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Lookinforyou -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 3:06:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Aresidora

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Some women have larger labia and it does not correlate to being "used up". That is such poppycock.



Sorry not trying to be insulting or too graphic of the nasty, but larger labia is NOT what I am talking about. With larger labia as stated I like to use mouse traps for retraction. When I said used up, I mean when things that were once inside are now hanging out. Or when inner labia have been stretched by weights so frequently that they hang an inch past the outter labia normally (wince and shutter).
Smooth tissue is the fastest healing part of the entire body, try not to ruin such a pretty picture with heavy weights on a constant basis. Please give the kitties some bounce back time.



You have just proven you don't know shit about female anatomy.
Large inner libia have got nothing to do with stretching, weights or being "used up".

My inner libia have always extended beyond the outer labia, even before I reached puberty. They grew even more when puberty hit and now both reach a fair amount past the outer labia, though they are not both the same length.

Weights, clamps or stretching has NEVER touched my pussy in any way shape or form, it is a genetic predisposition that causes their length.

It's a rather common occurrence in women, and the fart that you equate it with "being used up" just means that you're an ignorant dips hit who doesn't know what women's genitalia are supposed to look like.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 3:12:18 PM)

Larger labia? More to play with.

Of course, being female I am so less interested in the size of the vagina itself. I'm all about the looks of the labia and what I can do with them.

Torture sounds good, bigger says easier target. What's not to love?






ricken -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 3:27:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

one of these days, guys will figure out that we (in general) don't think like them. =p

i mean, i guess that's why guys put full-body nude photos on their profiles; because that's what they want to see, and they assume we want to see it, too.
not so.



It takes alot of us a long time to figure that out stuff about ladies, thats why there are so many books written about communication between men and women. And actually I think I finally get it now that I'm older, "IT" being...I'll just never understand women.

And I had some time to think alittle more if things where reversed, like IF random women sent me pics of their body parts how would I feel.
Mixed....OH HELL YEAH I WOULD LOOK. But I would think "what type of goof does this? I probably wouldn't respond to any of the emails/texts.

Actually I find eyes to be extreamly sexy in real like, and there is one profile that pops up alot when I sign in it just a pic of her eyes, they are very sexy and I wonder what the rest of her looks like....I probably wouldn't remember her as much if she just had a set of tits showin....




Tantriqu -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 3:33:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: lizi
Yeah, I figured out who it was immediately like Poise did. You are a strange woman with a very strange outlook on life, it's no wonder that you keep making new profiles to try to find someone, because I imagine when the new prospects get to know what you're like they start running.

Oh, lizi, it's going to get even better.  Just wait for this incarnation to have one word to say about pro dommes the way the last screen name did.  Of course, that was before the last screen name chose to put up her own ad on the "Professional Services" forum.

Thanks for the translation, ladies!




poise -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 4:22:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ricken
And I had some time to think little more if things where reversed, like IF random women sent me pics of
their body parts how would I feel. Mixed....OH HELL YEAH I WOULD LOOK.
But I would think "what type of goof does this? I probably wouldn't respond
to any of the emails/texts.


Thank you for adding this clarification, Ricken. I often wondered how men
would respond in that exact situation, regardless of the pussys' allure.

For me, an unsolicited peek at ones package is a huge turn off.
Call me old fashioned, but I much prefer to be seduced into wanting to see it.




Arpig -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 7:20:18 PM)

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I'll just never understand women.
I have trouble wrapping my head around that statement/attitude every time I read it or hear it. I got interested on girls around age 12 or 13, I found them confusing for about 6 months, then I figured them out. It was ridiculously easy.

First and foremost a woman is a person. And just like every other person who has ever lived or ever will, she is unlike any other person.

Keep that in mind and deal with them accordingly and you should have no problems.




Arpig -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 7:21:42 PM)

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I often wondered how men
would respond in that exact situation, regardless of the pussys' allure.
Download the picture and ask for more...how else?




poise -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 7:40:41 PM)

If I were to ever participate in that phenomenon.
I'd be sure to pose in these panties, just for you.
All hail The Pig! [;)]
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0ldhen -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 8:15:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: lizi
Yeah, I figured out who it was immediately like Poise did. You are a strange woman with a very strange outlook on life, it's no wonder that you keep making new profiles to try to find someone, because I imagine when the new prospects get to know what you're like they start running.

