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BitaTruble -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 12:15:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

im just a white man with orange hair and freckles,

With a canvas like that, I'd bet you would mark really well. Consider hooking up with a sadist who would also enjoy your service. Not everyone 'hates' redheaded men. I sure don't.



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 12:15:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

and none of you have a clue what my life is like, from my earliest memories ive had people telling me that im an ugly freak, i have constantly been made to feel like im not good enough,...


Umm, hello?  Redheaded, fair skinned, freckle faced gal here. You aren't the only ginger in the cookie jar. 

So you aren't everyone's flavor?  Big deal.  Not ALL women hate redheads.  Which is good.  You don't NEED all women to desire you.  Just one.  The rest who aren't into redheads.  So what.  You can't fuck em all, anyway.

I've had a hell of a lot more men call me ugly and homely than I've had compliments.  That doesn't mean all men hate winsomely defiant redheads.  Those who do.  So what.  I can't fuck em all anyway.





SuperHappyTime -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 1:45:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep
..blah blah etc etc..i was asking a clear question, which none of you answered...


There is no answer to your question because it's couched in the assumption that all women feel the same. I hate to break it to you, but I've a friend who's ginger and did 'better' with women than most of the rest of us (he's firmly attached now). Its a confidence issue..yep, its great that you're nice and polite and all that but if you're also unconfident and prone to reacting to issues like you have here, then women aren't exactly going to be lining up outside your door.

Inform yourself about how to dress and what you like, work on your confidence, laugh along with the tongue-in-cheek comments about your hair colour.

Edit: after seeing the multiple pity posts you've spammed across the forums..I'm regretting bumping this one up



Cherylmazana -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 1:55:20 AM)

So your ginger, so what.

My husband is ginger, his sisters are ginger, and I expect our grandkids will also be ginger  (it seems to skip a generation in his family).

The only problem with being ginger is that most gingers have a chip on their shoulder the size of a house because they got bullied at school.

Well guess what you also got bullied if you wore glasses, were fat, too thin, too tall, too small, didn’t fit in with the right crowd, didn’t wear the right clothes, didn’t swear/smoke/fight, enjoyed learning, didn’t like learning, were considered thick, were thought of as too bright, were teachers pet, and probably a hundred other things.

In fact most kids were bullied in school unless you were the one in a hundred who was the one everyone wanted to hang out with.

So you think you are unattractive, guess what your attitude makes you unattractive good for you, you just fulfilled your own prophesy.

Cheryl



DeviantlyD -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 2:08:02 AM)

Women don't hate red-haired men. I know I don't. If you dislike it so much, go to a hair salon and have them colour it for you.



shaunthesheep -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 4:02:51 AM)

i am not going to colour my hair, i just have to accept that im physically disgusting, i will be posting photos in my profile on tuesday next week (i have to get my camera sorted out) so you can all judge for yourself. i AM sorry if i was emotional before, i get really depressed sometimes and it bothers me that im physically disgusting and 100% unloveable, thats all. I am sorry for overreacting



SadisticMs2 -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 4:51:35 AM)

You need a therapist.



LadyConstanze -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 4:55:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

well i am destined to always be alone, its my fate to never experience love, i am worthless, i am just an ugly redheaded loser


Oddly enough I'm a redhead too and I never had that problem...



domiguy -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 5:09:04 AM)

No, the OP is pretty much spot on, redheads are fairly vile people.

With their pasty white sickly transparent skin and huge purple veins, Eeeeeek! Round them up and kill them all.

Alabaster white skin is sooooo fucking grodie. I would rather have a serial killer living next to me than a red head.



SadisticMs2 -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 5:11:07 AM)

LOL Too funny!

Fear my alabaster skin!



PeonForHer -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 5:13:48 AM)

In all seriousness, if you really believe that, then you really *do* need a therapist, Shaun.



LadyConstanze -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 5:36:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

i am not going to colour my hair, i just have to accept that im physically disgusting, i will be posting photos in my profile on tuesday next week (i have to get my camera sorted out) so you can all judge for yourself. i AM sorry if i was emotional before, i get really depressed sometimes and it bothers me that im physically disgusting and 100% unloveable, thats all. I am sorry for overreacting


Physically disgusting? Well, you don't seem to be morbidly obese, you can't be everybody's type, you can try and make the best out of your type and that's it.

