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Daddysredhead -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:13:30 PM)
From the OP's journal: quote: At the same time as physical training was underway, the slave would also be trained mentally for obedience and submission. I would conduct interviews with her, run psycho-analytical tests to probe the slave's state of mind, and then devise ways to break down her old identity and remake her anew. Special emphasis would be placed on breaking down whatever sexual inhibitions she might have. One way of achieving this, for example, would be through forced chastity and orgasm denial, e.g. making the slave wear a chastity belt, not permitting her to masturbate or achieve orgasm unless it was in response to sexual acts which she found degrading (viewing extreme pornography, for example). In this way the slave's only outlet for sexual gratification would be through previously unexplored channels. Her inhibitions would be broken down and eliminated over time. In furtherance of this I would also consider using chemical assistance via supplements and drugs which increase libido. The goal would be to create the ultimate slut with zero sexual inhibitions who would do anything and everything that her Master told her. The slave would be given plenty of non-sexual tasks to perform in her daily life: domestic chores, housework, secretarial duties, errands, etc... Of course, living expenses would be paid for. I don't expect or want slaves to go out and get a job. In time, following the completion of her transformation, the slave would be used to make money from her body by modeling and performing in adult work. She would also be shared with other, worthy individuals . Are you qualified to run psych evals on people? (if not, it's unauthorized practice of medicine) Turn the woman into a virtually "new" person? (this seems rather Frankenstein like) Chemical assistance and drugs to break a woman down so she will comply? (sounds like a Rufie Colada is the only way you're going to get her to do crazy shit that gets you off) Whoring her out? (well, yanno... whatever) I can tell you this, if you have to go through all this to get a woman to do what you want, you lack Mastery. I was slave to my ex-Master (who was black) for 8 years, and he was the one who brought me into this world. I have done things that I never thought I would like, simply out of wanting to expand my level of play and to see if what he thought would make me happy or horny or whatever he wanted, actually worked. He never had to "trick" me into doing things. I did them out of free will. And that is what makes men like you different from men like him. He inspired that level of compliance from me, no brain washing, no drugs, nothing... Oh, but he also had a BBC, so maybe that's what did it. [8\|] Yeah, you very well may be screwed here. Dayum... Sorry 'bout your bad luck and all... ~ Red

MissJana -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:14:13 PM)
I have to say I love you girls! LMAO! This douche bag is clueless how creepy he really is and how mature to block your and the others posts. hehe

Iamsemisweet -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:17:19 PM)
Well, at least the OP has women (or wimmen) visiting his profile now. So, I guess his thread worked.

MissJana -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:17:42 PM)
I just saw I went from Kinky to Indecent. Yay me! LOL

Twoshoes -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:18:17 PM)
quote: 95% of the views I get are from gay men Nowhere did I say you need to be an emotional tampon. I just said you need to understand women. By your own admission, you only manage to attract gay men with the way you present yourself. Anyway, I've had no issue whatsoever getting submissive women to reply to me or approach me, so it's your personal problem more than anything else. quote: Submissive BDSM girls, in particular, are looking for guys who have tons of empathy. That's why they write things like "hit me, abuse me, use me" in their profiles. It's so simple. I can't believe I never thought of it. Submissive women look for a safe environment to experience that sort of thing. You might actually be really dangerous, because: you don't know what you're doing; you don't know what submissive women look for in a partner; and you don't listen, take feedback or appreciate advice. Why would a woman put herself in the hands of someone who displays those traits? (Also: A ton of empathy doesn't preclude one from being sadistic, I should let you know.)