Oh, lizi, it's going to get even better.  Just wait for this incarnation to have one word to say about pro dommes the way the last screen name did.  Of course, that was before the last screen name chose to put up her own ad on the "Professional Services" forum.




I have to admit, when I saw that ad, I almost ran my own that said "Click here for free help recovering from the help you received from ........". And ya have to pay for that afore mentioned service...shudders.....




Endivius -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 9:40:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ricken

It takes alot of us a long time to figure that out stuff about ladies, thats why there are so many books written about communication between men and women. And actually I think I finally get it now that I'm older, "IT" being...I'll just never understand women.

And I had some time to think alittle more if things where reversed, like IF random women sent me pics of their body parts how would I feel.
Mixed....OH HELL YEAH I WOULD LOOK. But I would think "what type of goof does this? I probably wouldn't respond to any of the emails/texts.

Actually I find eyes to be extreamly sexy in real like, and there is one profile that pops up alot when I sign in it just a pic of her eyes, they are very sexy and I wonder what the rest of her looks like....I probably wouldn't remember her as much if she just had a set of tits showin....




This was an intersting correlation when I read it. I would have to agree, that having women send random pics of thier parts would really do nothing for me. I'm not particularly interested in a singular part of a woman's body but rather the whole thing. There are indeed certain things that I find to be seductive, such as facial certain expressions, or a certain pose, but shots of a woman's vagina really doesnt do anything for me. I'd much rather look at her ass and thighs than a pic of her pussy. Clothes or no clothes, a woman's body as a whole is far more alluring than pics of her breasts or pussy. I am not sure if we are in the minority though ricken.







Edited kuz i speel gud.




SweetDommes -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/26/2011 9:50:33 PM)

Fast reply

Sorry, I'm not reading all the replies, but the ones I've read so far, I mostly agree with.

My personal opinion is stated somewhere in my journal on the other side of the site. Something to the effect of:
On a site like this, you have to do something to stand out ... something to "put your best foot forward" so to speak. If showing off your dick is what you consider to be "putting your best foot forward" then you aren't someone I'd be interested in talking to, and you probably need a social skills refresher course.




HeatherMcLeather -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 12:18:36 AM)

I can understand how a guy might think sending a shot of his cock to a straight or even bi girl might be an effective lure, but how on earth would a guy think it would be a useful thing to send to a lesbian?
Why?
How?

WTF???

I'm gay, I don't like cocks, why show me yours?

This has me seriously confused.

And pissed off. They are not only unwanted, they are distressing. The only cock I have interacted with was forced on me, I really resent these men doing the same, forcing their ugly penii on me. It is, to me, a form of visual rape.




sheisreeds -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 3:23:14 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Aresidora

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Some women have larger labia and it does not correlate to being "used up". That is such poppycock.



Sorry not trying to be insulting or too graphic of the nasty, but larger labia is NOT what I am talking about. With larger labia as stated I like to use mouse traps for retraction. When I said used up, I mean when things that were once inside are now hanging out. Or when inner labia have been stretched by weights so frequently that they hang an inch past the outter labia normally (wince and shutter).
Smooth tissue is the fastest healing part of the entire body, try not to ruin such a pretty picture with heavy weights on a constant basis. Please give the kitties some bounce back time.



*raises hand* One side of my inner labia was stretched unintentionally during play, thankfully not an inch though. Our vaginas come in all sorts of varieties ;) but there is some validity to this statement. Stretching can also be quite permanent, mine has been that way for 10 years.

It should also be said, no one has ever complained about my stretched labia, if anything most partners have found it a turn on, just as my other signs of rough play all over my body.





JstAnotherSub -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 5:56:14 AM)

fast reply

The only time I want to look at a dick is when I am about to wrap my lips around it. Otherwise, yuck.




pompeii -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 11:48:55 AM)

> if things where reversed, like IF random women sent me pics of their body parts how would I feel.

