonder if I might ask you not to type in caps? it gives the impression that you're shouting as well as suggesting, wrongly I'm sure, that you're rude and petulant.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/12/2011 4:55:12 AM

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forced bi, what a hoot. So many of these guys seem to be chomping at the bit to get at some cock.

almost makes dommes fag hags.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/18/2011 5:04:23 PM

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REPORTED.

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There is NO such thing as "forced bi".

No one can "force" you to suck dick anymore than they can force you to rob a bank.

You have to WANT it internally.
You are straight or GAY.

"There is no such thing as "BI."you are GAY, but, you like women too...Phil McGraw.

Are you thinking we will be distracted by the twenty year old picture of your tits... that we won't notice the shit flowing?

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/18/2011 5:09:53 PM

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REPORTED.

For what? You might want to save those reports for those of us who have called you a moron on a few occasions.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/18/2011 9:27:13 PM

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Hello all may i ask a question on forced bi? my Mistress want to have a bi session and im concerned with safty issues please tell me what should i know and any help would be welcome

I think it's where they put a gun to your head ..and well you get the idea.. Of course I would have issues with someone trying to "force" me to do any thing. They better be ready to tussle.

It's like this nobody can force me to do something I dont wanna do without a gun to my head. Im not about to have sex with someone just because my partner says do it. Yes it's really that simple.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/19/2011 7:18:53 AM

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There is also the big difference between you and the ones who are going to have "forced-bi" thrust upon them. You are dominant. I have found it is pretty difficult to "force" you lot into taking the garbage out much less anything else.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/19/2011 9:37:09 AM

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There's a really good post on this subject on another thread and it's all about obedience. To paraphrase, it goes like this:

"Suck cock, Mistress? Yes, Miss. Nom nom nom. All done, Miss."

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/19/2011 9:58:49 AM

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I'm not bi. I have zero interest in women at all. Even most of my friends have been male.

But I have been forced to fuck another woman. When you're bound and a woman is sitting on top of you and the only way to get her off of you is to make her climax, you do what you have to do.

Master has talked of one day bringing another woman in. He knows I have no interest but I would do it anyway because it's what he wants. When I agreed to be his slave I lost that option of choice.

Doesn't make me gay, doesn't make me bi. It makes me a compliant servant.

As for safety, choose your other person carefully, make sure they're tested for stds, make sure you know them at least fairly well and use condoms, no different than if you were fucking any person.

I have a sub that is very not gay. He has even made it clear that if I were to pick a man to bring into what we do he would rather it were trans (so it at least looks like a woman) but that he will do as he is told either way to make sure that I am happy. As to all the can it be forced or not...sure it can. I could go out and pick a man that is overly maculine. He wouldn't like the idea but he would do what he was told because emontionally I would be forcing him into it.

As to safety...Lp already said it. Do everything you would do when being safe with anyone else.

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/19/2011 2:45:32 PM

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stoni23, you hit the nail (or Penis) right on the head.

Use Condoms !

I done it to please MADAM, and it is no big deal, as long as you use protection. And I didn't turn Gay because of it either. I love FEMALES way too much.

I keep joking with my wife, that if I ever got a sex change, I would become a Lesbian. I love women too much. LMCLAO

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RE: Forced Bi - 8/20/2011 9:41:33 PM

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