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Pyramus -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 5:12:35 PM)
How does this consensus look? About women: * Everyone is different ... * It's like being flashed by a bum in an alley in the middle of a heroin puke * [women] want to find out what's going on in the big head ... before ... the little head. * [women] like to get to know the man behind the cock before [they] worship the member. * [women] don't care what [a man's] cock looks like if [they're] not interested in the man first. * [women need men] to get them to engage their brain * Some [penises] are just, not just no, but HELL no; others are delightful to look at * unless [women are] interested in the [man, they] really don't need to see [his penis] * [women] don't want it in a picture, [women] don't want it on cam. * If [women] don't feel and have a connection to the man, then it's just dangly bits * body parts do not a [man] make * Show women a dick, they think you're a dick. About men: * Everyone is different ... * perhaps [men] do not think it would be rude for sally to greet you vagina first at the coffee shop. * [men] love pics of women's breasts, faces, and hair. Not so much pussies. * the female body is ... beautiful ... the female pussy is ... an exception to that * [female pussy lips] open up like a flower * [men] love women and their bodies.. ... but ... the vagina [is] one ugly mug * [men] are turned on by visual stuff Note: All agree I missed the big O in clitOris!

lizi -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 5:13:58 PM)
It gets tiring having men keep insisting that because they find an activity enjoyable that means women should enjoy it too. So you've encountered a lot of women who don't like dick pictures from strangers - instead of questioning that I think more men should take it to heart and they might find a woman. Sending junk pictures or posting them is invasive, it's assumptive, it's arrogant, it's stupid. The biggest thing is that it says you are mainly interested in sex - at that point I could care less who you are anymore. Like many women I lack interest in seeing strange penises. If that penis is attached to someone I choose to be naked with then I find it endlessly fascinating and I can't get enough of seeing it.

LadyPact -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 5:33:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ricken Don't take what MSLA says too hard, some of us take longer to find this stuff out than others. Look, I'm as gracious as the next gal, but if we really have to explain this to a forty-five year old, it's really slowing down the learning curve.

PeonForHer -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 5:49:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam I gotta disagree with you and steve there roch. The way those delicate folds open up like a flower......................siiiiiiiiiiiigh. With you on their attractiveness, could feast my eyes on them forever. But . . . I'd choose a kind of aggressive simile rather than a flowery one. Struggling to think of just the right one, though, admittedly . . . .

PeonForHer -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 5:58:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Look, I'm as gracious as the next gal, but if we really have to explain this to a forty-five year old, it's really slowing down the learning curve. I'd hazard a guess that the OP is like most of us: we know that there's a difference, but can't put our fingers on why there is a difference. I still haven't sent anyone a dick-pic. Maybe I'll send one to myself to see what I think. (Whoa - I'm already giving myself a woody at the thought!)

stoni23 -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 6:18:03 PM)
why is their a difference? Easy. Most guys think sexually and focus on the physical, most women focus on the personality and the emotional. A man looks at a woman and looks at her face, boobs, ass. A woman looks at a man, and sees how he reacts to her, looks into his eyes. Since I have to over-clarify everything or else I'll be picked apart Do women not look at physical? lol... NO. Of course the physical matters, men are just more focused on it then women. Does everybody fit into the categories I displayed above? NO, as always, there are exceptions to the rule.

tj444 -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 6:21:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyramus What is it, really, that is SO VERY DIFFERENT about women, in general in this regard? Can't speak for all women, just myself.. a cock shot in a profile or emailed way too early makes me cringe, it makes me think the guy just wants to get laid.. not what i am looking for.. But, should there be a guy that i am compatible with that i am reasonably attracted to.. i want to know what his cock looks like. Imo, there are some dam ugly cocks out there,.. (shudder) ... seen waaaay too hairy, curved way too much, too big, too small, and i do prefer circumcised.. so if the cock doesnt look appealing to me, its deal breaker... I like a nice looking cock.. and i am sooooo sorry but i have a friggin beautiful pussy, been told she smells and tastes good.. i could not be with a guy that didnt feel that way about her too.. any guy that doesnt love the way my pussy looks, well, then ya definately wont be invited in!!!!

