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stoni23 -> RE: An off-putting time. (8/11/2011 3:47:53 PM)
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I do say "lol" a lot. But you can insult me all you like, I will not return that back to you. If it pleases you to do so, have at it. It does not anger me or have any adverse effect.
Since LaTigresse had nothing else to add to the conversation except calling me stupid, then there is nothing else for me to say more to her in the essence of this discussion.
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VaguelyCurious: How can you say it isn't? When i considered limits I pictured them as simple boundaries that I've set (like what tools to beat me with, or how many needles I'll accept). When I think of HARD limits that's a completely different story. Hard limits are not loosely based. Those are what I consider to be the extremes that are only to be looked at with careful precision. Those are what I would consider to be safety concerns depending on certain health issues, or psychological boundaries. Nothing about the word "limits" (in my opinion, everybody is entitled to their own on this point), is anything but loosely based. BUT, again that is simply how I view things. That is not necessarily how others will view them. As I must continually repeat, this is all conjecture; everybody here is merely a person spreading their opinions.
I'm about as open as anybody, I have very few "limits" as far as play goes beyond extreme physical damage or causing permanent harm so when I hear the word "limits" I instantly go to a lets push that in my brain. So maybe that's why I view limits differently then you. But, that doesn't mean I have a complete lack of understanding of the meaning of the word, only that I view it differently then you. I might add, this process of opinion acceptance I am entitled to : ).
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