LadyConstanze -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:38:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead From the OP's journal: quote: At the same time as physical training was underway, the slave would also be trained mentally for obedience and submission. I would conduct interviews with her, run psycho-analytical tests to probe the slave's state of mind, and then devise ways to break down her old identity and remake her anew. Special emphasis would be placed on breaking down whatever sexual inhibitions she might have. One way of achieving this, for example, would be through forced chastity and orgasm denial, e.g. making the slave wear a chastity belt, not permitting her to masturbate or achieve orgasm unless it was in response to sexual acts which she found degrading (viewing extreme pornography, for example). In this way the slave's only outlet for sexual gratification would be through previously unexplored channels. Her inhibitions would be broken down and eliminated over time. In furtherance of this I would also consider using chemical assistance via supplements and drugs which increase libido. The goal would be to create the ultimate slut with zero sexual inhibitions who would do anything and everything that her Master told her. The slave would be given plenty of non-sexual tasks to perform in her daily life: domestic chores, housework, secretarial duties, errands, etc... Of course, living expenses would be paid for. I don't expect or want slaves to go out and get a job. In time, following the completion of her transformation, the slave would be used to make money from her body by modeling and performing in adult work. She would also be shared with other, worthy individuals . Are you qualified to run psych evals on people? (if not, it's unauthorized practice of medicine) Turn the woman into a virtually "new" person? (this seems rather Frankenstein like) Chemical assistance and drugs to break a woman down so she will comply? (sounds like a Rufie Colada is the only way you're going to get her to do crazy shit that gets you off) Whoring her out? (well, yanno... whatever) I can tell you this, if you have to go through all this to get a woman to do what you want, you lack Mastery. I was slave to my ex-Master (who was black) for 8 years, and he was the one who brought me into this world. I have done things that I never thought I would like, simply out of wanting to expand my level of play and to see if what he thought would make me happy or horny or whatever he wanted, actually worked. He never had to "trick" me into doing things. I did them out of free will. And that is what makes men like you different from men like him. He inspired that level of compliance from me, no brain washing, no drugs, nothing... Oh, but he also had a BBC, so maybe that's what did it. [8\|] Yeah, you very well may be screwed here. Dayum... Sorry 'bout your bad luck and all... ~ Red It's his skin colour, he says that! Now of course if anybody would contact LE, I am sure they would take that into consideration that he's only being victimized because he's white and that's a perfect excuse for pandering, drug abuse, practising medicine without a license and all the rest... FFS woman, can't you see he is victimized? Get a freaking onion and shed a tear for him! The least you can do!

fragilepieces -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:42:33 PM)
Edited it was too mean

angelikaJ -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:43:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aderious Yeah, empathizing with wimmin is the best way to get laid. Wimmin find men who act as emotional tampons sexy. That must explain why Charlie Sheen does so well. Guess he knows how to empathize. Submissive BDSM girls, in particular, are looking for guys who have tons of empathy. That's why they write things like "hit me, abuse me, use me" in their profiles. It's so simple. I can't believe I never thought of it. Heh - congrats on giving the worst advice ever on how to get laid. On a bdsm site, of all places. I didn't check your profile but I sure hope you consider yourself a sub. If not, I highly recommend you switch. Ummm... no, it isn't the worst advice ever to get laid. The man who became Master to me is someone who knows women. He has many female friends and he loves women well. He understands us because he knows how to listen and he does have the ability to empathise. This does not make him less dominant. You will likely not get that as a concept, but he is strong, confident and leads well. What's more he has earned my trust, and has my heart, mind, body and soul. So this must sound pretty mushy to you? I am His property; his slave. And he does do all kinds of BDSM things including things that could hurt a lot. He does them in ways that feel amazing to me. And anytime He wants me for sex in whatever form he wishes, he knows he need but give the word. Anytime. Now, you may not be looking for anything beyond a sex partner. Good for you on knowing that. I will say going back to who views your profile and why women don't view it and gay men do: Do you recall the discussion on men possibly being more visual? Regardless of pornography, it does apply to profiles. The photo you have showing is not going to make women want to see more. It will not hold their interest at all and will make them hit the hide button. The brief bit of text is also not going to make them want to click to view your whole profile. However, by focusing on your body the way you have you have put together a very attractive package for some gay men that your types appeals to. You really do have IT all wrong.