Ah! Just think about the possibilities.

Women cover their faces and their bodies, leaving tits, ass, and pussy only to show.

We go about our work day. Leave the house just as the easily recognized slightly lopsided white'ish tits of the Polish postal lady arrives with the mail. Start the car and wave to the Irish neighbor's bright red glaring freckled pussy. Drive down the street, stopping at the crosswalk long enough for all the unknown busy buns to cross. Pull up to the local donut shop for a quick coffee & snack. Entering, you instantly notice a distinctly new pussy at the corner table, sitting there alone, clicking away on a portable PC, and then, in front of you, your eyes behold, unexpectedly, a wholly different set of perky tits at the counter.

Pleasantly surprised, you instinctively inquire about where the perky tits of the old-timer with the bejeweled pussy was; the answer comes back that she's on vacation for two weeks ... so you vow to soon get to know the new perky titties behind the counter better, with a smile, as you sit down next to the new pussy at the table and engage in your normal small talk friendly banter, typing away at your iPhone to answer the boss titties quick mail about where you are on the morning of the important meeting.

Absorbed in your typing, you belatedly glance over to the newly seated pussy, losing your train of thought only for a moment as the length of her pussy lips registers on your brain, and then back to typing away you go. The newly appreciated pussy, who seems to know you so she must have been there before, taps you on the cock and points wordlessly to the clock, causing you to notice it's getting near 10am, which is your normal leaving time. You thank and then apologize to the new pussy that you didn't get a chance to talk much to her and, fumbling with your business card, you stammer out a request for her number. She hands it to you, already prepared, as her titties swing invitingly toward you in an overt gesture of appreciation for having actually noticed her pussy, which she had prepared all morning for you to see when you had arrived, all unbeknownst to you beforehand. (Note: She explained this all later, at the meeting on the beach.)

The newly exciting pussy at the table now stands invitingly as she waves you out the door promising to be there at the beach later tonight, being Friday and all that, while, simultaneously, the new perky titties at the counter thank you for the tip you always leave.

Out of the parking lot and off to work you go, arriving at the office just as the bosses mean-ass pussy looms over your desk looking for you. You remind yourself that she's just a big hairy pussy - and that she doesn't own you after hours as you hunker down to your day's effort. After she gruffly reminds you of what is due today, you're working feverishly for the 1pm deadline with the Marketing Pussies ... later ... time seems to fly ... and you're making good progress ... later you take the luxury of a 5-minute break at the cooler to discuss the day's events with the few friendly regular titties and pussies that you've come to know well, over time. Back at work, you finish, skipping lunch, as the young secretarial pussies all stop by to ask when they can collate and distribute. You tell them you'll do that yourself, thank you ... as you're working up to the wire, as you are wont to do on important deadlines.

You finish, finally, just in time for the 1pm meeting, where, characteristically, they're all asses no matter what you prepared; but you know how to work them so you're relieved when your boss' pussy takes over the comments; and, her large nipples stand out as she handles question after question aimed at her from around the table. All the tits finally nod in agreement, and the meeting ends ... where you immediately head out to the gym for an hour of relaxation amongst the jiggling titties, cycling pussies, and stretching derrières.

Over time, you've honed your skill at recognizing people, not only from the daily view of their titties and pussies - but also from the correlation of their voices. So, it's not surprising that, back at your desk for a final wrap up, as a pleasant phone call comes late in the day from a new customer of yours, you start to imagine, from her voice alone, what her tittles are like, thinking wistfully that they're usually perkier on the higher-frequency voices and wider at the base for the deeper voices - but that it's not a hard-and-fast rule for titties as it is for pussies.

The bell rings, and then it's off to the beach for the 5pm rush - over the tit-shaped mountains - and onto the boardwalk by the pussy shaped inlet, where you stroll leisurely among the myriad pussies and titties in the crowd, looking for that now familiar newly friendly pussy of yours who said she'd meet you at 5:30pm sharp. You can almost smell her scent as she arrives, still mixed sweetly with the browned donut grease flavor, as she spreads her legs invitingly when you hug her in greeting, and, best of all, she begins opening her blouse wide in appreciation for your expected continued friendship together.





lizi -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 12:03:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pompeii

> if things where reversed, like IF random women sent me pics of their body parts how would I feel.

