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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/18/2011 6:10:15 AM

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Make that three. I preferred the previous picture as well.

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/18/2011 10:02:43 AM

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Well, I personally don't mind going back to the old picture but I was advised by some of the members here that it would be better not to put a personal picture, but instead provide it per request.

Reasons in my case for something like that are not because I am affraid of potential stalking Ladies (one would only wish!

), but rather to avoid unpleasant situations in workplace/business sense. I do not know how understading are hiring managers, human resources workers or random ass bosses if somebody points them towards my profile here.

I usualy do not follow that train of thoughts, which got me to put my real picture in the first place, but after this was pointed out to me I could not find any good arguments against the logic.

Any thoughts ?

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/18/2011 1:23:52 PM

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Still shows the same picture for me, guess I need to close and reopen the browser.

Chances are that nothing might happen, but if it does, it's a bit late for regrets, a hiring manager might not even tell you why you are turned down, your colleagues might tell all the others first (possibly including the boss) before you know about it...

I can't see the new picture, but how about one that shows you at a sporty activity without giving a clear facial shot?

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/18/2011 2:32:08 PM

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IMHO, the picture of you is perfect, just enough to see that you are adorable whilst still providing a bit of mystery. In my small town, I've been casually asked if I have an online profile somewhere a few times before, by both tourists and locals. I play slightly dumb, admitting to a non-sex oriented dating site, and ask if they have a specific website in mind.

Either they go with the innocent site, or in one case, they referred to here, and then provided their online name, which I recognized. I was a wee bit squicked and not just a little concerned, as I was at work at the time. However, I felt assured of his discretion, as he was active duty military...and I could have outed him just as easily.

Which brings up the thought: What the hell were they doing on here themselves? As long as you are not using an email associated with your real name and info, it is a bit more difficult to trace you here. Not impossible, but not as easy.

Just my thoughts on the subject, I'm sure others can add to it.

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/18/2011 6:31:06 PM

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After long and careful consideration, I'm just gonna go with my first picture.
I don't have an urge or need to hide who I am and if that is going to get me in trouble - bring it on.
Trouble seems to know how to find me anyway...

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/18/2011 7:15:34 PM

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Perhaps you should drop Me a note. Then, I will see which pic shows up.

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/19/2011 8:01:27 AM

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I dont think even though Im not close to being an expert ...they dont care as much how u look [to a point ] as the power over you gives them there pleasure

I posted today also would love to talk in a relaxed manner to a dominate , dominatrix so that I can learn also

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/19/2011 1:31:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: qqqq7077

I dont think even though Im not close to being an expert ...they dont care as much how u look [to a point ] as the power over you gives them there pleasure

I posted today also would love to talk in a relaxed manner to a dominate , dominatrix so that I can learn also

qqqq,

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/19/2011 5:39:32 PM

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Seconded. OP, take good notice of Ferns. She's wise, kind, and - unusually - somehow manages actually to like men despite being a female who's got beyond the age of 30.

Ahem. There are many of us. You should take the time to meet us, smart ass ;-)

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/19/2011 10:23:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: qqqq7077

I dont think even though Im not close to being an expert ...they dont care as much how u look [to a point ] as the power over you gives them there pleasure

I posted today also would love to talk in a relaxed manner to a dominate , dominatrix so that I can learn also

FFS already, get this right!! Power ISN'T what gives me pleasure; I get my kicks from significant connection as do most people! All you need to do is be a good person who can relate to me as another good person, just like in your vanilla life. Dude, you have started off so badly!!!

Now back to our regularly scheduled programming...

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/19/2011 11:05:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

Seconded. OP, take good notice of Ferns. She's wise, kind, and - unusually - somehow manages actually to like men despite being a female who's got beyond the age of 30.

Ahem. There are many of us. You should take the time to meet us, smart ass ;-)

Ha ha ha ha...

We should organize some big meet where this can all be sorted out...

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RE: Sub men profile picture puzzle - 8/20/2011 8:10:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Morikvendi

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

Seconded. OP, take good notice of Ferns. She's wise, kind, and - unusually - somehow manages actually to like men despite being a female who's got beyond the age of 30.

Ahem. There are many of us. You should take the time to meet us, smart ass ;-)

Ha ha ha ha...
We should organize some big meet where this can all be sorted out...

Oh boy! Ha ha! I think I prefer meeting people one on one.

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