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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

You may have escaped the notice of the Admins before, but I'm willing to wager you're about to get more attention than you'd like.  I see [Awaiting Approval] in your future. 

I don't think so. 

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ORIGINAL: tj444

I am a fake.. That is not my tit in my avatar and not my mouse neither..

And i am posing as a 90 year old female..

I is a.. FAKE!..


Geeze, this is the internet,.. I dont think there is one person in the world that has not lied about something at some point on the internet..
How many people tell lies in real life?
"yes, mom, your meatloaf tastes great"
"Yes, I love you" (as he removes your panties)
"its not you, its me"
"Honest officer, I was speeding because the hospital needs my kidney"
.. and so on..

Don't sweat the small stuff.. life is too short!

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You have heard the allegations of people being called sock puppets and the vitriol that allegation evokes either from the alleging party or the alleged.

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ORIGINAL: lockedaway
TJ...if a person is representing themselves falsely, I couldn't care less providing the falsehood doesn't impact on another person.  That is a meaningless act of fraud.  So if a person....male or female....puts up a profile that says "18 year old, blonde, 28, 18, 26, loves to suck cock more than anything in the world except when she is eating pussy, into bondage, caging, and everything else...BUT I'M ONLY HERE FOR THE BOARDS"  who gives a fuck?  Right?

By the same token, someone runs a profile....a man, let's say.  He is posing as a woman.  He is offering dominance, love, possession, eroticism and more.  He carries this fraud on through a dozen e mails and then suckers someone into sending $20.00 to their paypal account before talking on the phone and then they vanish.  Do you think that is a good thing?  And do you think that warning about someone doing that is a bad thing?  Do you think that preying on someone's emotions in order to get a little cash is............fair?

Now...let's talk about fakes on this board.  You have heard the allegations of people being called sock puppets and the vitriol that allegation evokes either from the alleging party or the alleged.  So it isn't that being a fake is a "good thing"...right?  Why should people get pissed off at an alleged sock puppet and NOT GET PISSED OFF over someone falsely offering love to get money? 

I don't understand.  Tell me your thoughts.

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ORIGINAL: Manipulatrix

I do see your point. It makes sense. I guess I'll just have to learn to deal with it and accept that it's an annoying reality of this site... Or just leave.

KEEP OUTING THE FAKES!!!  You are doing a public service!  Look...there are men posing as women, wasting your time.  There are women posing as women other than who they are (personal experience talking here....50 year old woman posing as 30 year old woman looking for a sub for a LTR), there are people posing as whatever to lure the unsuspecting, forlorn and desperate to pay to PayPal or log onto NightFlirt or whatever.  The fact of the matter is that the fakes are either using up your time or attempting to scam or just trying to bump up the population of the site for obvious reasons.  All of it, operates against your interests.  What did Ben Franklin say about Time?

Dost thou value life?
Then do not waste time
for that is the stuff of which life is made.

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: Manipulatrix

I do see your point. It makes sense. I guess I'll just have to learn to deal with it and accept that it's an annoying reality of this site... Or just leave.

KEEP OUTING THE FAKES!!!  You are doing a public service!  Look...there are men posing as women, wasting your time.  There are women posing as women other than who they are (personal experience talking here....50 year old woman posing as 30 year old woman looking for a sub for a LTR), there are people posing as whatever to lure the unsuspecting, forlorn and desperate to pay to PayPal or log onto NightFlirt or whatever.  The fact of the matter is that the fakes are either using up your time or attempting to scam or just trying to bump up the population of the site for obvious reasons.  All of it, operates against your interests.  What did Ben Franklin say about Time?

Dost thou value life?
Then do not waste time
for that is the stuff of which life is made.

Oh get off it, I recently had a long conversation with girls who have been jerked around like crazy by "subs", they want verification through NiteFirt. It doesn't cost a thing, in fact if you sign up you get free minutes, then the girl can send you free minutes too. The reason WHY they do that is because it's too damned easy to get a new Skype ID, a new mobile number or a new CM ID, with NF you have to verify that you are over 18 by giving a credit card number, most people don't have unlimited credit cards, plus should really be something happening, it's easier to trace the person.

Me, I take the easy way, I don't go out of my way to meet somebody, you can jump through a bunch of hoops and be somewhere where it's easy to meet you in a neutral place, a munch or so - guess how many guys don't want to do that, funny, if they are so honest, how come they don't want to meet at a munch?

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Is warning about that bad also?

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ORIGINAL: lockedaway


I haven't gotten that far into NiteFlirt but when it asks for a credit card number, I'm generally done with it.  I shouldn't have to give those details out especially when I'm giving a cell phone number and can verify my identity beyond all doubt with an e mail address.  I have no problem meeting at munches.  I have met a few Dommes from CM who are from NY in the lobby of the Algonquin hotel--a very public place.

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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I haven't gotten that far into NiteFlirt but when it asks for a credit card number, I'm generally done with it.  I shouldn't have to give those details out especially when I'm giving a cell phone number and can verify my identity beyond all doubt with an e mail address.  I have no problem meeting at munches.  I have met a few Dommes from CM who are from NY in the lobby of the Algonquin hotel--a very public place.

And you can ditch a cell phone and buy a new one and play that game over and over again, and you can get as many emails as you want on the net, getting a new credit card is a bit harder, especially when you just want to mess with somebody. Women get as much burned as guys. One of the reasons why I really don't go out of my way to meet anybody, it has to suit me because there are enough time wasters.

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ORIGINAL: lockedaway

They probably only do fall for it once, but, in my opinion, pointing out to other members on the site that someone is engaged in that is a public service announcement.  What if the person was dangerous; they were abusive or did not honor safewords?  Is warning about that bad also? 

We have a difference of opinion but when someone is trying to mislead people to their detriment, I see nothing wrong with pointing that out to the general public of this cite.

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ORIGINAL: tj444

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They probably only do fall for it once, but, in my opinion, pointing out to other members on the site that someone is engaged in that is a public service announcement.  What if the person was dangerous; they were abusive or did not honor safewords?  Is warning about that bad also? 

We have a difference of opinion but when someone is trying to mislead people to their detriment, I see nothing wrong with pointing that out to the general public of this cite.

That is life, it can happen with someone you met at work, someone that stops to help fix your flat tire, or you met at a seminar or could be a neighbour or relative... Whenever you meet anyone, even someone than you might know fairly well, you put yourself at risk.. That is what date or acquaintance rape is about, trusting someone that wasnt trustworthy and used your trust in them against you.. and if what they did was a crime, then they should be reported to the police.. If you papered the nieghbourhood and were naming someone with claims you could not actually prove, it would be you that would be in trouble and possibly sued, correct?

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NF, just ask them to send you free minutes