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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 1:13:38 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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I joined almost 3 yrs ago under my original nic because it was suggested by an ex-Dom.  CM outlasted him too.  I started on Fet, heard the "horror" stories about CM and was hesitant to join.  I didn't start really chatting until about a year and a half ago, and I've stuck to this side mostly.  I did meet someone on the other side about a month ago, seems like the real deal, we've been chatting online and exchanging phone calls almost every night.  Hopefully this time it works out.  Never thought I'd meet someone from the CM side though, not after all he duds.   

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 1:42:31 PM   
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A submissive friend of mine on the East Coast told me about CM so I could follow her journal. Soon after though, she got in trouble with her Dom husband and he punished her by making her delete her journal. But already for me the damage was done. (And as a p.s., that relationship didn't last.)

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 1:50:45 PM   
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I was on bondage.com and then everyone was talking about the "rival website" that everyone was switching to....that was like over 10 years ago or more. I switched between the two till eventually b.com became desolate and then I met Master on this site and just never seemed to find a reason to ever switch back to b.com.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 1:58:30 PM   
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I knew about the site long before I joined. Years ago someone brought it up at a party. Once a friend suggested I join. A couple of years ago a pet was a memeber. This time it was a friend that pointed out something of interest to me that I just felt I had to take a look at.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 2:02:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: windchymes


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I was never a chat room maven. Five minutes, and I was done!


Oh man, back in the day, I sure was, lol. I didn't get a computer until 1998, so I was a latecomer, and found the chat rooms sooooo fascinating, talking to people from all over the world, etc. Now looking back, it seems pretty juvenile, but I had a blast then. I still have a couple friends that I touch base with occasionally that I met in Yahoo chat. That heyday lasted about a year, and then Yahoo chat really went downhill. Went to MSN chat for about another year, then they wanted to charge.....then I spent a lot of time in Literotica chat....

No more of that, I live in the real world now, lol.



I have to admit I had my late nineties early two thousands.......moment of chat frenzy. I got online the very same year, 1998. I was completely fascinated!



We should share old screen names, in private, of course. Maybe we bumped into each other back then!

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 2:26:32 PM   
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I was either loved or hated there also........only usually in the all female chat room. The mixed were just too annoying for me.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 4:58:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I was either loved or hated there also........only usually in the all female chat room. The mixed were just too annoying for me.


I was a chat room junky back then, too. Probably mostly hated since I was quite the drama queen.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 5:48:26 PM   
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I remember when I got my first computer back in about 1996, I'd heard about these chat rooms, so I went into a couple of them & pretended to be someone I wasn't. I got bored really quickly. LOL I've never really enjoyed them, even when I was being me. Too much going on, too chaotic for me. Although I did go into one in about 2006 & met a guy from Chicago & ended up meeting him once. That was kinda fun.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 6:16:45 PM   
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When I first discovered the yahoo chat rooms, it was through a friend of mine from work.  I got addicted and used to spend hours between 2 of them.  It got so bad at one point, by this time I was on LTD from work for the depression I was in there for up to 20 hrs a day.  I suffered from a bad case of insomnia and was lucky to get 2-3 hrs sleep every few days.  Used to cam with friends, and I'd literally fall asleep in my chair.  They'd be screaming at me through my headset but there was no waking me up for those few hours I'd passed out.  It got to be a joke.  I also wasn't allowed to use hands free thru the room because I'd be giggling my fool head off at something silly and keep everyone else off the mic. 

I finally got to a point one day where I said enough and just shut down my pc for 6 months solid.  Not even to play my favorite CD games.  I knew if I turned it on, I'd go right back to where I'd been, and that was not a good place for me or my head.  They've now shut down the personal chat rooms after Yahoo was sued by Pepsi for their advert appearing in a personal chatroom that had an illegal title about daddies and their, well, not their grown children.  Cost them millions.


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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 7:37:13 PM   
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Truth be told, I don't remember how I found this site....stumbled across it somewhere.  I am on alt and used to be on bondage, but they want $$$ for their site, waaaaaay too much money......and this place is so much better.  I've met some total duds and skanks here, but for the most part, I've been pretty lucky in the selection of friends I've made.  I hang out on the boards, don't spend much time on the other side....most who contact me aren't even close to what my profile specifies.

I lurked around the boards for about 6-7 months before I started posting.  I've learned more from the folks here than I have pretty much anyplace not real life.  And I like the usual cast of characters that hang out here......good for a laugh when I really need one! 

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 7:38:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

Never thought I'd meet someone from the CM side though, not after all he duds.

Freudian slip?

Firm


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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 8:02:37 PM   
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A riding partner of mine sent me to check it out in, I think in 2004.....

My nic back then was ride to play or something like that.

Every now and then I take a hiatus, reinvent myself and return...........

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/19/2011 8:10:53 PM   
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ok I feel old. I was a regular on bdsm usenet channels and bondage.net mirc channels for years probably starting back in like 1995 or 96..don't remember the exact year.



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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/20/2011 5:52:41 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet

I was curious how others found out about CM. I know the most obvious answer is going to be Google, but there have to be some better stories than that. Myself, I was told to join by this wannabe Dom I was seeing, who though I should "educate" myself about the mysterious ways of BDSM. Joke was on him, I educated myself enough to know he needed to be kicked to the curb. What's your excuse?


The same thing happened to me only with Alt. I came to CM after a friend of mine on Alt told me that there was a Dom here I simple HAD to check out. Never did find him but I ended up addicted to the forums.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/20/2011 6:02:30 AM   
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quote:

We should share old screen names, in private, of course. Maybe we bumped into each other back then!


Given how many people have been on Alt, I wonder how many of you and I used to chat there.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/20/2011 6:33:18 AM   
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It is likely. IF I remember correctly I had created a name out of two of my dogs, at the time, names. Molly our old black lab and Bella, one of the best dogs I've ever had. And Mabella was born. I am not even sure but that the account still exists.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/20/2011 6:34:08 AM   
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Does anyone remember yahoo pool?
I used to create and maintain web pages for quite a few of the leagues,
and there was one gentlemen who ran one of the leagues that linked me here.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/20/2011 6:53:40 AM   
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I never got involved in the yahoo chat room really. I've always used that for more personal communication. Friends and family type thing. More like, instant email or another version of texting from my desktop.

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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/20/2011 7:11:32 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY
quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear
Never thought I'd meet someone from the CM side though, not after all he duds.

Freudian slip?

Firm

Oopsie?   And I always make sure to read before I post, missed that one by a looooooooooong mile.


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RE: What's a nice girl/guy like you doing on a place li... - 8/20/2011 7:12:52 AM   
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I have no idea.

I will swear that a woman I was chatting with suggested I try it.  A couple of years later I mentioned the site and she said she'd never heard of it.


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