Ah! Just think about the possibilities.

Women cover their faces and their bodies, leaving tits, ass, and pussy only to show.

We go about our work day. Leave the house just as the easily recognized slightly lopsided tits of the Polish postal lady arrives with the mail. Start the car and wave to the Irish neighbor's bright red glaring pussy. Drive down the street, stopping at the crosswalk long enough for all the unknown buns to cross. Pull up to the local donut shop for a quick coffee & snack. Entering, you notice a distinctly new pussy at the corner table, sitting there alone, and a wholly different set of perky tits at the counter. Pleasantly you inquire the perky tits where'd the old-timer with the bejeweled pussy was; the answer comes back that she's on vacation ... so you vow to get to know the perky titties behind the counter better, with a smile, as you sit down next to the new pussy at the table and engage in your normal small talk friendly banter.

You look up from the newly appreciated pussy to notice it's getting near 10am so you apologize to the new pussy for cutting the interesting conversation short and ask for her number as you fumble with your business card. She hands it to you, already prepared, as her titties swing slightly toward you in a gesture of appreciation for having noticed her pussy.

The new pussy at the table stands invitingly as she waves you out the door; simultaneously, the new perky titties at the counter thank you for the tip you always leave. Out of the parking lot and off to work you go, arriving at the office just as the bosses pussy looms over your desk looking for you. After she reminds you of what is due today, you're working feverishly for the 1pm deadline with the Marketing Pussies ... making good progress, you take a 5-minute break at the cooler to discuss the day's events with the few friendly regular titties and pussies that you've come to know well, over time.

At the 1pm meeting, they're all asses; but you know how to work them so you're relieved when it's all over and you head out to the gym for an hour of relaxation amongst the jiggling titties, cycling pussies, and stretching derrières.

Over time, you've honed your skill at recognizing people, not only from the daily view of their titties and pussies - but also from the correlation of their voices. So, it's not surprising that, back at your desk for a final wrap up, as a pleasant phone call comes late in the day from a new customer of yours, you start to imagine, from her voice alone, what her tittles are like, thinking wistfully that they're usually perkier on the higher-frequency voices and wider at the base for the deeper voices - but that it's not a hard-and-fast rule for titties as it is for pussies.

The bell rings, and then it's off to the beach for the 5pm rush - over the tit-shaped mountains - and onto the boardwalk by the pussy shaped inlet, where you stroll leisurely among the myriad pussies and titties in the crowd, looking for that familiar age-old friendly pussy of yours who said she'd meet you at 5:30pm sharp. You can almost smell her scent as she arrives, spreading her legs invitingly and opening her blouse wide in appreciation for your continued friendship together.




What is the point here? This to me is the perfect example of what women do not want - to be viewed as body parts. So unless I'm missing something there, kudos for getting it all exactly wrong. Throughout this entire thread most women are saying to men/other women....don't give us body parts when we want to know the person.




pompeii -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 12:06:21 PM)

> This to me is the perfect example of what women do not want -

Methinks you missed the opening statement ... "if things were reversed" ...




MissImmortalPain -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 12:16:09 PM)

General answer- Men are visual. Women are tactile. If you don't know the difference look it up.

Personal answer- If someone mails me a picture of his cock I assume that is all he has to offer. And seeing as dick is never hard to come by I would rather speak to someone that has more than just that to offer.




poise -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 12:27:37 PM)

We were just a bunch of dicks, hanging around hoping to get noticed. [:(]
When that failed, we had no choice but to take matters into our own hands
and we emailed our portrait to random strangers. We just need some love!


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tiggerspoohbear -> RE: What does it mean when a woman (versus a man) says they don't wish to see nudity? (8/27/2011 12:31:51 PM)

[sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif] Leave it to you SweetPea........... 




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