Daddysredhead -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 5:57:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead From the OP's journal: quote: At the same time as physical training was underway, the slave would also be trained mentally for obedience and submission. I would conduct interviews with her, run psycho-analytical tests to probe the slave's state of mind, and then devise ways to break down her old identity and remake her anew. Special emphasis would be placed on breaking down whatever sexual inhibitions she might have. One way of achieving this, for example, would be through forced chastity and orgasm denial, e.g. making the slave wear a chastity belt, not permitting her to masturbate or achieve orgasm unless it was in response to sexual acts which she found degrading (viewing extreme pornography, for example). In this way the slave's only outlet for sexual gratification would be through previously unexplored channels. Her inhibitions would be broken down and eliminated over time. In furtherance of this I would also consider using chemical assistance via supplements and drugs which increase libido. The goal would be to create the ultimate slut with zero sexual inhibitions who would do anything and everything that her Master told her. The slave would be given plenty of non-sexual tasks to perform in her daily life: domestic chores, housework, secretarial duties, errands, etc... Of course, living expenses would be paid for. I don't expect or want slaves to go out and get a job. In time, following the completion of her transformation, the slave would be used to make money from her body by modeling and performing in adult work. She would also be shared with other, worthy individuals . Are you qualified to run psych evals on people? (if not, it's unauthorized practice of medicine) Turn the woman into a virtually "new" person? (this seems rather Frankenstein like) Chemical assistance and drugs to break a woman down so she will comply? (sounds like a Rufie Colada is the only way you're going to get her to do crazy shit that gets you off) Whoring her out? (well, yanno... whatever) I can tell you this, if you have to go through all this to get a woman to do what you want, you lack Mastery. I was slave to my ex-Master (who was black) for 8 years, and he was the one who brought me into this world. I have done things that I never thought I would like, simply out of wanting to expand my level of play and to see if what he thought would make me happy or horny or whatever he wanted, actually worked. He never had to "trick" me into doing things. I did them out of free will. And that is what makes men like you different from men like him. He inspired that level of compliance from me, no brain washing, no drugs, nothing... Oh, but he also had a BBC, so maybe that's what did it. [8\|] Yeah, you very well may be screwed here. Dayum... Sorry 'bout your bad luck and all... ~ Red It's his skin colour, he says that! Now of course if anybody would contact LE, I am sure they would take that into consideration that he's only being victimized because he's white and that's a perfect excuse for pandering, drug abuse, practising medicine without a license and all the rest... FFS woman, can't you see he is victimized? Get a freaking onion and shed a tear for him! The least you can do! I'm so sorry, LadyC. How's this? [:(] I tried the onion thing, but it was taking too long, so I opted for this instead -----> [sm=stickineye.gif]

Aderious -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 6:38:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DecadentDesire In fact, all you would do is just start small talk about something interesting about them and they will almost always smile and respond in kind. It's amazing how the same approach works with the same frequency online. It might on vanilla dating sites. It definitely doesn't work here for the <30 crowd. Also, if the female profiles I've been contacting belong to gay men, it begs the question of why I haven't received more views or replies to my PM's. Since I have tons of gay men checking out my profile already, one would think the men running those fake profiles would be interested as well. Yet it hasn't happened that way. I have no idea what the explanation is and neither does anyone else here. I did not come here to solicit advice about my profile. The original question has already been addressed thoroughly.

