LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze You're spot on, I tend to eat like a horse, but due to eating mainly vegetarian (exception fish and shellfish) and a lot of veg, it's just not much of an issue, now of course if I would eat my veg in heavy sauces or fried, it would be different. I can't eat a lot at once, I'm more of a "grazer" and I seem to be naturally drawn to food that is good for me, that and quite a bit of exercise (which I enjoy tremendously) seems to keep me in a fairly good condition, my weight fluctuates 10 lbs up and down, but that's mainly due to hormonal cycles, I could possibly afford to lose 10 to 20 lbs but I don't really see a need for it. I don't want to be skinny because it's in, I want to be healthy. I can go below 100 lbs and be super fashionably slim, but that also means I catch colds like no tomorrow, don't function as well as I do, so I rather give it a miss - 38 is much too late to hanker after a career as a model, mind you that I would be far too short anyway. I had a friend who was vegetarian and she couldn't understand why, for the life of her, she remained about 25 pounds overweight despite all efforts to bring her weight down. We looked at what she was eating - LOTS of carby stuff: Pasta was one of her daily staple items. She thought because she was eliminating most fats she'd be ok. But her veggie stir fries with white rice, in peanut oil were quite the culprit, as was all that pasta and potatoes cooked in oil....and so on. I agree with you about not wanting to be skinny. I just want to feel good. I felt horrible (physically) as a morbidly obese person, and I'm feeling fabulous now. I just laughed and told the Mister this morning that I'm discovering new muscles on my body. The metamorphosis has been fun. I have about 20-25 to go. It's been a very slow process, but I'm fine with that - too many people look for fast and easy weight loss, only to put all their weight back on again because they never learned HOW to eat. Fast and easy just doesn't work, all you do is you damage your metabolism. Rice is great and a staple in my diet, but it's brown rice and not the white starchy kind, I do love pasta and have it regularly, but I know how much energy I use and how much I can eat, fairly often I have to force myself to actually eat enough to not go into a negative metabolism. I'm hypothyroid and the reason why a lot of docs thought I am not is simply that I didn't gain all the weight they assume should be gained and due to their scales I wasn't overweight - though for my well being I was, I really don't need scales to monitor how I feel or when I am gaining, my body tells me. I slip fairly regularly and then feel just horrible. I love to binge on occasion, but as long as it is just on occasion it's not a problem. My work is mainly tied to a computer screen with occasional travel, you need an outlet or your body just will not cope. I realized that part of the problem was actually not eating enough and giving my body the idea that it has to burn less, basically you can cut back 500 calories a day and it will not affect your metabolism, cut back 1000 and your body will go into energy preservation. There are occasions where I hanker for the jutting out hip bones, but I realized that it is just media brain wash, my measure is when I raise my arm, I have to be able to see the ribs and count them, if I stand straight, you should not be able to see them clearly because that is too close to me being too thin and getting sick. In general, being too thin is about as unhealthy as being too fat, life is there to be enjoyed and it's best enjoyed if you are healthy, sod it what fashion demands, if people think they do it to be attractive to the other gender - what a load of BS - most men couldn't give a toss what is fashionable or not, they like a girls with a good self-esteem who's fun to be around. No date ever asked me to step on a scale!
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