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prostitution/integrity poll


prostitute = no integrity
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no corelation
  85% (76)


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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:40:35 PM   
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we stopped when your arse was spanked soundly buy all 3.
But you really shouldnt believe everything you think, cos its obvious you dont have the capability to admit when you are wrong.bubbye

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:40:44 PM   
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Think he was trying to say those in glass houses shouldn't chuck stones

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:41:40 PM   
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I would really like an "it depends" option, b/c for me the answer to this question is very situational.

If you are known to engage in criminal behavior, highly promiscuous behavior, extreme risk taking behavior (and I would classify prostitution as all three) that does alter my perception of who you are and what you are capable of, although not necessarily in a negative way. *That* depends on the situation.

Unfortunately, most people *do* make stereotypical judgements of others based on very little input. I have been guilty of that myself on this discussion board.

The difference being, I am right about my quick judgements, whereas the rest of you are wrong.









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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:43:39 PM   
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No correlation.

How does sex work disqualify one from having integrity? One is supplying a service, the other is purchasing said service.

Don't worry about the mote in the hooker's eye, worry about the beam in your ( a generic your ) own.

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:43:44 PM   
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The topic of a woman marrying for money, whether it is moral, ethical, showing integrity or lack there of..........well that depends upon the individuals and the conversations they had.

When I was in my mid twenties and a single mother, a business acquaintance of my stepfather pursued me quite heartily for awhile. He said he did not expect me to love him. He simply wanted to marry me and provide quite well for my children and myself. He constantly did everything possible to prove his ability to do so. Showing off his luxurious home on a beautiful large horse farm. Constantly driving a different car from his collection of many. Sending flowers and expensive gifts to me at work. It was very difficult to convince him that was not my goal.

Had that been my goal, given his approach and the conversations that we obviously would have had, I do not see that marrying him for what he was offering would have been wrong. Not within the light that the offer was being presented.

Had it been a different situation........me proclaiming love and devotion because he had those things, lying about my intent, that would have been a huge lack of integrity on my part.


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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:44:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I wish someone would explain to me the difference between a woman who gives it up for an hour for $50 and a woman who gives it up for a lifetime for a nice car and clothes and vacations.


The difference is the latter does not spend time with multiple men and the associated risk of STD's.

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:46:19 PM   
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I would assume then that any woman, whether for money or not, that sleeps with multiple men, you see as lacking integrity. Similarly with men that fuck around.....?

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:47:00 PM   
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quote:

I would really like an "it depends" option, b/c for me the answer to this question is very situational.

Exactly


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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:47:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

on a thread in p&r, someone pointed out that i used to be a prostitute as an argument as to why i was wrong. he then claimed it was to demonstrate that i had no integrity.

i find this very interesting, the idea that prostitution is seen as a sign of a lack of integrity. what do you all think?
hopefully, you'll post your reasoning as well. i'm not going to argue with anybody on this thread.

p.s. please keep in mind, that while prostitution is illegal in almost all of the u.s. it isn't everywhere in the world.



A whore should be judged by the same criteria as other professionals offering services for pay — such as dentists, lawyers, hairdressers, physicians, plumbers, etc. Is she professionally competent? Does she give good measure? Is she honest with her clients?
It is possible that the percentage of honest and competent whores is higher than that of plumbers and much higher than that of lawyers. And enormously higher than that of professors.

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:49:07 PM   
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Gotta love those justifications. 

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:50:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

on a thread in p&r, someone pointed out that i used to be a prostitute as an argument as to why i was wrong. he then claimed it was to demonstrate that i had no integrity.

i find this very interesting, the idea that prostitution is seen as a sign of a lack of integrity. what do you all think?
hopefully, you'll post your reasoning as well. i'm not going to argue with anybody on this thread.

p.s. please keep in mind, that while prostitution is illegal in almost all of the u.s. it isn't everywhere in the world.