Aderious -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 6:56:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet Whatever. Not my problem if you get laid or not. But your profile is really creepy. So, I assume you are creepy. I imagine any email coming from you would be creepy. Your posts here were pretty damn creepy. Maybe you should try eHarmony.com That's ludicrous. My profile talks about exactly the same stuff as a thousand other male dom profiles on this site, only it's much better written. I have no idea what you're doing on this site or if you even read profiles on here given your sensitivity to the subject matter. There are numerous profiles and journal entries that openly discuss things like scat, beatings/whippings, torture, various forms of abuse, humiliation, dehumanization, transformations, mental "reprogramming", enslavement, body modification, objectification, "mind control" and on and on it goes. In fact, the majority of these subjects are even listed as "interests" by the site itself so that people can pick and choose which ones they like. And you get on my case for what...wanting to give a girl a good body and turn her into a sexual nymphet? Pffffffft. You call THAT creepy? That's just every guy's desire from age 15 onwards. I can't believe we're even on the same site. Are you sure you're not reading profiles off eHarmony and comparing them to mine? Because that's what it sounds like. I have a bit of news for some of the people here talking about reporting me to authorities: Nearly everything that goes on in BDSM is illegal. You can call it "safe, consensual, fair play" or any other buzzword that you like, but the fact remains that people do NOT have the legal capacity to consent to things like being beaten, whipped, cut, locked up (false imprisonment), "play raped," etc...The legal system doesn't give a SHIT that you call yourself a "professional domme" or whatever other bullshit you can think of or that you've been doing it for years, or you have some bullshit contract made up with your subs. That stuff won't hold up for 5 minutes in court. Most of what you've been doing is illegal, plain and simple. If push came to shove it WOULD get you convicted. So if you report me I guarantee I'll do the same to you and you'll get a big surprise when your fat ass gets thrown in the can. And since whomever reports me is unlikely to admit it, I'll simply report everyone who posted on this thread. Unlike the majority of you, I haven't done anything yet, so we'll see who fares better. Capiche? You people are sick and revolting. Bunch of fat, old, bitter, degenerate fucks spewing venom at a young guy for having the temerity to ask a simple question.

angelikaJ -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 6:57:39 PM)
You are so sure that you are right that you won't consider the possibility that other people might know stuff that you don't. It *can* work here, and it actually does work here. It may not be working for you, and at this point you are just ducky with that. At some point, you may decide to try something else... and you may find that the something else works better than what you were doing. Best wishes.

Aderious -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 7:10:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: Aderious Why is it that seemingly every non-overweight, non-ugly, under 25, not obviously fake, sub white female on this site is looking for black men only? And why is it that none of them bother to explain this preference in their profiles? Hmm.. if it's not on their profiles how do you know they are only looking for black guys? Is that something they tell you after you write to them? Ponder that, dude. Their preference is stated in their profiles (or sometimes their names). The explanation for it is not. quote: ORIGINAL: angelikaJ You are so sure that you are right that you won't consider the possibility that other people might know stuff that you don't. It *can* work here, and it actually does work here. It may not be working for you, and at this point you are just ducky with that. At some point, you may decide to try something else... and you may find that the something else works better than what you were doing. Best wishes. Make a male dom profile on this site, message a bunch of <30 female subs and get them to respond. Take screenshots to document this. Do this, and then I'll be willing to take your advice. This goes out to anyone who thinks I'm doing something wrong. Until you do that, I couldn't care less what you have to say because you're all talk, no walk. You think it's easy to get replies by just being nice, or "empathetic" or whatever else? Fine. Stop talking about it and do it, then come back with proof. Otherwise, as they say on the internet, stfu & gtfo... No, I don't think people here know what they're talking about since it's very obvious that there is a completely different demographic on this forum than on the site in general. Pretty sure that just about every single person giving me advice on this thread is over 30 and not what I'm looking for. Do you really expect me to listen you? Why don't you try messaging 18-19 year olds and see how many replies you can get within a week. Many/most of you don't even real photos as your profile pics. Guarantee that it'll be a humbling experience and you won't be feeling nearly so cocky or knowledgeable after it's over. Of course, that's why the majority of you won't do it. Where are the 18-25 year olds who are telling me to do things differently? In other words, my target demographic. They're not on this forum, that's for sure. And that also proves my point, which is that young wimmin don't even visit this site.