HannahLynHeather -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 6:40:05 PM)
quote: but can't put our fingers on why there is a difference. i can tell you why. i've seen more than my share of cocks and they come in two varieties. fugly and ho-hum. a cock is pretty much a cock. i don't mind fucking or sucking one now and then, but buggered if i want to spend any substantial amount of time looking at one. they just aren't that aesthetically appealing, they actually look pretty fucking ridiculous. have you ever really looked at your junk, i mean really look at it? you guys really should be fucking glad we don't giggle when you drop your gaunchies.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 6:46:22 PM)
quote: men are just more focused on it then women. that's so fucking true, that's why there's no women on here who's mouths water every time they see peon's avatar. [8\|] women are just as physically visually oriented, it' just not your fucking package we look at.

LadyPact -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 6:47:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I'd hazard a guess that the OP is like most of us: we know that there's a difference, but can't put our fingers on why there is a difference. I still haven't sent anyone a dick-pic. Maybe I'll send one to myself to see what I think. (Whoa - I'm already giving myself a woody at the thought!) Holy poop on a stick! Do you realize it's been damn near three years since we started joking about the pic you've been supposed to send to Me? If that doesn't bring you a good laugh, it should. [;)]

littlewonder -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:01:30 PM)
The only time I care what a cock looks like is when I'm in the process of building a relationship with him. Until that point, no...I don't care and don't want to see it.

Endivius -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:03:54 PM)
Getting back to the OP, Human beings are visual creatures. That's reality. Men are more visually interested in mere appearance, women tend to me more visually interested in a man's confidence and how he carrys himself. While this might spark an instant lusty response, it does not inherently define attraction. So to answer the ops very bizare question, the answer should be obvious, women are far less interested in the size/shape/color of a penis than the person it belongs to. I tend to believe truely confident men do not need to rely on a picture of thier penis in order to attract women. They know who they are, are confident with themselves and thier ideals and beliefs, and women pick up on that confidence and are naturally drawn to it.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:06:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyramus Note: All agree I missed the big O in clitOris! That's what she said... [sm=oops.gif] [sm=doh.gif]

HannahLynHeather -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:30:57 PM)
quote: women pick up on that confidence and are naturally drawn to it. sounds very erudite, but it's broad shoulders and a tight butt that i'm drawn to. naturally drawn to it! [8\|] i swear by joshua's chapped lips, where the fuck do you guys get these bizarre fucking ideas? how the hell do you guys ever get laid?

0ldhen -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:34:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Read this: http://www.collarchat.com/m_100186/mpage_1/key_stupid%252Cchicken%252Cdance/tm.htm#100186 Thus endeth the lesson. THAT was simply awesome!

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:37:16 PM)
Ditto on what ChickiePoo said.

peppermint -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:51:40 PM)
When I am in chat I am often asked if I want the honor of looking at some guy's dick. I have a copy and paste I keep handy for rude crude asswipes such as these. You see, why would I be bothered to look at some ugly bits when he can't be bothered to even appear to be interested in getting to know me? Apparently many males are only interested in showing off something they did not earn but got as a crap shoot of genetics. So, here is my copy and paste. "Take a shower, use some deodorant. Some day you might get close enough to a real live woman to have an encounter that will not require the use of your poor sore hand and a cam."

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:53:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam I gotta disagree with you and steve there roch. The way those delicate folds open up like a flower......................siiiiiiiiiiiigh. With you on their attractiveness, could feast my eyes on them forever. But . . . I'd choose a kind of aggressive simile rather than a flowery one. Struggling to think of just the right one, though, admittedly . . . . You could split the difference and liken it to a Venus Flytrap...that's sorta flowery AND aggressive.

sexyred1 -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 7:55:59 PM)
Women are as equally interested in the physical as men are...however we are much more subtle about it. When I see a really hot guy, I almost never imagine his cock. I am looking at his face, shoulders, arms, chest, eyes, smile, teeth, hair, butt, legs, etc. I look at how he carries himself; how he treats people, how he looks at me. Then I talk to him. I see if we are intellectually compatible; have common interests, if we have chemistry, if he makes me laugh. I may be very attracted to him, but I still do not want to see his cock. I know it's there, waiting. Only when I feel that total connection and after I have kissed him, do I start to imagine the cock. Once involved, I have been known to get obsessed with it. :) Do I want to see a stranger's disembodied cock? Oh hell no. It turns me right off.

Blankpain -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/25/2011 10:32:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Endivius the answer should be obvious, women are far less interested in the size/shape/color of a penis than the person it belongs to. Well I think a cock is fascinatingly interesting. Especially tied to a leash and led around by tugging. Every cock handles pain differently. Every one fascinating to watch go blue!

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