A lot of people believe that if you do illegal things, no matter what you are then you have no integrity. Stealing, prostituting, fraud or selling drugs. If its illegal you have no integrity. I don't necessarily share it. I take it on a case by case basis.

I seem remember you seem to dislike men that see prostitutes. Being that its a transaction between both parties, if one is a piece of shit then so is the other. Most people tend to see both participants in the same light. It's legal in some parts of Vegas so the attitude towards both is likely different there.


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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:50:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aylee


quote:

ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

on a thread in p&r, someone pointed out that i used to be a prostitute as an argument as to why i was wrong. he then claimed it was to demonstrate that i had no integrity.

i find this very interesting, the idea that prostitution is seen as a sign of a lack of integrity. what do you all think?
hopefully, you'll post your reasoning as well. i'm not going to argue with anybody on this thread.

p.s. please keep in mind, that while prostitution is illegal in almost all of the u.s. it isn't everywhere in the world.



A whore should be judged by the same criteria as other professionals offering services for pay — such as dentists, lawyers, hairdressers, physicians, plumbers, etc. Is she professionally competent? Does she give good measure? Is she honest with her clients?
It is possible that the percentage of honest and competent whores is higher than that of plumbers and much higher than that of lawyers. And enormously higher than that of professors.

~ Robert Heinlein

at least double that of politicians.

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:52:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

on a thread in p&r, someone pointed out that i used to be a prostitute as an argument as to why i was wrong. he then claimed it was to demonstrate that i had no integrity.

i find this very interesting, the idea that prostitution is seen as a sign of a lack of integrity. what do you all think?
hopefully, you'll post your reasoning as well. i'm not going to argue with anybody on this thread.

p.s. please keep in mind, that while prostitution is illegal in almost all of the u.s. it isn't everywhere in the world.



You're kidding, whoever came up with some BS like that should sell it and fertilize fields....

It's legal in most European countries (can't think of one off the top of my head now where it isn't - Turkey maybe), where is there a correlation between a lack of integrity? It seems to be pretty straight forward, somebody pays money and gets sex for it, both parties are happy. More honest and greater integrity than somebody who marries and then doesn't put out until she gets the new fur coat or whatever, at least the prostitute makes no pretense what it's all about.

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:52:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I would assume then that any woman, whether for money or not, that sleeps with multiple men, you see as lacking integrity. Similarly with men that fuck around.....?


I didn't say a word about integrity.

I am talking about common sense safety.

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:52:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

I would really like an "it depends" option, b/c for me the answer to this question is very situational.


Ditto that. 
 
I got around the issue by basing my answer solely on the act of trading money for sexual favors and disregarding the concurrent issues.

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:53:17 PM   
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RML so married women dont have STD's??
I heartily disagree
mind you when I was doing the statistics it was a lot to do with the hubby passing them on, but that was a few years ago(omg 25year, sheeit).


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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:54:39 PM   
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I seem remember you seem to dislike men that see prostitutes. Being that its a transaction between both parties, if one is a piece of shit then so is the other.

*cough*


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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:56:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I would assume then that any woman, whether for money or not, that sleeps with multiple men, you see as lacking integrity. Similarly with men that fuck around.....?


I didn't say a word about integrity.

I am talking about common sense safety.



You know if my other half should stray, I'd be less worried about safety if it was a prostitute because those girls take care about their health and won't fuck you without a condom, the girl you pick up in the bar and have a drunken shag with, do you think she's as concerned about safety?

When I worked in the music business the record companies and tour managers often hired "paid companions" for the musicians, for several reasons, one is that they don't have to worry that the musician might have to cancel the tour because he's got some STD....

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 1:57:55 PM   
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I can't vote in your poll, Hannah.  If I had no other option but prostitution to feed My child who was starving at home, I probably wouldn't question My integrity about it.  I'd be going with the lesser of two evils.

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RE: prostitution/integrity poll - 8/18/2011 2:00:58 PM   
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Why the hating on sex workers?

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