angelikaJ -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 7:15:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aderious That's ludicrous. My profile talks about exactly the same stuff as a thousand other male dom profiles on this site, only it's much better written. >>And you don't know if any of them are getting any action either I have no idea what you're doing on this site or if you even read profiles on here given your sensitivity to this type of subject matter. There are numerous profiles and journal entries that openly discuss things like scat, beatings/whippings, torture, various forms of abuse, humiliation, dehumanization, transformations, mental "reprogramming", enslavement, objectification, "mind control" and on and on it goes. In fact, the majority of these subjects are even listed as "interests" by the site itself so that people can pick and choose which ones they like. And you get on my case for what...wanting to give a girl a good body and make her a sexual nympho? Pffffffft. You call THAT creepy? That's just every guy's desire from age 15 onwards. *>>Many guys want a girl with a good body, and yes having Your very own nympho is a fantasy* that many guys have. The issue is how You discuss going about it. Instead of finding a woman and developing the kind of relationship in which she will gladly submit to your every whim and desire, you do talk about using artificial (and somewhat not entirely consentual) ways to get there. Getting there IS the point... it isn't just the destination. I can't believe we're even on the same site. Are you sure you're not reading profiles off eHarmony and comparing them to mine? Because that's what it sounds like. You people are sick and revolting. Bunch of fat, old, ugly, degenerate fucks spewing venom at a young guy for having the temerity to ask a simple question. >>Not all of us here fit any of those adjectives, but I can see why it is you are such a commodity with the ladies. Truly, the issue is with your attitude as so clearly demonstrated above.** Dominance need not equal being misogynistic. You don't have to be an asshole to become a Master; most women prefer that to not be the case. I have a Master who I met here. He emailed me within 2 days of joining. Obviously what he did and does, work because over 2 1/2 years later we are still together. He is quite successful with the fairer sex and does not compromise his basic needs or wants. edit: typo

lupineEleven -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 7:23:15 PM)
Using FastReply Huh.. You know, I'm probably fake and all since I don't list that I like black men only, and am probably only moderately pretty, but I gotta say... 1: Those smalltalk emails that you bashed? Those are the only ones I respond to nicely. 2: Your muscles scare the FUCK outta me... 3: Thousands of the male dominants on here are really really creepy - if you have the same stuff as them on your profile, that makes you really really creepy too, just an FYI. 4: While this site IS for sexual connections, it is ALSO for friendships, connecting in non-sexual ways, making friends, and looking for long-term relationships that aren't purely focused on sex, as well as talking on these forums, using chatrooms, and a multitude of other things. It's not JUST a hookup website - best to keep that in mind. 5: Pretend your first contact IS vanilla. I know, it sounds completely crazy, but most people here don't like kink forced upon them from the get-go. People that are here are comprised of a fuckton more than just their kinks and orientations. 6: Some people have personal preferences. Mine is no freaky muscles. Some people like certain colors, some people like certain hair colors, some people like certain body types. If they prefer black guys then just look for a girl who doesn't have a preference in race. I'd probably be able to think of more, but I gotta run and get my butt to work. Hope those pointers help.

Aderious -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 7:27:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aderious Truly, the issue is with your attitude as so clearly demonstrated above. My attitude? Do you realize how many times I was needlessly insulted, attacked and defamed on this thread before I so much as uttered a word in my own defense? I mean, does that even cross your mind? The fact that I'm defending myself from a vicious onslaught involving over a dozen people who, by their tone, clearly hate my guts and think I'm a worthless piece of shit? You do not share their rudeness, which I give you credit for, but if you think my words are unjustified or that I'm the one with an attitude problem, I'm afraid you must be clueless. How on earth do you think you'd react if 20 people started insulting you and giving you totally unsolicited advice which suggested that you were basically worthless? Am I complaining? No. Am I stating a fact and pointing out a gross inconsistency in the standards which you're using to judge my character? Absolutely. I think -- scratch that, I know - that I've composed myself marvelously on this thread. Far better than the vast majority of other people would under similar circumstances. I know for a fact that the majority of you couldn't take what you dish out so readily. It's obvious. That's alright by me, though. I can take it because I am exactly what I claim to be: An intelligent, mature, self-confident male who's comfortable in his own skin.

imperatrixx -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 7:34:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aderious Is this real life? Obvious troll is obvious.

Aderious -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 7:38:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imperatrixx Obvious troll is obvious. Says the guy whose profile contains a smiley graphic and the following sentence: "here for forums only and i probably think you're stupid." You were talking about yourself above, right?

imperatrixx -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 7:39:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aderious Says the guy whose profile contains a smiley graphic and the following sentence: "here for forums only and i probably think you're stupid." Yes. And yes. Is this real life?

Aderious -> RE: White Sub Girls for Black Men Only? (8/19/2011 7:40:10 PM)
I think from now on I might just be "here for the site only".

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