Take it from somebody who's redheaded with a Latin skin, most of my childhood and teenage days I was hankering for freckles and pale alabaster skin, the time I wasted being miserable about a perceived flaw, can I have that time back please? For a while I coloured my hair black or brown, then about 3 or 4 years ago I just couldn't be bothered with wasting all that much time doing that anymore, can you imagine how surprised I was when people asked me which hair colour I use because they like that orange mop on top of my head?

Oh and I did have a boyfriend with red hair when I was a teenager, one hell of a sexy guy, despite his pale skin and freckles, the problem was too sexy and he couldn't resist temptation - so we split.

Repulsive is not how somebody looks, repulsive are certain attitudes, and what would repulse me a lot more than your skin and hair would be your whining and saying you are a loser who doesn't deserve anything - sod it, if you think like that about yourself, what kind of a partner would you make? Think about it in terms of a job interview. If you proclaim loudly that you can't do the job, why would anybody employ you? They want somebody who's up for the job, same with relationships. Work on your 'tude a bit and worry about your hair colour later.



LillyBoPeep -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 5:46:20 AM)

it's possible that it's your negative outlook that chases people away.
if i met someone who talked about himself like this, i'd probably wander away.

for the record, i like redheaded dudes. i also like blonde guys with blonde eyelashes. but i'm also not a FemDom.

i kinda get where you're coming from; i mean, i meet a lot of people who don't like me, or don't consider me "dating material" because i'm brown. i'm not some pale-skinned petite blonde. =p but what are you going to do? whine about it and let it irreparably harm your self-esteem? if you become bitter and self-loathing, no one will want to be around you, much less date you, because you become toxic to them, too. just be yourself, be happy for yourself and true to yourself, and you'll find someone who really wants to know who YOU are, and not just about your hair/skin/eye/whatever color.



Daddysredhead -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 6:50:27 AM)

I'm very proudly a redhead, though I wasn't always. Once I got into college, I realized that lots of people were dying their hair to get it a shade of mine.

I know that Hibbie loves her ginger men. So, I would say it has less to do with your hair color and more to do with the attitude you are displaying.

I hope you get help.

~ Red



OsideGirl -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 7:19:58 AM)


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ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep
Why do Woman hate redheaded men with pale white skin and freckles?

I'm madly in love with my handsome, redheaded man who has pale skin and freckles.


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

your problem isn't your red hair

it's your attitude

Get thee to a therapist


This, majorly.....



BonesFromAsh -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 7:31:38 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MistrixMsE

Someone wants to invite us to his pity party... secretly hoping someone will play into your 'loser humilatrix fantasy' and tell you how awful you are so you can have more material to wank to? Sorry, not gonna happen.



Yeah...kinda obvious, ain't it.



HannahLynHeather -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 7:59:40 AM)

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I would rather have a serial killer living next to me
well of course you would. you'd have something in common. you could reminisce, compare notes, argue late into the night about the best way to dispose of the bodies. i imagine it would be great fucking fun for you, to share a hobby with your neighbour like that and not have to go down to the state penn on visiting day to find like minded people.



LadyConstanze -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 8:21:34 AM)

Hannah, I think you are completely and utterly wrong there due to the criminal profiling:

http://www.criminalprofiling.ch/character.html

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In general they are white males, aged 25 - 34, of at least average intelligence, and often with charming personalities.


See how that can't work?




LaTigresse -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 8:50:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shaunthesheep

well i am destined to always be alone, its my fate to never experience love, i am worthless, i am just an ugly redheaded loser


Quit your fucking pathetic whining.

After reading your first two posts on this thread I already know it ain't your fucking hair or freckles that is keeping you from getting laid.



JWriter -> RE: why do Woman hate redheaded men (8/12/2011 8:56:13 AM)

I'll have you know, the person I miss most from my past happens to have been a tall, thin, extremely pale redhead, with brown eyes, and rosy cheeks. He was considered terribly ugly by most of the girls in school, and, generally was chased by all the gay boys. I thought he was gorgeous.

The man I fell in love with is extremely tall, thin, and, has auburn hair.

So, not all women hate redheads, to be sure. I wouldn't go out of my way to date, befriend, or own anyone based on their hair color, but, red hair does tend to make me smile, more.



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